Triple Bogey said:
Peaches said:
try meeting other kinds of people? I guess this is a pretty cliche' comment
where I live - it's all they do !
I don't fancy moving. It's a working class thing. How they are brought up. Sitting in a pub all day.
Yea, it's about the same here too. The majority of people around here are exactly like this - go to work, go home, go to the bar or club, watch sports or comedy. Rinse, wash, repeat. I don't relate because I'm just not interested in any of that. The only interest I have that overlaps with most people is cars, and even then, we probably don't like them in quite the same way. I have a lot of different interests, but a lot of them contradict each other.
Then again, I don't fit in with most subcultures either. And there's a few subcultures that I really don't like - the ones that are all about being "tough" or "cool". I don't like desperados, I don't like wankster dude-bros, I don't like actual "gangstas", I don't like hipsters. I don't like clubbing people. I don't like to use the term "nerd" because it started as an insult, but in spite of my interests, I can only take so much of "nerdy" people as well - I feel like they way they are is a limitation. I don't like most people who are into drugs. But at the same time, I don't really fit in with "nice" people either, because that's all they are - they're just nice. They don't actually do much of anything themselves. They never seem to have anything to say that I find too interesting.
And every time I think I meet a girl like me, a person with eclectic interests, I fail because I'm not very interesting myself. It's like I'm caught in limbo between who I am and who I want to be.