Sway said:ColaFree said:I like the way that I socialize with unknown people easily.
Lucky You!! Wish I had that ability, life would be easier =/
It's not that hard really Just talk to someone about something that is relevant to both of you at the time (i.e standing in line at the super market "man this is going too slow, am I right?).
If the person you spoke to replies positively or agrees, and you feel no hostility directed towards you, continue speaking. Listen carefully to what he says, and how he acts. Also pay attention to his clothes. If the man is wearing a band T-shirt, and you like/have heard about said band use that to your advantage! Say something like "Oh I see you like that band too! Not many people I know like it! Were you at the concert in ..... when they played .....?"
If the person you are speaking to have a easily spotted attitude, or opinion (i.e "**** the system") try to agree with him as much as possible (Don't lie, but it's allowed to over do it a bit), and share some of your views on that matter.
All of the above is pretty much an analysis of one person. If you can train yourself to analyse people, then you'll always have something to say interesting to say!
But really, the easiest way to socialize and befriend unknown people is to be friendly, open minded and not shy
Sorry if this was too "Freud"-ish, or "know it all" - ish, but I'm only talking out of experience!