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I find I get confused a lot! lol!

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You don't bounce back as quick as you did when you were younger from doing things like staying up all night or getting drunk.
 
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That guy looks cool...bet he has some stories for sure.

I need to start being a cool young(-ish) guy, so when I get that old I can be a cool old guy.

I don't want to look back on a life unlived, that my own insecurities defeated me.
 
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Regrets.

I didn't live the life I wanted to, but I wasn't sure if it was even possible for me to get good enough to be able to.
Nothing ever seemed to come to me naturally, so I had no idea what kind of person I was supposed to be.

I had OCD, catastrophizing/obsessing, low self-image, and pessimism/negativity.

I just didn't understand how things worked in real time, like most other people seemed to, instinctively.
Other people just seemed to "get" what to think, say, and do, without being told.
They didn't have to think about "why". They just did it.
Or, maybe they instinctively knew why.
I never did the "right" things because I thought I didn't have strong enough traits, and strong enough instincts/the right kind of mind and personality, to do it.

It was like I managed to both overthink, and underthink, at the same time.
 
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I want a "beautiful death".
Like the Spartans in "300".
If God can be so charitable to grant me that.
Not having a female, or children...was not so great.
But a beautiful death would make up for that in a way, I think...
 
When you’re young, you dream about conquering the world. When you’re old, you just hope you can conquer the stairs.
 

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