The main thing is that your hired to do a job. Your not there to be socially accepted. This girl along with all the other girls who have followed suit are foolish immature people. The world as a whole is a nasty place and you have to find your peace and happiness outside the workplace. Its great if the workplace is a civil respectful place but often times its not. I experienced the creep label recently at a social event and know that it hurts. But think about this, if you knew a another person who was labeled creepy at your workplace and was having a hard time you would probably reach out to that person and make him or her feel included right ??? So that tells you a lot about the women your working with. They are very shallow immature and stupid. Usually the people who get the reaction your getting experience social anxiety /shyness timidity. Usually outgoing uninhibited people are not accepting of other personality traits and they think the whole world should be like them. I would avoid these gals as much as possible and would try not fit in with them and hang with the guys that you can relate too. Let yourself off the hook don't be hard on yourself and do the best job you can do for your company. If you have to deal with that girl do what you need to with her and don't try to her impress her. more than likely she will not change.
