What are you thinking right now?

[user 130057]

Gnnnr. Why do you put yourself through this?!

Well for starters you really should not pick on the crazy cat lady....

I cannot blame you for my exercise regime... and you'd be devastated if I stopped sending you those messages. That's a tail I can see, right?

 

[Peaches]

facebook hypocrisy: someone I haven't seen or heard from for 20 years and who for one year found excuses not to see me when I moved back to her town called me "her great friend" - also another one - why do I keep forgetting to change the settings so they can't see what I write? I thought I did. And why don't delete them already? it's that I don't actually have nothing against them, just wouldn't call them "friends". It's kind of invasive to see writing affectionate things on my wall. Maybe we are friends, in their minds. People are weird.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Sometimes, I just don't care. I was doing so good, too. But if it's not one thing, it's another. People who say they have your back work against you. And I never had a shot to begin with. The stamp of not approving me was long placed before I even came into the picture. But that's okay. Because I know that it's not me. That's all on you's.

 

[BreakingtheGirl]

I believe he's scared... that he can't give me what I want. I am close to 30 & he's barely hitting mid 20s. There's too much going on in his head. I don't blame him.
That's the first & last time I date a younger guy. I'd rather have it be the last time I date, period. Cannot emotionally deal w this honeysuckle. I stop eating, stop sleeping, stop caring about myself. I cannot rekindle...no matter what happens. Not as soul crushed as last time, because I think I knew this would come. It still hurts to see a love that was hot and bright as flames be extinguished to nothing.

 

[Serenia]

Gnnnr. Why do you put yourself through this?!

Well for starters you really should not pick on the crazy cat lady....

I cannot blame you for my exercise regime... and you'd be devastated if I stopped sending you those messages. That's a tail I can see, right?

Ha ha....oh what's that...no it's not a tail, it's a finger on both hands now, pointing towards yonder mountains....

 

[Aisha]

Chocolate. As far as the eye can see. A slight exaggeration, but it's my own fault I let it melt everywhere. Not anymore though.

I don't know if I should bring up the topic of autism with them. I'm not sure how they'd react to being told something like that, no matter how gently I break it to them. I saw it immediately but parents- understandably- particularly first time parents, can be blinded by their love and affection and be unwilling to come out of denial when it concerns something of this nature. I know the teachers recognized it. Perhaps I should do what she said and leave it to the counselor. But they'll definitely ask why I didn't tell them when I knew all along. Why we all didn't. I just want to do what's right for N and for them, whatever anyone says. Conundrums.

 

[Triple Bogey]

I've joined two photographs groups on Facebook.
Put a few photo's on there and got some likes.
I wonder how long before somebody insults me !

Photographs??? Insults??? Nah, I can't identify with that because it would never happen to me. Never!

Okay but you also said nobody would care when you had your knee operation and you was wrong about that !

People do care about you on here !

 

[ladyforsaken]

^Yup!

 

[user 130057]

I hate meter readers.

 

[Serenia]

I hate meter readers.

I have a cat or two that will attack them for you...

 

[user 115627]

Cyanide is actually preferable.

 

[BeyondShy]

People do care about you on here !

Really??

^Yup!

^Yup!

 

[Triple Bogey]

People do care about you on here !

Really??

^Yup!

^Yup!

Why don't go and have a look at the good will messages from people on here wishing you all the best about your knee operation ?

 

[user 115627]

People do care about you on here !

Really??

Wait, was your linked post from that thread evidence for or against that statement?

 

[BeyondShy]

Why don't go and have a look at the good will messages from people on here wishing you all the best about your knee operation ?

Shouldn't you be taking more pictures now?

Wait, was your linked post from that thread evidence for or against that statement?

Against. Some people could stub a toe on here and they'd get ten people asking if they were ok. I take a fall after my knee operation and nothing was said. Depends on who you are. They don't like it? Too bad. It's on them.

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

Against. Some people could stub a toe on here and they'd get ten people asking if they were ok. I take a fall after my knee operation and nothing was said. Depends on who you are. They don't like it? Too bad. It's on them.

That person with the stubbed toe is probably not out to bite people who wish them well.

 

[user 115627]

Against. Some people could stub a toe on here and they'd get ten people asking if they were ok. I take a fall after my knee operation and nothing was said. Depends on who you are. They don't like it? Too bad. It's on them.

Well, I kinda get it. Pardon if I got a bit of a looking-in-from-the-outside perspective cause personally I got an aversion to care and I made that pretty clear, so I'm not getting anything either. Of course it depends on who you are but more importantly, how you acted. I told you before, it's about the reputation to me - even if you are trying to do better now, people don't forget so easily. I know I don't, but occasionally I give people time to prove themselves. The concern of others is something that needs to be earned...and even if you do earn it, you can't stand there with a stopwatch waiting.

I saw your reactions to some people's care and they seemed awfully fickle on occasions. Like if they don't care, they're accused of favouritism and if they do they aren't serious, are just being nice and so on. If you don't want people stringing you up for your past behavior, you can't do the same to them.

That person with the stubbed toe is probably not out to bite people who wish them well.

Good point.

 

[BeyondShy]

That person with the stubbed toe is probably not out to bite people who wish them well.

Gee, thanks.

 

[Triple Bogey]

Why don't go and have a look at the good will messages from people on here wishing you all the best about your knee operation ?

Shouldn't you be taking more pictures now?

You are a dick, sir !

Wait, was your linked post from that thread evidence for or against that statement?

Against. Some people could stub a toe on here and they'd get ten people asking if they were ok. I take a fall after my knee operation and nothing was said. Depends on who you are. They don't like it? Too bad. It's on them.

 

[BeyondShy]

Well, I kinda get it. Pardon if I got a bit of a looking-in-from-the-outside perspective cause personally I got an aversion to care and I made that pretty clear, so I'm not getting anything either. Of course it depends on who you are but more importantly, how you acted. I told you before, it's about the reputation to me - even if you are trying to do better now, people don't forget so easily. I know I don't, but occasionally I give people time to prove themselves. The concern of others is something that needs to be earned...and even if you do earn it, you can't stand there with a stopwatch waiting.

No, that's fine. Sometimes its better to have a looking-in-from-the-outside perspective because that way you see both sides.

Hey, I know how I acted before. I was very cautious when I first got here even though I was joining a community that I thought had people that felt the same way I do about things and that meant how you felt about yourself and how you interacted with others. And in a sense I feel I found the right place.

But even though I felt I should have been "one of them" so to speak they never made me feel that way. People didn't ask me jackshit about myself but I saw them do it with others and right or wrong that got me more defensive.

You say people in here don't forget so easily? That's another thing I got in common with them because I have one hell of a memory. I don't know if that is a blessing or a curse.

I saw your reactions to some people's care and they seemed awfully fickle on occasions. Like if they don't care, they're accused of favouritism and if they do they aren't serious, are just being nice and so on. If you don't want people stringing you up for your past behavior, you can't do the same to them.

There is a lot of phony niceness in here Rodent. I don't know if you have seen it or not but something tells me you have. I have never learned to play that game properly. If you are not nice to me or you have just pretended to be nice to me like some people have I won't act like I don't know what is going on. Those people that have been decent with me I make sure to be that way back to them. I think that's the only way to be.

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Why don't go and have a look at the good will messages from people on here wishing you all the best about your knee operation ?

Shouldn't you be taking more pictures now?

You are a dick, sir !

Wait, was your linked post from that thread evidence for or against that statement?

Against. Some people could stub a toe on here and they'd get ten people asking if they were ok. I take a fall after my knee operation and nothing was said. Depends on who you are. They don't like it? Too bad. It's on them.

You quoted the post incorrectly there but I still saw it. Thanks for your opinion. It's ok.