What are you thinking right now?

[Paraiyar]

Whenever I meet a woman from Europe, talking to them seems to always leave me wondering if it's been who I am that has been the problem all along or if it's actually the culture of my country that's the problem. I'm starting to get the suspicion that the latter is no small factor.

Maybe obsessing over european women is the problem. I find it funny that you dont even include that as a possibility.

Not obessed over them, it was more a general point about how culture can affect these things a lot.

 

[Jently]

Yes it's a coincidence you mentioning how culture affects the general personality and demeanour of people, as I was having a conversation about this over Christmas. A brother-in-law always has relationships with women from one country in particular (won't say which one, as I don't want to turn this into a war) but they are generally very different from the women here in England which he seems to find attractive so I think your suspicion may be valid and you are attracted to some of the inherent persona of European women.

 

[DarkSelene]

Jealousy is the most irrational feeling I can think of, hate it.

 

[tsar]

People are overrated. Make a mistake you the biggest f### in history.

 

[user 115627]

That's why I don't have any guy friends to talk about stuff, don't I?

So you need a penis to be considered a guy? Sexist. Or whatever the right -ist would be.

I didn't even call them penis-carriers, you just asserted that guys have to have penises. You...transphobe.

 

[Locke]

I can't sleep...

I'm thinking about this guy I work with. Whenever something goes horribly wrong (which happens fairly often), he might rant for a minute. Then he'll smile in the goofiest way possible, laugh and say "It's all good, Locke!". We'll then get busy fixing whatever went wrong while telling jokes and talking. No matter what happens, he's always happy to be alive and among friends. I wish I could be a little more like him.

 

[Aisha]

That's why I don't have any guy friends to talk about stuff, don't I?

So you need a penis to be considered a guy? Sexist. Or whatever the right -ist would be.

I didn't even call them penis-carriers, you just asserted that guys have to have penises. You...transphobe.

I knew you'd be pedantic enough to utilize the accurate, non-generic term of insult.

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

Before you cry "oh poor me, people are awful" again....take a good ******* look in the mirror and see how much of an ****** you have been. Yes, you being a ******* makes people not want to talk to you. Can't handle yourself? Then get lost.

 

[tsar]

Before you cry "oh poor me, people are awful" again....take a good ******* look in the mirror and see how much of an ****** you have been. Yes, you being a ******* makes people not want to talk to you. Can't handle yourself? Then get lost.

Don't worry I will get lost.  no one realizes what I am going through on a daily basis. But its fine.

 

[Hopetracer]

I can't sleep...

I'm thinking about this guy I work with.  Whenever something goes horribly wrong (which happens fairly often), he might rant for a minute.  Then he'll smile in the goofiest way possible, laugh and say "It's all good, Locke!".  We'll then get busy fixing whatever went wrong while telling jokes and talking.  No matter what happens, he's always happy to be alive and among friends.  I wish I could be a little more like him.

It's really nice to be around someone who inspires positive outlook. Glad for you.

 

[Oldyoung]

DarkSelene's posts reminds me a bit of ladyforsaken's.

...Maybe "they" are the same person?

Also, I feel like I'm hibernating again. Not good.

 

[Hopetracer]

DarkSelene's posts reminds me a bit of ladyforsaken's.

...Maybe "they" are the same person?

Also, I feel like I'm hibernating again. Not good.

Did you find Ladyforsaken's twin sister?

 

[DarkSelene]

^ I want to know the other theories you have for this. Haha

 

[tsar]

I lost a friend a really enjoyed having around. It was my fault I see that now. I wish you the best and hope you have a good life I'll always consider you a friend.

I am tired of the way I have been. Time to be the caring guy I was.

 

[user 115627]

That's why I don't have any guy friends to talk about stuff, don't I?

So you need a penis to be considered a guy? Sexist. Or whatever the right -ist would be.

I didn't even call them penis-carriers, you just asserted that guys have to have penises. You...transphobe.

I knew you'd be pedantic enough to utilize the accurate, non-generic term of insult.

Certainly, I'm not easing up during the holidays. Who do you think I am...

 

[Aisha]

That's why I don't have any guy friends to talk about stuff, don't I?

So you need a penis to be considered a guy? Sexist. Or whatever the right -ist would be.

I didn't even call them penis-carriers, you just asserted that guys have to have penises. You...transphobe.

I knew you'd be pedantic enough to utilize the accurate, non-generic term of insult.

Certainly, I'm not easing up during the holidays. Who do you think I am...

A pedantic sexist transphobe.

 

[user 115627]

A pedantic sexist transphobe.

...nope, I think I got enough of this.

 

[Aisha]

...nope, I think I got enough of this.

You're welcome.
#winning

 

[trueth]

It sucks when you feel you can't tell people things

 

[TheSkaFish]

I read today in an article that attraction is supposed to be natural and easy. But what if I was a mess when I met the women I liked, didn't put my best foot forward and made lots of mistakes but what if I could change? And what if the only women who are receptive to me, aren't anyone that I am attracted to, interested in talking with, curious about, or excited by in any way? I'm just supposed to resign myself to misery and defeat? What the hell kind of answer is that?