Hmm care to explain how?
you are dismissing his experience, while selling him a false sense of hope.
unless someone is SMV 8 and above he has no way to get validation from women(free skinship).
you could also be telling him:
don't worry, you are still young you may win the lottery ruffle.
winning the lottery would have a bigger possibility than getting a girlfriend
if you aren't a male model.
that is a man's experience with girls nowadays, and you are dismissing it, and it's wrong to do so!
you say you don't think he is ugly, have you offered to date him?
have you even seen him?
inner doubts, aren't what's setting him up for failure, it's his height and looks.
most girls are in a harem relationship with a Chad or a Tyrone. these chadrones are so swamped with free sex the women are making dick appointments, which leaves many lonely men behind.
you say:
"Only thing I can say is please dont give up, I know you will find a woman who feels just as lucky to have you as you do her. Sounds like fairytales but I promise you anything is possible"
do you even comprehend the negative emotions this gas lighting causes?!
based on what are you promising him this fairytales?
based on your experience as a woman?
a woman can get a match in less time it takes to boil an egg.
it's kind of like when a father loses his son in a car accident or army battle and
people tell him: "you should have prayed harder, maybe god will revive your dead son if you pray harder".