ForGrantedWife said:
Alienated, I wish you would give people more of a chance. Tossing them away so quickly and saying "Next!" is detrimental to you as well as the person you gave up on hon. Ask yourself (since I think you're religious) what would Jesus do? He forgave the worst society had to offer and loved them anyway. He forgave their faults. And because of that they loved him back
That's a very big part of being a good Christian, I know that much. Love people and let them love you back...instead of always giving up hope straight out the gate or getting angry with them.
I even made a peace offering to you that was ignored, in Self Pity vr. Self Disciple....
And ForGrantedWife, that's what happened with us as well, just a simple misunderstanding of views and approaches. I apologize if I offend or hurt your feelings. I tend to rant and give advice or opinion at the same time, and that can be very easily mistaken.
Especially with something I am going through myself.
I guess don't remember the Vehement response I got from you, when I suggested you read the Bible, to help with your marriage. Saying (ANGRILY)you had NO interest in the BIBLE. And told me to NOT push religion on you.
I suggest you actually learn what a Christian is, because you have been deceived. That's straight out of Emergent Church cult movement. Teachers that tickle the ears.
2 Tim 4:3-4 3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their own desires, 4 and will turn away their ears from the truth and will turn aside to myths.
And by the way ... Jesus ONLY forgives those that repent... Might I suggest you read Matthew chapters 7, 21, 23... I am not religious... the Pharisees, Sadducees, Scribes, and followers of the old covenant where religious.
So if you want to talk Christian, you have to actually read the Bible. Romans 2:13 For it is not those who hear the law who are righteous in God's sight, but it is those who obey the law who will be declared righteous.
And how can you do that if you NEVER read it. You have shown no gratitude, no forgiveness , and no friendliness... You were given a chance, and failed.