Exactly!
I don't know...I'm hoping I can manage to keep things going well, but that little unwanted voice of doubt keeps trying to creep in sometimes.
I don't know the solution. But, the mind will tend to notice that which it is preoccupied with, more often, than what it is not. Like if I mention car tires, you might be more likely to take notice of car tires today. heh
I think there is 4 factors at play.
1: the nature of a mind that is used to experiencing negative events, is more likely to be preoccupied with them, and therefore increases the likelyhood of them happening.
2: Our karma (as in our actions). This kind of ties into #1, but, if we have past actions, and unconscious behavioral patterns that reinforce negative outcomes, it's just statistically more likely that good fortune is merely a fluke.
3: Our perception and our approach. Some one who has trained themselves very well, may view something as serious as a cancer diagnosis as merely a minor setback to their overall enjoyment of life. While, another person, may view spilling hot coffee on themselves as something that ruins their whole day, or even their whole week. mind over matter.
4: and then, this one is about acceptance, and kind of ties into 1, and 3. If we can accept good fortune, AND, accept that it may be temporary, we can enjoy it more fully; in that, the worry of future misfortune subtracts from the present good fortune.
So, I suppose...
1: We can train ourselves to notice our negative preoccupations, and work towards altering them.
2: We can try to notice our unconscious behavioral patterns, and work towards optimizing positive outcomes, on the micro, and macro scales, short and long term (while also accepting those things which we can not alter: karma that must be lived out and experienced)
3: We can notice and try to alter and improve our perception.
4: We can try to notice and alter our predictive and worrying mind, to try and tame it more to our liking, rather than our dread.