VanillaCreme
Well-known member
Uhh, how about you tell your son to get up and go do something? This is his household, too. For nearly 30 years, you've not put the thought in his mind one tiny bit that he has to work to maintain a household. You thought it was alright to treat him like a 4 year old, and you still do. This is not my household. I'm not going to work my fingers to the bone for it. When I do that, it'll be for my own home. Not yours. So, I don't know what to tell you if you refuse to make him responsible for anything. And he's the one talking about he wants babies and kids. Not without any way to support them, you don't. Not with me anyway.
If you and your family want him to get married and have babies without a steady job, then I'll step out so he can find someone stupid enough to do that with him without any source of a secured income. Because I'm not the one. He knows exactly how I am. I never hid how I was. He knew from the start how I felt about certain things. I wouldn't mind having kids, but I'm not getting married. Get over it. And don't expect me to feel bad because you've treated him like a toddler and never held any standard up to him.
If you and your family want him to get married and have babies without a steady job, then I'll step out so he can find someone stupid enough to do that with him without any source of a secured income. Because I'm not the one. He knows exactly how I am. I never hid how I was. He knew from the start how I felt about certain things. I wouldn't mind having kids, but I'm not getting married. Get over it. And don't expect me to feel bad because you've treated him like a toddler and never held any standard up to him.