What are you thinking right now?

[Solivagant]

Really? Then this quote should mean something to you:

"Remember, Red [remenber, soli], hope is a good thing. Maybe the best of things."


Don't give up hope. You'll arrive eventually.

Yes, I remember that quote. ^_^ Not sure I've ever agreed with it though.

 

[daughter of the moon]

Really? Then this quote should mean something to you:

"Remember, Red [remenber, soli], hope is a good thing. Maybe the best of things."


Don't give up hope. You'll arrive eventually.

Yes, I remember that quote. ^_^ Not sure I've ever agreed with it though.

Well, but I do. Hope's kept me alive for 32 years. There's nothing without hope. *hug*

Since we seem to like some of the same movies, why don't you check out the "cat on a hot tin roof"? Not sure if theres a remake, but im talking about the original (Newman/Taylor). This is my all-time favorite. Something about all those unleashed emotions is strangely comforting.

 

[Solivagant]

Well, but I do. Hope's kept me alive for 32 years. There's nothing without hope. *hug*

Hope kept me alive for about 22 years. Now I don't know what's keeping me alive; but it's definitely not hope.

Since we seem to like some of the same movies, why don't you check out the "cat on a hot tin roof"? Not sure if theres a remake, but im talking about the original (Newman/Taylor). This is my all-time favorite. Something about all those unleashed emotions is strangely comforting.

Thanks for the suggestion, I will! =]

 

[daughter of the moon]

Hope kept me alive for about 22 years. Now I don't know what's keeping me alive; but it's definitely not hope.

22.... sigh.

I was miserable at 22 as well. But I can guarantee you that EVERYTHING in your life is going to change over and over again between here and ten years from now. There'll be happy times. There'll be a year that you'll think back of as the single best year of your life (for me it was 28).
You'll be miserable again, too, but you'll realize that NOTHING - EVER - stays the same. Ten years from now you'll be giving this lecture to someone a decade younger than you

Just keep going, because you know what, movie lover? "Who knows what the tide may bring?"

(Can you place it?)

 

[Locke]

Guess I messed that up. Big surprise there.....

Can the guy who's been deeply depressed lately maybe get a little slack from peope? I know I screw up. Sorry.

 

[Solivagant]

22.... sigh.

I was miserable at 22 as well. But I can guarantee you that EVERYTHING in your life is going to change over and over again between here and ten years from now. There'll be happy times. There'll be a year that you'll think back of as the single best year of your life (for me it was 28).
You'll be miserable again, too, but you'll realize that NOTHING - EVER - stays the same. Ten years from now you'll be giving this lecture to someone a decade younger than you

Just keep going, because you know what, movie lover? "Who knows what the tide may bring?"

(Can you place it?)

Well I'm not 22 anymore, that was several years ago. So far I'm still waiting for the happy times, and my life basically has remained stagnant, for almost 10 years at least. So I'm afraid it's a little hard for me to become enthused by the pep talks people give out. Thanks for trying though, I appreciate that you care.

 

[daughter of the moon]

22.... sigh.

I was miserable at 22 as well. But I can guarantee you that EVERYTHING in your life is going to change over and over again between here and ten years from now. There'll be happy times. There'll be a year that you'll think back of as the single best year of your life (for me it was 28).
You'll be miserable again, too, but you'll realize that NOTHING - EVER - stays the same. Ten years from now you'll be giving this lecture to someone a decade younger than you

Just keep going, because you know what, movie lover? "Who knows what the tide may bring?"

(Can you place it?)

Well I'm not 22 anymore, that was several years ago. So far I'm still waiting for the happy times, and my life basically has remained stagnant, for almost 10 years at least. So I'm afraid it's a little hard for me to become enthused by the pep talks people give out. Thanks for trying though, I appreciate that you care.

Then maybe it's time for YOU to change SOMETHING about your life? Take a plunge Do something big and scary. I moved once all the way to the US and back. It was a miserable year (lol! except for Taco Bell ), but I came back knowing one thing I had to change. And I did, and it was good.
Change something. It's your own duty to yourself.

 

[Solivagant]

Then maybe it's time for YOU to change SOMETHING about your life? Take a plunge Do something big and scary. I moved once all the way to the US and back. It was a miserable year (lol! except for Taco Bell ), but I came back knowing one thing I had to change. And I did, and it was good.
Change something. It's your own duty to yourself.

It's not as though I've made no efforts. I've tried everything I can think of (that is actually feasible). I'm open to new suggestions.

 

[daughter of the moon]

Then maybe it's time for YOU to change SOMETHING about your life? Take a plunge Do something big and scary. I moved once all the way to the US and back. It was a miserable year (lol! except for Taco Bell ), but I came back knowing one thing I had to change. And I did, and it was good.
Change something. It's your own duty to yourself.

It's not as though I've made no efforts. I've tried everything I can think of (that is actually feasible). I'm open to new suggestions.

Well, I'm always quick with suggestions, but I'd need a more detailed account of your life. lol Maybe some other time then? Are you on Facebook?

 

[zero]

It's not as though I've made no efforts. I've tried everything I can think of (that is actually feasible). I'm open to new suggestions.

Maybe stop thinking so much?

 

[Rosebolt]

This is painful to watch. Is ignoring him really the only option?

 

[daughter of the moon]

It's not as though I've made no efforts. I've tried everything I can think of (that is actually feasible). I'm open to new suggestions.

Maybe stop thinking so much?

There's actually a lot of truth in this, at least as far as I am concerned. I usually can't just leave it at feeling something; I have to actually (involuntarily) spend hours thinking about how I'm feeling, thus making it so much worse and blowing things out of proportion. I don't know how to stop myself though. How do you stop yourself from thinking?

 

[Peaches]

how can some people be so full of self entitlement

 

[daughter of the moon]

It hurts though, seeing two people so obviously in love but not being able to get together.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I visited a dodgy site, and ended up with virus warnings. This on my new and beautiful Macbook Pro.

I'm running virus scans, and I probably won't find anything, since it's a Mac. But I'm annoyed and disgusted with myself.

 

[Triple Bogey]

I visited a dodgy site, and ended up with virus warnings. This on my new and beautiful Macbook Pro.

I'm running virus scans, and I probably won't find anything, since it's a Mac. But I'm annoyed and disgusted with myself.

I think everybody does that

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I visited a dodgy site, and ended up with virus warnings. This on my new and beautiful Macbook Pro.

I'm running virus scans, and I probably won't find anything, since it's a Mac. But I'm annoyed and disgusted with myself.

I think everybody does that

Yes, and it has happened to me before. On my Windows computer, I've literally had 3 trojans eating the hard drive until it was down to 0% and I was unable to run anything...MalwareBytes on a USB saved the day.

I'm hoping that Avast for Mac will do the job. It's been running for 3 hours, full system scan, and hasn't found anything yet. It did block something when I visited the dodgy site, though.

 

[daughter of the moon]

Earlier this year, around spring, a then-work colleague/friend said to me that she believed I was going to find love this year. She said it'd be either someone I'd meet this year or someone I already know. I don't think I'll ever forget those words. I mean, it's not going to happen, obviously..... T-30 days...... but it was sweet. It was a moment of hope. It was probably the closest I'll ever get again to really finding something...

 

[Solivagant]

Earlier this year, around spring, a then-work colleague/friend said to me that she believed I was going to find love this year. She said it'd be either someone I'd meet this year or someone I already know. I don't think I'll ever forget those words. I mean, it's not going to happen, obviously..... T-30 days...... but it was sweet. It was a moment of hope. It was probably the closest I'll ever get again to really finding something...

^ Someone said the same thing to me in 2011, lol.

Don't despair yet. =] It would be nice if love could be predicted, but unfortunately you have to plod along never knowing exactly when or if it will happen.

 

[daughter of the moon]

^ Someone said the same thing to me in 2011, lol.

LOL
That kinda robs it of its magic....