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    What's a painful truth you've had to swallow?

    That people want you for what you can do for them and no for who you are.
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    Dating Xpendable: Pros and Cons

    I would happily date people until I met someone but that's not happening, man. Have you read anything I posted here? Do I have to be perfect? What age are you? I'm guessing you were born in the 70´(?) Of course back then dating was limited by demographics and the lack of social media. There was...
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    Dating Xpendable: Pros and Cons

    Im being harsher with my cons than most people around me are with me. The biggest critisism I get is being too quiet and even they admit is no really a bad thing.
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    Dating Xpendable: Pros and Cons

    Except for people like that who get into relationships anyway.
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    what happened to this forum?!

    The moderation has never been objective, so there's that.
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    The truth about us undesirables

    Looks matter, men. Like quite a lot.
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    Dating Xpendable: Pros and Cons

    Yes and I choose a pic taken by someone else so I could be seen like people actually see me. Not a filtered pic or a pic that was taken by me, looking for the best angle. I want people to respond to me after seeing the real me, so their answers get influenced by my looks.
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    Dating Xpendable: Pros and Cons

    Just the pros and cons for everyone to see. Look at my age, being 31 and still studying while not owning anything decreases my chances a lot. Maybe if I was 10 years younger it wouldn't matter but that's not the case. Not owning a house unequivocally means I'm not independent, so I live with my...
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    Dating Xpendable: Pros and Cons

    Pros: -Good conversationalist and a good listener. -Reliable. -Willing to show emotions. -Sensitivity and creativity. -Good sense of humor. -Likes to go out but not a party animal. -Not too many friends or too little friends.  -Hardworking and responsible. -Works out 2 or 3 times a week. -Has...
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    The truth about us undesirables

    I've had situations where I wasn't even thinking about feeling miserable. Sometimes I'm even having a good day and something happens out of the blue. Is not a sense of "innately" thinking about it. I know you would like to think I (we) have this mindset so you can come up victorious and...
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    The truth about us undesirables

    Creativity has never made me popular or attractive.
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    The truth about us undesirables

    In my subconcious, I feel desirable, but sadly it doesn't translate to the real world. I don't look like David Blane or any of the "7" you talk about. A 3 stays a 3, it doesn't matter how non-shallow a person wants to be, everyone wants to date-up and will go for an attractive person the first...
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    Feeling sad that I'll likely never have more than one sexual partner

    Congratulations. Don't cheat. If it ends, you move on.
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    The truth about us undesirables

    At least you are not completely undesirable then. I wish I got some dates even if it doesn't work out.
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    The truth about us undesirables

    For the old users: These type of threads and users will keep coming. Even if the forum is kinda dead. The number of men being left out of the dating market will only get bigger in the future. Why didn't you tried to date those two?
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    Ideas for meeting people that don't include bars, clubs, or drinking?

    Go back in time and form a bigger social circle so you can meet other groups by proxy. If you are over 25 it becomes harder to build a connection in this narcissistic, nihilistic hell we call the world.
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    Broken by fictitious love (X5 in a row)

    How it is your fault if you didn't help to create those people? You may have fallen into that but what is the reason those people exists?
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    Fictional Characters A-Z

    Jesus
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    Broken by fictitious love (X5 in a row)

    Remember guys, it's always your fault.
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