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I am thinking this thread is a good idea, and that I wish I could meet someone through this thread who would just love to hang out and be my friend. And genuinely have the same interests that I do, not just rotting away on drugs like a lot of my other friends. They do drugs and are complete waste-cases but they've so many friends and connections because I suppose its easy to be nice to everyone when you're messed off your nut. You aren't paying attention to how much you hate them, or pity them for what they're hiding behind thanks to lack of experience. I think children should be forced to suffer for a long time to be psychologically scarred as I am, so that every single child grows up with a deep-seated empathy. I could never hurt another person unless they've already really hurt me. Blurgh.

That was emotional mental liquid crap.
 
Why can't friends just stay in your life ain't that what friendships are for to grow. And be there for each other through thick and thin. Why can't I just keep friends they always come in and out of my life.
 
Mikey193 said:
Why can't friends just stay in your life ain't that what friendships are for to grow. And be there for each other through thick and thin. Why can't I just keep friends they always come in and out of my life.

I think someone here said it well sometime ago when they said that a big part of the problem is in the conflicts of beliefs about what friendship entails.

For example. You could have someone who thinks a friend is someone they can just say hello and goodbye to with a smile on their face, and maybe have an extended conversation once in a good while. That person they think is a friend may have much greater expectations out of a friend.

As hard is it may be to believe, not everyone sees eye to eye about what friendship even is. Not everyone sees eye to eye about what a love relationship should entail. People have different ideas and beliefs about things that we easily assume fall under some universal definition.

You seem like the kind of friend who understands that it is not as simple as hello and goodbye with a smile on your face. I'm the same way. I actually want to show my friends things. I want to do things for my friends. I want my friends to be happy. I want to cheer my friends up. I want to inspire and uplift my friends. I want to experience things with my friends. I want to feel a strong sense of responsibility and commitment to my friends. I want to grow old and gray and still want to feel this way about my friends. The hello and goodbye with a smile on my face is for those people that I am happy to see, as I am happy to see that tree that's doing well. But if I never see that tree again, I'll see another tree.

When your friend is not being the kind of friend you wish to be, don't let it stop you from satisfying that wish! :)


 
Hoffy said:
I'm gonna have to start charging to do hair and makeup if someone is gonna want something done every weekend.

Charge 25 dollars for hair, and 15 for makeup. It's reasonable, and if people don't want to pay for someone to do their stuff, they can do it themselves for free.

But what I'm thinking, besides where did I get this weakly thudding headache, is why some people act like they know all the answers, when they can barely answer their own questions...
 
Why the hell did I listen to that pirate song? It's stuck in my head now.
 
DreamerDeceiver said:
So much for trying to have a good day.
Why am I blamed and yelled at for everything that goes wrong at home.

Don't even get me started on how adults treat their college-aged children...
 
SophiaGrace said:
DreamerDeceiver said:
So much for trying to have a good day.
Why am I blamed and yelled at for everything that goes wrong at home.

Don't even get me started on how adults treat their college-aged children...

It's just my dad... he has issues with losing his temper over little things..
I'm trying not to be the same.
 
Ugh, stop trying to make everyone feel guilty because you can't do what you need to do. I'm going to respect you regardless of what I think towards you, but I see why your wife and all five of your kids don't want to be bothered by you. I refuse to ever let him turn out like you.
 

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