Sex Warning

[murmi97]

Is this one of those 'don't do what I did' things? I can't stand that bullshit. It's narcissistic and self important.

"Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it"

Well yeah, but it's not guaranteed or even more likely to be a bad, or even unpleasant lesson. Whether there's love and commitment or not, doesn't completely determine how someone's first time is - I'm a virgin too but, I've heard people say it was good either way and bad either way.

 

[Walley]

I think if you look at reality, it's never how you imagine things will work out.
the theory here seems to be to save yourself for your future wife, but since the 60's, that hasn't been a typical scenario.
typically we have a few girlfriends/boyfriends before we meet the one you stay with. and it is the correct way to do it, no matter what your religious leaders tell you.
you cannot really and truly know your mate until you are intimate and had a close intimate relationship for a period of time.
divorce rates in the 70's and 80's can show that easily. my parents where an example.
it's like how most of us later in life don't have the same friends as we did as children. sure some people do.. but its more of a rare case.
people grow and change and move through life at a different pace.

but really to sum it up.
how can you know if blue is your favorite color.. if blue is the only color you've ever seen?

 

[TropicalStarfish]

Is this one of those 'don't do what I did' things? I can't stand that bullshit. It's narcissistic and self important.

"Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it"

Right, it's not "those who don't learn from my past are doomed to repeat it."

Self important and narcissistic.

 

[Drew88]

Is this one of those 'don't do what I did' things? I can't stand that bullshit. It's narcissistic and self important.

"Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it"

Right, it's not "those who don't learn from my past are doomed to repeat it."

Self important and narcissistic.

Your funny, but I'm not taking your bait.

 

[Sterling]

Is this one of those 'don't do what I did' things? I can't stand that bullshit. It's narcissistic and self important.

"Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it"

Right, it's not "those who don't learn from my past are doomed to repeat it."

Self important and narcissistic.

^This.

 

[Drew88]

Is this one of those 'don't do what I did' things? I can't stand that bullshit. It's narcissistic and self important.

"Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it"

Right, it's not "those who don't learn from my past are doomed to repeat it."

Self important and narcissistic.

You're funny, but I'm not taking your bait.

^this

 

[lostatsea]

Is this one of those 'don't do what I did' things? I can't stand that bullshit. It's narcissistic and self important.

"Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it"

Right, it's not "those who don't learn from my past are doomed to repeat it."

Self important and narcissistic.

Your funny, but I'm not taking your bait.

^this

And now I shall break your back and forth bickering by saying "You're". Hell yeah for proper grammar! Woohoo!

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

People, virgins if there is one warning i have to stay is stay away from sex till marriage. If you don't it will destroy you and more so the more partners you have. It will come easier, but it will also become more disconnected. Remember how awkward it was yours or a partners or your 1st or close to 1st time? I now believe that you are suppose to grow with a partner, and if you can not do that sexually then it will be hard to keep that relationship. what fun if u tried everything or are good if you are not growing with one person. Its fun to be curious with somebody, but what if there is no curiosity? Also you will be less hurt after the break up if there was no sex compared to if there was. I speak from experience.

I wouldn't quantify that this is entirely accurate.

I'm somewhere between a voluntary and involuntary virgin. I've had chances to lose it, but decided to wait, because I wanted to be in love. This desire for a girlfriend before sex has led to me being a 31 year old virgin, so I'm not entirely convinced that I was successful at life.

Virginity really doesn't matter, but I think everyone has to live their own life. I probably would have turned out the same socially awkward person I am right now, if I had lost it at 16, because I was a socially awkward person at 16. It's in my genetics. And at least I have friends, who understand I'm an introvert and socially anxious person.

Life is too short to regret things, or to say "that person has it better!" We all have shitty lives in some way or another, but there are things in each of our lives that make it worth living.

 

[Drew88]

"Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it"

Right, it's not "those who don't learn from my past are doomed to repeat it."

Self important and narcissistic.

Your funny, but I'm not taking your bait.

^this

And now I shall break your back and forth bickering by saying "You're". Hell yeah for proper grammar! Woohoo!

M'eh Grammar is overrated. Thanks for pointing out though.