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Things are already better. I'm aty sister's now, and the recent events help bring about an epiphany on the drive over.
 
ladyforsaken said:
I'm going to take some time to reply to PMs so I hope those affected will understand. Sometimes we just need the right frame of mind to respond properly and I'd rather give a good proper reply than one that isn't. I do appreciate all of you on this forum.

Im sure everyone will understand. Sometimes I wa days to return a PM so I can respond with more than six words.
 
Family, Food, Fun...? Why did that make me feel so goddamned miserable? What is it about these 'special occasions' that feels like it tears my soul apart? Is it that they highlight who I am, where I am, what I've done? What I'm not? What I lack? I don't know of a drug strong enough to numb the feeling of waste.


Well, that was a very thoughtful gift from my sister and bro-in-law - a pick-six of microbrews. Mostly ale though. I'm more the lager type. Although admittedly, that Dirty Blonde was pretty good...
 
EveWasFramed said:
It's foolish to put your faith and trust in someone you don't really know.
I've learned a hard (but good )lesson.

I've had to learn that one the hard way, too.
 
ladyforsaken said:
I'm going to take some time to reply to PMs so I hope those affected will understand. Sometimes we just need the right frame of mind to respond properly and I'd rather give a good proper reply than one that isn't. I do appreciate all of you on this forum.


+1
 
jd7 said:
Family, Food, Fun...? Why did that make me feel so goddamned miserable? What is it about these 'special occasions' that feels like it tears my soul apart? Is it that they highlight who I am, where I am, what I've done? What I'm not? What I lack? I don't know of a drug strong enough to numb the feeling of waste.

I know what you mean, but I think that it's in how you look at it. In a different frame of mind, I could have spent this evening at my sister's in a cloud of failure if I held her happiness and her successful relationship up as the benchmark for what I am "supposed" to be.

Screw "supposed to."


jd7 said:
Well, that was a very thoughtful gift from my sister and bro-in-law - a pick-six of microbrews. Mostly ale though. I'm more the lager type. Although admittedly, that Dirty Blonde was pretty good...

There's a joke in there somewhere...
 
EveWasFramed said:
mountainvista said:
EveWasFramed said:
It's foolish to put your faith and trust in someone you don't really know.
I've learned a hard (but good )lesson.

I've had to learn that one the hard way, too.

I count it a very valuable lesson. One I won't soon forget.

Sorry you've had a bad experience, Eve, but don't let it taint your belief in humanity. I don't really know anyone here, but there are some members that I trust implicitly.
 
user 130057 said:
EveWasFramed said:
mountainvista said:
EveWasFramed said:
It's foolish to put your faith and trust in someone you don't really know.
I've learned a hard (but good )lesson.

I've had to learn that one the hard way, too.

I count it a very valuable lesson. One I won't soon forget.

Sorry you've had a bad experience, Eve, but don't let it taint your belief in humanity. I don't really know anyone here, but there are some members that I trust implicitly.

It wasn't the first time and it won't be the last, user 130057. It doesn't taint my belief in humanity either. I should be more careful about trusting people too soon. I think it's a good self-preservation method. That's not a dig at anyone either...just something I should have learned long before now. That's my fault - no one else's.
 
EveWasFramed said:
It's foolish to put your faith and trust in someone you don't really know.
I've learned a hard (but good )lesson.

more lessons? enough, you are so knowledgeable already
 
Peaches said:
EveWasFramed said:
It's foolish to put your faith and trust in someone you don't really know.
I've learned a hard (but good )lesson.

more lessons? enough, you are so knowledgeable already

I have much left to learn. I look forward to it and hope I never stop learning lessons. :D
 

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