Male Virginity=Homosexuality?

[Mr. Sir]

honestly i think it shouldn't matter. one's sexual life is their own business. i'm pretty sure any virgin in this forum could go to a local party and sleep with some drunk chick if they wanted to. but what would that prove? not a damn thing, that's what. i think what annoys me the most is when someone hears you're a virgin they're all like "OMG, IM GONNA GET YOU LAID" in some condescending tone. i honestly feel bad for the people that go out and get laid by different people every weekend, it seems to me that they're emotionally crippled and will have a hard time lasting in a committed relationship.

Hey, I just noticed this, but this post is garbage.

Parties/bars are the WORST place to get laid for dudes like the posters on the forum. Drunk chicks are still WELL aware of who's hot and who's not. Speaking from personal experience, it's not even good enough to be muscular, you have to have a good face too.

I also NEVER recommend that any average or below average-looking guy has a one-night-stand with a drunk chick, because if the chick decides she regrets it in the morning, she can file a rape charge against you, and she WILL win 99% of the time.

 

[Joseph]

I also NEVER recommend that any average or below average-looking guy has a one-night-stand with a drunk chick, because if the chick decides she regrets it in the morning, she can file a rape charge against you, and she WILL win 99% of the time.

Nah, that's what these are made for:

 

[jimmusician]

I also NEVER recommend that any average or below average-looking guy has a one-night-stand with a drunk chick, because if the chick decides she regrets it in the morning, she can file a rape charge against you, and she WILL win 99% of the time.

Nah, that's what these are made for:

awesome, a rape sunday, topped off with the privacy infringement cream.

 

[Dessa]

I also NEVER recommend that any average or below average-looking guy has a one-night-stand with a drunk chick, because if the chick decides she regrets it in the morning, she can file a rape charge against you, and she WILL win 99% of the time.

Nah, that's what these are made for:

awesome, a rape sunday, topped off with the privacy infringement cream.

You know I've never liked rape. Or privacy infringement.

 

[Joseph]

awesome, a rape sunday, topped off with the privacy infringement cream.

Yeah Buddy! Now yer talkin

 

[UGLYDUCKLING]

Referring to the first post some people have a very Narrow mind.Im almost 19 and have get along with girls really well.But I haven't really bothered doing " it" with them.So people around me just tend to have a common prospect that I may not like girls or something.It used to bother me.But now when anybody asks me regarding my personal life in a very pervi way,I just tell them its personal and they should mind their own business.Works well.If they persist I keep on repeating the same answer until that question stops popping up.

 

[A Desolate Soul]

honestly i think it shouldn't matter. one's sexual life is their own business. i'm pretty sure any virgin in this forum could go to a local party and sleep with some drunk chick if they wanted to. but what would that prove? not a damn thing, that's what. i think what annoys me the most is when someone hears you're a virgin they're all like "OMG, IM GONNA GET YOU LAID" in some condescending tone. i honestly feel bad for the people that go out and get laid by different people every weekend, it seems to me that they're emotionally crippled and will have a hard time lasting in a committed relationship.

Hey, I just noticed this, but this post is garbage.

Parties/bars are the WORST place to get laid for dudes like the posters on the forum. Drunk chicks are still WELL aware of who's hot and who's not. Speaking from personal experience, it's not even good enough to be muscular, you have to have a good face too.

I also NEVER recommend that any average or below average-looking guy has a one-night-stand with a drunk chick, because if the chick decides she regrets it in the morning, she can file a rape charge against you, and she WILL win 99% of the time.

i probably shouldn't feed the troll but oh well.

just because you get turned down by women for having the social skills and mentality of a second grader doesn't mean no one here couldn't get laid if they really wanted to. sure it might not be from somebody they want it from, but the point is it's not as hard as you think. the sooner you learn looks have very little to do with getting women, the better off you will be. you are just too damn idiotic, immature, and downright stupid to understand that.

and your last paragraph clearly demonstrates your mental capacity.

now here's a .gif for the lulz

 

[WishingWell]

To The Observer,

Your viewpoints on sex being a special union between two people is on the money!

And, virginity male or female does not equal homosexuality...it is having self-respect by not having sex for recreational purposes!

Also, if someone asks you if you are a virgin--no matter what age you are, nor who it is--it is none of their business, and that is what you should tell them. If they assume then that you are a virgin or gay, just walk away from their ignorance.

 

[Badjedidude]

And, virginity male or female does not equal homosexuality...it is having self-respect by not having sex for recreational purposes!

I wouldn't necessarily say that it's about self-respect. There are thousands and millions who DO have sex and still respect themselves. It's not like there are two groups: virgin and whore. Plenty of those who DO HAVE SEX are self-respecting people with morals and dignity.

Virginity is just a lifestyle choice; no more respectful than choosing to have sex with someone you feel that you love or are close to. Or even a one-nighter.

 

[WishingWell]

Point well taken, Badjedidude--I will choose my words more carefully from now on.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I would never take advantage of a drunk girl. But that seems to be the only way I will lose it.

 

[Sterling]

I got accused of being a lesbian because I was a virgin.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Oh, my whole family thinks I'm gay. Even my own mother, who has accidentally stumbled over my straight porn on my computers, has asked. She said, "I wouldn't care if you were gay, I'd still love you."

Which is all fine and dandy. I actually don't see being gay as a disease, or anything bad. I'm a supporter of gay rights, publicly. It just bothers me to be called anything that I'm not (if you want to call me a four eyes, science fiction and horror movie loving, socially awkward, computer programming, geek, I wouldn't have an issue with it, because all of that is true.)

Meh.

 

[Solivagant]

I got accused of being a lesbian because I was a virgin.

^ Me too, many times.

 

[Sterling]

^ Funny note though. When my mom was trying to tell my dad that my sister was pregnant...she was crying and being silly. He was trying to guess what was wrong. He guessed that I was pregnant and that my sister was a lesbian. I don't understand people.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

People are weird. Seriously.

How does that Doors song go again? People are strange, when you're a stranger...sometimes I feel like I came from planet Zorg, and somehow ended up on earth.

 

[Calla]

The amount of times I've had people tell me this is unbelievable, it just goes in one ear and out the other now.

The most amazing thing someone has told me was that a (now ex) friend was adamant that I was gay because one of my best friends is a girl. He wasn't joking.

 

[will normal]

It's amazing what people will stoop to these days, especially with a thing like sex. Thankfully I never got called gay because I was a virgin until I was 23 but I have an open mind (a bit bi-curious but never committed to the act) and always believed in expanding my horizons. But seriously, it sucks to see the world populous resort to this level with certain people because at least they're willing to wait and not conform to everyone doing it because of peer pressure or something else. This may not be as bad as bullying but it's still bad because of what it'll do to someone.

 

[WishingWell]

This is only my opinion, there are two reasons that some people say you are homosexual if you are still a virgin. The first is because they are ignorant--being a virgin has nothing to do being gay. Some people just haven't found anyone they would like to be sexual with and others have not had the opportunity. For those of you that say no one would have sex with you, because you are ugly, etc., etc., are you young? You don't know what the future holds. The second reason is because it seems in society today that everyone is talking about having sex and friends with benefits, etc. I have two Friends, which I call my Female Best Friend. and my Male Best Friend right now, and after many heterosexual relationships and being married, I assure you I am not attracted to women at all. I also, know that my male Friend and I don't want a sexual relationship.

I believe all of you should stop letting people, that say you are gay for being a virgin, rent space in your head. You know what is right and what is true. Why put so much weight on the comments of these people who don't know what they are talking about?

I'm sure I am leaving myself open to a lot of criticism, but this is all my opinion--everyone has the right to an opinion and your own opinion cannot be wrong because it is only how you feel about something.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Well, speaking as an almost 31 year old, I am hardly young anymore. But that's beside the point.

When I got to the age of, say, 25, people started scratching their heads in confusion. I wasn't seen with a girlfriend, but I wasn't seen with a boyfriend, either. I could be asexual, but since very few people actually are of that persuasion, they assumed that I am in the closet and ashamed of my sexuality.

The only reason I would say I am ugly is because I don't conform to beauty standards for a male. I don't lift weights, I wear glasses, and I'm an intellectual who is into computers, technology, music, and the arts. I'm also not into sports, since I have poor coordination (funny, because I don't when I'm playing musical instruments), and I get teased.

This is hard for guys like me, because when everyone goes off and talks about sports and cars, I want to steer the conversation around to books, music, and entertainment. This gets frustrating for those who don't want to discuss these things, guys OR girls, and they quickly don't want anything to do with me. I suppose this is why I have such a hard time socializing.