Several times already this morning, I've had the urge to complain, but without doing anything to solve the issue.
The thing is, after I've cursed out the tough guys, called them every name in the book and even made up a few new ones, after I've pointed out all the ways in which they actually suck and I am better (or at least have the potential to be), I feel like I've done something about it but I really haven't.
Complaining about it won't make the social trend go away. I can't fight it. I can't just tell the girls I like, "Stop liking tough guys, they are stupid. Like me instead." Nobody likes being told what to do. I need to outsmart it. That's always been my strength, if I had one. Brains, not brawn. I need to use my brains and come out on top.