Hows this for ugly?

[cumulus.james]

gone.

 

[Callie]

Seriously? THAT is you?
Here I was expecting this guy with 3 heads and ******* warts growing all over everywhere. Possibly thought you'd be missing an ear or an eye or something also.

You ain't anywhere ******* close to ugly, probably look better if you'd smile tho. Just saying, that's my own opinion, not that you want it, as you stated. But hell, I think the same about myself, sooooo.... carry on believing what you want, I guess.

 

[Drama]

I feel the same.


You're not ugly tho.

 

[annik]

I'm with Callie. Thats a picture of a guy, nothing super ugly. It sounds a bit like you're not going to believe us no matter what we say though.

 

[Callie]

Did you post that pic for validation of your ugliness?
You say you don't want compliments cuz you won't believe them, so I'm curious as to why you did.

 

[Drama]

Maybe he wants compliments but he cant admit it?

 

[lonelyfairy]

You're not ugly.

 

[Badjedidude]

.... so I guess I won't waste my time telling you that you look fine, especially since you've said you won't accept positive remarks.

Maybe he wants compliments but he cant admit it?

That's what I'm thinking.

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

What Callie said. You'd be a Prince Charming compared to some of the men I've been with. However, YOU feeling that your face is repulsive and whatever else you called it is probably valid. We all have our own opinion on what's ugly, and we are all our own worst critic. Even I hate what I look like on most days. But if I were to line you up with the rest of the men of the world from most gorgeous to most hideous, you'd be in the group of better average. Not gorgeous, not hideous, just normal. And there's about ten million other guys who are average, just like you. You pass by them every day, you see them, you interact with them. Despising your own appearance is like despising the appearance of every man within a twenty mile radius of you. Seems absurd, doesn't it?

 

[Minus]

... I find the sight of my face repulsive and sickening....

You very well may. If you say so, then i don't doubt it. Still if that picture is any indication, it is in your head.

 

[cumulus.james]

Thanks guys.

I think this **** started in my childhood though. Self loathing is embedded in me. I guess I wondered if anyone else had such deep self loathing I guess.

I don't know why I started this thread or posted the picture. I think it was the other day when I was having such a lovely day, but I saw a reflection of myself in a window as I was walking along and it sent me into a deep depression. You will notice I am unshaven in the pic. I often am because I ******* hate to look in the mirror.

It is something that is not right. Plenty of ugly people are successful in their life's and have relationships and the rest of it. It is as if I want to blame my ugliness for being a loser but actually its no excuse.

Nothing makes sense to me. least of all my big ugly face.

 

[annik]

Thanks. I think this **** started in my childhood though. Self laothing is embedded in me.

Makes me think of this quote "self disgust is self obsession honey and I do as I please"

I don't even mean that wrongly and believe me I hate my looks. I used to make the bf hang his coat over random mirrors in hotel rooms so I didn't catch sight of myself.

 

[Syber Tiger]

ur not ugly!
i like your beard

 

[condemnedsoul666]

my exact reaction: 'wait, WHAT? wheres the ugly person, what the ****, I actually can't see him, where's he hidin? I can only see one person there and he ain't ugly, not one bit, actually ok looking . is he maybe hiding behind that guy? i'll betcha he ain't even that ugly.'

 

[cumulus.james]

Seriously? THAT is you?
Here I was expecting this guy with 3 heads and ******* warts growing all over everywhere. Possibly thought you'd be missing an ear or an eye or something also.

You ain't anywhere ******* close to ugly, probably look better if you'd smile tho. Just saying, that's my own opinion, not that you want it, as you stated. But hell, I think the same about myself, sooooo.... carry on believing what you want, I guess.

Thanks. I think this **** started in my childhood though. Self laothing is embedded in me.

Makes me think of this quote "self disgust is self obsession honey and I do as I please"

I don't even mean that wrongly and believe me I hate my looks. I used to make the bf hang his coat over random mirrors in hotel rooms so I didn't catch sight of myself.

I think self loathing becomes self obsession only in that you fixate on how much you hate yourself lol

it is obsession of sorts, but must not be confused with vanity

 

[VanillaCreme]

Maybe he wants compliments but he cant admit it?

That's what I thought. The same way about him being gay... Kind of wants to be, but doesn't want to be. Or perhaps kind of doesn't want to be, but just is.

 

[cumulus.james]

Seriously? THAT is you?
Here I was expecting this guy with 3 heads and ******* warts growing all over everywhere. Possibly thought you'd be missing an ear or an eye or something also.

You ain't anywhere ******* close to ugly, probably look better if you'd smile tho. Just saying, that's my own opinion, not that you want it, as you stated. But hell, I think the same about myself, sooooo.... carry on believing what you want, I guess.

Maybe he wants compliments but he cant admit it?

That's what I thought. The same way about him being gay... Kind of wants to be, but doesn't want to be. Or perhaps kind of doesn't want to be, but just is.

I don't think I want compliments. I think somehow I actually want the opposite. i think i want confirmation of my ugliness to validate my self loathing and give me an excuse to carry on with it

 

[Callie]

I don't think I want compliments. I think somehow I actually want the opposite. i think i want confirmation of my ugliness to validate my self loathing and give me an excuse to carry on with it

You ain't gonna get that, because you aren't ugly. Sorry

 

[cumulus.james]

Seriously? THAT is you?
Here I was expecting this guy with 3 heads and ******* warts growing all over everywhere. Possibly thought you'd be missing an ear or an eye or something also.

You ain't anywhere ******* close to ugly, probably look better if you'd smile tho. Just saying, that's my own opinion, not that you want it, as you stated. But hell, I think the same about myself, sooooo.... carry on believing what you want, I guess.

I don't think I want compliments. I think somehow I actually want the opposite. i think i want confirmation of my ugliness to validate my self loathing and give me an excuse to carry on with it

You ain't gonna get that, because you aren't ugly. Sorry

I got to nearly 31 years old without ever having a relationship, there must be some ugliness to me?

 

[Equinox]

I got to nearly 31 years old without ever having a relationship, there must be some ugliness to me?

If your postings are any indication, this is probably because of your attitude towards yourself, and not your looks. I don't think you're ugly either, and I've seen soooo many guys way uglier than you being with very attractive girls. It's all in your head, and it all comes down to attitude and the way you look at yourself. If you let your self loathing shine through, others are bound to pick up on it, and THAT, my friend, is why they keep their distance.

I know, because I do the exact same thing.