LeaningIntoTheMuse
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If that is true, yes you should date more than one person at once, until you're serious. Guys date multiple women until they call one their girlfriend.
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:I've never dated, but I'm old fashioned. I've wanted, as a guy, to hold off sex until the first month is over, just so I know if we are compatible.
I've had so many people tell me this is the reason why I am single, and a virgin, and never been ON a first date.
theglasscell said:What is your definition of dating? Do you mean just going to dinner or seeing a movie sometimes or do you mean having sex too?
I just think the idea of four people at once is gross if you are getting intimate with them.
Alonewith2cats said:theglasscell said:What is your definition of dating? Do you mean just going to dinner or seeing a movie sometimes or do you mean having sex too?
I just think the idea of four people at once is gross if you are getting intimate with them.
To understand how it works one would have to watch her 75 minute video or read her book. This is not about sleeping around, it's about going out and getting to know a variety of people. She will tell you that sex is part of the plan but you can only have sex with one man at a time but you can date 4 men at a time. However, she highly encourages you to wait for sex.
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:I'm with theglasscell.
If I wanted to see one woman with four guys, I'd watch a porn. More action.
Limlim said:Well believe it or not, this is how dating used to be back in the day. You actually went out with several potential prospects at once before deciding to go steady with one of them.
theglasscell said:I think that was before most people had sex on the first date though. It's kind of different now. People are in a rush.
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