You can go to support groups...but there's always going some wack job that's going to give advice,
especailly if you didn't ask for one...
However you can share whatever it is you need to share during a meeting. Hopefully a wack job
won't interupt you while you're sharing. Some people hasn't aquired the art of listening to people yet.
To understand someone and really, really hear what someone is saying...
first you gatta STFU and listen...
Second you gatta not form anytype of opinion what the person is speaking is saying. The more opinion you form the less you will understand.
Third..you don't give advice or interupt people when they sharing something. You have to allow the person to completely release
and say what they need to say.
mmmm if you keep on trying or reaching out...eventaully you'll run into people that had simular experince that you had.
Hopefully they will stop and really ,really listen to you..If they had simular experince...they will have some compassion for you.
in my experince..I havn't really found one person that completly understands me. Fourtunately I've experince people listening to me
without judging me or giving me advice..(my sponsor). As a group peaple had simular experinces that i've had but one person
completely understands me. I know people love and care for me. It's through that process that I begin to heal. I'm still making progress.
I still struggle with the god thing. i don't think god really understands me or hear me.
Please don't tell my to fucken pray, find god, god dosn't exsist or give me advice about this matter.
I've heard millions of advice in my life time.
I'm simply honestly just saying that's how i feel and belive today
So lately.(I'm going with the flow of this healing process)....I figure since one understands me completely( sometimes I feel people don't
really give a rats ass oneway or the other becuase they have thier own challegnes they have to deal with)....I feel god is a fucken lunatic.
I started listening to myself. Have love, understaning and compassion for myself. I'm having better internal dialog with myself...less and lesss
internal conflicts. Some people say it's having a relationship with myself...
Make sence i guess. I lived with me all my life 24/7s. I would be the best person to understand, care and love me.
