LeaningIntoTheMuse
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I think a lot of it comes from low self esteem.
My sis, for example, is a really intelligent and funny person. However, she is incredibly insecure. She doesn't see herself as a catch...therefore, every guy that is attracted to her is either A.) mentally unstable, or B.) abusive. She either attracts the "nice guys", or she attracts the "bad boy abusers"...never anything in the middle. Every guy who's smart and kind and funny, like her, runs a mile once they learn how insecure she is.
I am not stereotyping. You can be a bad boy who's nice, but just doesn't take honeysuckle. But someone who is bad and also an abusive person, typically falls into the same genre. A guy who think it makes him a bad ass to hit his woman, but instead it makes him a pussy.
My sis, for example, is a really intelligent and funny person. However, she is incredibly insecure. She doesn't see herself as a catch...therefore, every guy that is attracted to her is either A.) mentally unstable, or B.) abusive. She either attracts the "nice guys", or she attracts the "bad boy abusers"...never anything in the middle. Every guy who's smart and kind and funny, like her, runs a mile once they learn how insecure she is.
I am not stereotyping. You can be a bad boy who's nice, but just doesn't take honeysuckle. But someone who is bad and also an abusive person, typically falls into the same genre. A guy who think it makes him a bad ass to hit his woman, but instead it makes him a pussy.