What are you feeling, hoping, thinking, or remembering right now?

[Abstamyous]

I must be the only person in the world who actually enjoyed The league of extraordinary gentlemen

I want to love that movie. I love the cast and the characters. I love the potential.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Sure keep telling yourself that m'lady!

Actually I am curious, what happened to cherubino?

Cherubino is @Papagenox

 

[TheRealCallie]

I remember back in the good days when someone would make a thread for two people who were constantly hijacking every thread.

 

[0mgofhappiness]

Say anything you want to here. Doesn't matter what it's about as long as it’s about you and it’s kept reasonably short.




Sad..........

When a man didn't believe that I was female and told his friends I was a pest to him saying I was a cross dresser. Trying to dress me up in male clothes.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

When a man didn't believe that I was female and told his friends I was a pest to him saying I was a cross dresser. Trying to dress me up in male clothes.

Are you a cross dresser?

 

[0mgofhappiness]

Are you a cross dresser?

No, I like big baggy t shirts etc..sometimes prefer mens style..that does not mean I want to be a man. Maybe people think I am a man because of the way I dress. If I wanted or even was a cross dresser I would admit it..no point in hiding what you want to be. I would cross dresser amd be proud. I think it's rude when those that are open about being a cross dresser get called a freak tbh. That's what they want to be don't ridicule them for it.

In short. No I am not a cross dresser by way of that I want to be a man. I prefer some male styles because I am quite a tubby female and it covers the lumps and bumps. People should not assume that just because I prefer that cut of jeans or style it means I am cross dressing as some sort of weird kink. I love dresses. I just don't wear them because I am not dieting hard enough.
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[HellsLittleAngel]

No, I like big baggy t shirts etc..sometimes prefer mens style..that does not mean I want to be a man. Maybe people think I am a man because of the way I dress. If I wanted or even was a cross dresser I would admit it..no point in hiding what you want to be. I would cross dresser amd be proud. I think it's rude when those that are open about being a cross dresser get called a freak tbh. That's what they want to be don't ridicule them for it.

In short. No I am not a cross dresser by way of that I want to be a man. I prefer some male styles because I am quite a tubby female and it covers the lumps and bumps. People should not assume that just because I prefer that cut of jeans or style it means I am cross dressing as some sort of weird kink. I love dresses. I just don't wear them because I am not dieting hard enough.
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I hear you. I wear hoodies, hoodies on my head, baggy sweats, t-shirts, and girlie things too. I don't care how others view me. I'm a plus-sized woman, so understand where you're coming from, but if you're happy with yourself, nothing matters. Hope you feel better.

 

[0mgofhappiness]

I hear you. I wear hoodies, hoodies on my head, baggy sweats, t-shirts, and girlie things too. I don't care how others view me. I'm a plus-sized woman, so understand where you're coming from, but if you're happy with yourself, nothing matters. Hope you feel better.

No. I am middle aged it's harder to lose weight from certain areas of the body. I have serious middle aged spread. And no I am not happy with myself. No point in hoping

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

No. I am middle aged it's harder to lose weight from certain areas of the body. I have serious middle aged spread. And no I am not happy with myself. No point in hoping

Okay. I'm 42 and have my own issues, as well as self-esteem issues. But, I still choose to see different.

 

[okidoke]

No. I am middle aged it's harder to lose weight from certain areas of the body. I have serious middle aged spread. And no I am not happy with myself. No point in hoping

Are you willing to work on yourself? Would you rather be leaner? Would that make you feel better?

 

[0mgofhappiness]

Okay. I'm 42 and have my own issues, as well as self-esteem issues. But, I still choose to see different.

Yes you probably have a partner that loves you

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Yes you probably have a partner that loves you

I love myself way more than anyone would.

 

[okidoke]

No. I am middle aged it's harder to lose weight from certain areas of the body. I have serious middle aged spread. And no I am not happy with myself. No point in hoping

You haven’t responded to my last question but further to that, I can tell you for a fact that there are plenty of guys who like larger women, so to say “no point in hoping” is just nonsense.

 

[0mgofhappiness]

Are you willing to work on yourself? Would you rather be leaner? Would that make you feel better?

The usual gripes that put men off. Cellulite, saggy ****s, bingo wings. My last partner didn't like taking me to bed anymore. Someone younger came along who was more toned and had a whiter smile etcm she was also inherited twenties. Me being nearly 50. I can't love myself because men just don't go for that these days. Women on only fans know that men are their prey. And the men will whimper at the beauty and fall for them. It's a harsh reality. I wish I could love myself because there or more twenty years old women on the market for the older guys I go for. I want an older guy but they want and know they can have younger women even if they have to pay form them. I mean there is a cult that buys virgins FFS . I can't ven do that I lost my virginity four times ! So no man. No life for me.

I think being leaner is the least of my problems although it might help.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

The usual gripes that put men off. Cellulite, saggy ****s, bingo wings. My last partner didn't like taking me to bed anymore. Someone younger came along who was more toned and had a whiter smile etcm she was also inherited twenties. Me being nearly 50. I can't love myself because men just don't go for that these days. Women on only fans know that men are their prey. And the men will whimper at the beauty and fall for them. It's a harsh reality. I wish I could love myself because there or more twenty years old women on the market for the older guys I go for. I want an older guy but they want and know they can have younger women even if they have to pay form them. I mean there is a cult that buys virgins FFS . I can't ven do that I lost my virginity four times ! So no man. No life for me.

I think being leaner is the least of my problems although it might help.

I think you worry too much about having a man, when you really need to have yourself before anyone. It sounds to me like you seriously need to work on yourself before being with anyone. Your life shouldn't revolve around a man. It's nice to have one, but it's better to have yourself and find happiness within yourself, or you'll never be happy. You can fill the void all day with destructive behaviors, but at the end of the day, it's just a short-lived happiness from what really lies beneath.

 

[0mgofhappiness]

I think you worry too much about having a man, when you really need to have yourself before anyone. It sounds to me like you seriously need to work on yourself before being with anyone. Your life shouldn't revolve around a man. It's nice to have one, but it's better to have yourself and find happiness within yourself, or you'll never be happy. You can fill the void all day with destructive behaviors, but at the end of the day, it's just a short-lived happiness from what really lies beneath.

Some women's jobs rely on men to like them though.it is a man's world. Yes you have mentioned love yourself on quite a few occasions. I'm not sure if that will ever be. Just as I feel I need a man. You feel that loving yourself is the best course of action. We don't think the same. You don't think it's right I want a man. I don't thinkmits right to love yourself. What? We dress up as a groom and a bride at the alter and organise a vicar to marry ourselves ? I don't think I could do that. Did a vicar marry you to yourself?

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Some women's jobs rely on men to like them though.it is a man's world. Yes you have mentioned love yourself on quite a few occasions. I'm not sure if that will ever be. Just as I feel I need a man. You feel that loving yourself is the best course of action. We don't think the same. You don't think it's right I want a man. I don't thinkmits right to love yourself. What? We dress up as a groom and a bride at the alter and organise a vicar to marry ourselves ? I don't think I could do that. Did a vicar marry you to yourself?

You need to work on yourself. Take care.

 

[kaetic]

Some women's jobs rely on men to like them though.it is a man's world. Yes you have mentioned love yourself on quite a few occasions. I'm not sure if that will ever be. Just as I feel I need a man. You feel that loving yourself is the best course of action. We don't think the same. You don't think it's right I want a man. I don't thinkmits right to love yourself. What? We dress up as a groom and a bride at the alter and organise a vicar to marry ourselves ? I don't think I could do that. Did a vicar marry you to yourself?

Let's say you get a man... Then what?
What exactly do you think that's going to fix?
He's not going to make you healthier or happier.
You have to do that for yourself.

You're missing what she meant by "love yourself".
Love yourself enough to take care of yourself. If you want a happy relationship... You need to work on yourself as well. You can't rely on someone else to come along and save you.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Let's say you get a man... Then what?
What exactly do you think that's going to fix?
He's not going to make you healthier or happier.
You have to do that for yourself.

You're missing what she meant by "love yourself".
Love yourself enough to take care of yourself. If you want a happy relationship... You need to work on yourself as well. You can't rely on someone else to come along and save you.

This right here! On point.

 

[0mgofhappiness]

Let's say you get a man... Then what?
What exactly do you think that's going to fix?
He's not going to make you healthier or happier.
You have to do that for yourself.

You're missing what she meant by "love yourself".
Love yourself enough to take care of yourself. If you want a happy relationship... You need to work on yourself as well. You can't rely on someone else to come along and save you.

Yeah you are right. I think it's the feeling of being loved I miss. Not the man. Yes. 'then what' a perfect perspective. I have been divorced for ten years nearly so I don't actually know. I think that's why encounters post divorce have not turned out well. He told me I was not unlike a blow up doll but a blow up doll would have been better. Not something I experienced in my marriage, my husband loved to be intimate with me. That's what I miss