What are you thinking right now?

[HellsLittleAngel]

I think you need to find a more appropriate forum for this sort of content.

Agree 1000%

 

[TheRealCallie]

Oh god the luxury. My youngest hasn't been for four months now because talking to a girl in the USA overnight.They have tried to mutually end it cause feelings too strong now but she keeps texting him to see if he's ok.He sais he could walk into any job but keeps delaying it , the stress it's unbelievable , fcuking internet!!!

Oh my kid actually wants to work, it he works in a small engine repair shop/parts store and it's that special time of year where those places are dead because everyone has all their winter stuff fixed and it's not quite time for spring stuff yet. So no work for the part time kid. (He did actually go to work yesterday)
My kid has had a few girlfriends, but it was never his priority because he's more focused on his goals and him going into the military would only make a relationship harder.
Thankfully this particular kid also isn't interested much in the Internet. He's more old school at heart. Prefers to go outside and do stuff. Drive to people if he wants to see them, etc.

 

[Just Games]

Oh my kid actually wants to work, it he works in a small engine repair shop/parts store and it's that special time of year where those places are dead because everyone has all their winter stuff fixed and it's not quite time for spring stuff yet. So no work for the part time kid. (He did actually go to work yesterday)
My kid has had a few girlfriends, but it was never his priority because he's more focused on his goals and him going into the military would only make a relationship harder.
Thankfully this particular kid also isn't interested much in the Internet. He's more old school at heart. Prefers to go outside and do stuff. Drive to people if he wants to see them, etc.

My son was doing ok in his job. He was even offered extra training and got a pay rise out of the blue.But he has never had any friends.He told me he left the job to talk to her..but I think the job was getting a bit repetitive so that didn't help.He said they had so much in common.
But on the plus side he realises he can attract a girl.Hopefully he'll get working soon out meeting people again during the working day.
Old school , don't , you are so lucky , all three of mine spend too much time..on the fcuking internet.

 

[TheRealCallie]

2) A few of those people who post, aren't genuinely seeking help, just attention.

You are new here, you don't know any of us, so why exactly do you think you know anything about the people on this forum?

3) A few people really don't belong here, as they've posted several times to never get any responses, and it's the same posts all the time.

It's a public forum. Everyone belongs here. How is it your right to decide who does and does not belong?

4) A lot of people don't have the b*lls to say how they really feel about someone or something, because they fear of making someone else feel bad or any other repercussions to the situation.

First, there are rules here. Second, people that come here are often already on the edge of the cliff, so why would you want to push them over? And yes, there are a lot of people who find it difficult to say how they feel. That often comes with the territory. But more than that, it's about just not being a dick.

The problem is, people can't accept someone else's opinions and often get offended and disrespectful.

Says the person who often insults people because they disagree with her.

6) Assumptions are never wise, unless you're more than 85% sure that what you're saying is correct.

You seem to make a lot of assumptions.

9) There's a difference between passive, assertive, passive-aggressive, aggressive, respectful, disrespectful, and simply being mean types of attitudes. If people could learn the differences between each, this forum would run much smoothly with everyone.

The insults are where the "mean" part comes in. Perhaps you could lay off those. But also everything is open to interpretation on the internet. Just because you post something doesn't mean that everyone on the internet will interpret it the same way you meant it to be. They are just words on a page, there is no nuance, tone or body language to go off in order to get a clue, so each person will take it how they would because each person has different thoughts and feelings about different things. Frame of mind at the time can also influence how something is taken.

10) If you think I'm too brutal, you should see the people in my circle. You'd be scarred for dear life.

This is a bit attention seeking, sorry.
No offense, but who cares about your friends? Are they coming here too? Because unless they are, this is completely irrelevant and unnecessary.

12) I'm looking forward to celebrating my 42nd birthday next week!

Happy early birthday

 

[TheRealCallie]

My son was doing ok in his job. He was even offered extra training and got a pay rise out of the blue.But he has never had any friends.He told me he left the job to talk to her..but I think the job was getting a bit repetitive so that didn't help.He said they had so much in common.
But on the plus side he realises he can attract a girl.Hopefully he'll get working soon out meeting people again during the working day.
Old school , don't , you are so lucky , all three of mine spend too much time..on the fcuking internet.

Boot his ass out the door. "Get some fresh air, son. Smell the.....um....fish and chips. Talk to people here, you know that aren't 3 million miles away." lol
But no, I totally get it. My oldest son is always on the internet. My children could not be more opposite.

 

[Just Games]

Boot his ass out the door. "Get some fresh air, son. Smell the.....um....fish and chips. Talk to people here, you know that aren't 3 million miles away." lol
But no, I totally get it. My oldest son is always on the internet. My children could not be more opposite.

No I think he would knock me out if I did that lol , he is a big lad.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

You are new here, you don't know any of us, so why exactly do you think you know anything about the people on this forum?


It's a public forum. Everyone belongs here. How is it your right to decide who does and does not belong?


First, there are rules here. Second, people that come here are often already on the edge of the cliff, so why would you want to push them over? And yes, there are a lot of people who find it difficult to say how they feel. That often comes with the territory. But more than that, it's about just not being a dick.



Says the person who often insults people because they disagree with her.


You seem to make a lot of assumptions.



The insults are where the "mean" part comes in. Perhaps you could lay off those. But also everything is open to interpretation on the internet. Just because you post something doesn't mean that everyone on the internet will interpret it the same way you meant it to be. They are just words on a page, there is no nuance, tone or body language to go off in order to get a clue, so each person will take it how they would because each person has different thoughts and feelings about different things. Frame of mind at the time can also influence how something is taken.



This is a bit attention seeking, sorry.
No offense, but who cares about your friends? Are they coming here too? Because unless they are, this is completely irrelevant and unnecessary.



Happy early birthday

Oh look! It's the woke police! Remember, these are MY thoughts, not YOURS. I can feel however and say whatever I want, as they're MINE. You're clueless as always. Like I stated previous in other posts, and the same goes here, I simply don't care what you or anyone else has to say, feels, or thinks about me. For example...you may be bothered by a lot of things I say, but I'm not bothered by anything you say.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Oh look! It's the woke police! Remember, these are MY thoughts, not YOURS. I can feel and say whatever I want, as they're MINE. Like I stated previous in other posts, and the same goes here, I don't care what you or anyone else feels or thinks about me. You can say things about me all day, and they would never matter.

Ah, okay I got it. What you posted what a "do as I say, not as I do" type of situation.

 

[TheRealCallie]

No I think he would knock me out if I did that lol , he is a big lad.

The bigger they are, the harder they fall.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Ah, okay I got it. What you posted what a "do as I say, not as I do" type of situation.

Again, assumptions will never get you anywhere, but you can keep trying if you have time to waste, which I know you do.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Again, assumptions will never get you anywhere, but you can keep trying if you have time to waste, which I know you do.

This would be an assumption.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

This would be an assumption.

If you were really bothered by me, you'd learn to just "ignore" me, but you like it. You keep coming back.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Like I said, it's a "do as I say, not as I do" type of situation.

 

[Papagenox]

If you were really bothered by me, you'd learn to just "ignore" me, but you like it. You keep coming back.

obviously you take the fact of being granted attention by the people here (out of the wish to have you included) as a sort of weakness - and that's actually just another among many open or disguised insults you practiced here ... I think you and your bf may get the silent treatment (no direct or indirect reply to any of your posts)

 

[TheSkaFish]

what use is to get banned for other people's issues

Yep, I've been there, done that.

if you deal with let's say a sociopath what use is to start a conflict with them and end up next to them ... same like in real life we pay for the police service to protect us, we don't have to learn karate or how to use guns

Exactly, we can outsource protection to people who want to do that, which frees us up to focus on other things.

malign feelings must be censored somehow especially with children or vulnerable persons ... also THERE IS something wrong with sociopaths ... I understand your fascination for this typology but the great majority in a society need to live in a peaceful and polite way in order to make life possible ... most persons would choose to live next to a hypocrite but polite neighbor rather than an intrusive and quick to anger one

Definitely agree.
I understand that there is a little bit of "fakeness" in the way a lot of people can be, but yeah, some tradeoffs need to be made in order to make life possible, like you said. I've always thought that niceness, whether sincere or not, was why we could have nice things like this computer I'm typing on right now, or why we can enjoy life in our own home, and not have to sleep with one eye open and have to constantly anticipate and prepare for attacks at all times. That kind of life would be so stressful and wouldn't allow for any enjoyment at all. Niceness is more civilized. Almost all of us benefit much more from the rule of law, than not having it.

I don't like hypocrisy either, but it matters how bad the hypocrisy is, and what it's about, and we have to know what our priorities are.
Personally I prioritize living in peace and civilization, and being able to enjoy things, instead of having to fight everyone all the time and have that condition dictate my own life to me.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

obviously you take the fact of being granted attention by the people here (out of the wish to have you included) as a sort of weakness - and that's actually just another among many open or disguised insults you practiced here ... I think you and your bf may get the silent treatment (no direct or indirect reply to any of your posts)

Like I've said in many previous posts, I don't care what anyone thinks of me. I post how I feel, regardless. I have a voice and allowed to use it. It just happens to be that you and a few others get easily offended by some of the things that I say. If you really are that offended or don't want to talk to me, nobody's forcing your hand to respond. There are others who agree or disagree with me, but it doesn't matter either way. That's how they feel and this is how I feel. Silent treatment doesn't affect me either. Nothing affects me, I don't think you really understand that. I've said it multiple times, but you seem to think that your responses as well as others bother me, and they don't. You live for drama as much as a couple of others on here. If you didn't want to respond, you wouldn't, you'd simply go under my profile and "ignore" if I bothered you that much, which I guess I don't, but you always come back for more. So, you aggravate yourself and waste your own energy on my responses in the process. But, that's on you. Once again, I warned people that they'd be offended reading my post, after all, this is a "What are you thinking?" post, and I'm free to put whatever I'm actually thinking, down. Not my fault you can't handle that. But, maybe you should just move on now, or I'm sure you'll get this thread locked down too, just like you did on the other one. But, it wouldn't matter to me, but it may to you and others.