Questions for the Men

[Adamridge79]

Two denotes more than one *******

 

[ardour]

I don't think, ah I bet he's having this involuntary neurological response to my butt... but... maybe he is.

You could wear mom jeans,

 

[CenotaphGirl]

You could wear mom jeans,

.....

 

[TheRealCallie]

Being with somebody doesn't mean you suddenly cease finding other members of the opposite *** attractive. If a girlfriend admitted to finding some other guy attractive, fine I wouldn't be bothered, it's just an admission of something she has no control over.

Also what are you implying here: less attractive men shouldn't be checking out women? As if they shouldn't have an orientation. Ship us off to some sort of camp in Siberia so you don't get upset at what might be going on in our private thoughts. Sorry but you'll have to deal with ugly dudes existing in the same space as you.

Personally, I don't believe anyone who says it wouldn't bother them. at all Sorry, but it will if it happens more than once or lasts a while. It will at least a little bit.

She never mentioned anything about what the damn guy looks like, get over yourself....

 

[TheRealCallie]

Guys, how long will it take you to ask a your girlfriend to move in with you? If you was taking too long for her liking, would you want her to ask you ? Like if she can move in? Is that wrong?

I would say do like the toothbrush thing, throws hints that you want to, start leaving stuff there for when you "stay over." That kind of thing. I don't think anyone should just "invite" themselves to move in to anyone's place, regardless of who it is, but there's nothing wrong with expressing your point of view, as long as it's done tastefully, ya know?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Personally, I don't believe anyone who says it wouldn't bother them. at all Sorry, but it will if it happens more than once or lasts a while. It will at least a little bit.

She never mentioned anything about what the damn guy looks like, get over yourself....

Ugh, so it's not just me, I was thinking... where on earth did I say or imply that lol

I would say do like the toothbrush thing, throws hints that you want to, start leaving stuff there for when you "stay over." That kind of thing. I don't think anyone should just "invite" themselves to move in to anyone's place, regardless of who it is, but there's nothing wrong with expressing your point of view, as long as it's done tastefully, ya know?

Yeah you know, I was wondering how long is a fair amount of time to wait before you just claim on of his draws as your own lol.

 

[Colster]

Okay I have a new question for the fellas! Not sure what side of the brain this falls under.

What would make you walk away, seriously, walk away and never look back from a partner of ... over 1 year?

Any breach of trust. Selfishness. Bad manners. And poor time keeping.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Ugh, so it's not just me, I was thinking... where on earth did I say or imply that lol

No, not just you at all.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Guys, how long will it take you to ask a your girlfriend to move in with you? If you was taking too long for her liking, would you want her to ask you ? Like if she can move in? Is that wrong?

Whenever she's got a job and can pay her half of the bills, and whenever I have a full years worth of the rent saved already in case she decides to break lease and hang me with the difference.
America's ****** up like that, you've kind of gotta watch your ***, everyone is looking to take advantage of everyone here, pretty much all of the time.

 

[user 139760]

Spot on. We humans seem to have delusions about relationships. I have a ten date rule. Sure, I want earlier to get into it. My rule has worked for me. I've got to know the woman. "I ain't no tart"

Oh....hello, Newwwwman....

 

[MrLonely86]

Don't move in. You will get bored of each other and you will argue all the time about stuff like bills and payments .... Just live separately.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Don't move in. You will get bored of each other and you will argue all the time about stuff like bills and payments .... Just live separately.

You know, I know a married couple that actually lived like that for probably the first 6 years of their relationship, and it kept them happy. It's actually not a bad idea. I think the only reason they ended up moving in together was they got pregnant and were expecting. I haven't seen them in probably 3 or 4 years, old work acquaintance of mine. He said he'd bring the baby by for us to meet but never did.

 

[user 139760]

Guys, how long will it take you to ask a your girlfriend to move in with you? If you was taking too long for her liking, would you want her to ask you ? Like if she can move in? Is that wrong?

I wouldn't ask her. I'd wait for her to ask me, probably turn her down just to see if the relationship can go past a major difference of opinion. Then tell her yes.

Or not. It depends a lot on personnalities and the nature of the relationship.

 

[MrLonely86]

I'm fan of - just date your whole life like teenagers without kids - type of relationship guy.

 

[TheRealCallie]

How about a duplex? The dude (or the chick) can own a duplex and you can each live in one side.

I think duplex is an American term. Look it up, if you don't know what it is. lol

 

[MrLonely86]

How about a duplex? The dude (or the chick) can own a duplex and you can each live in one side.

I think duplex is an American term. Look it up, if you don't know what it is. lol

I like that also, but that takes a LOT of MONEY. Cheaper is just to live separately. Depends on country. But in mine, that costs like average Ferrari. If you live in more rich country with more perspective , that can be done, but in mine, no. We are poor like Spain. XD

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Strange... I feel like moving in with my fella made everything better, we just work better together, but I was also very young and excited to play house lol Now i'm older with my own place... I think I will wait 6+ months before moving in with him again.

He was renting when we first met, so he let me find somewhere I liked and rented it as our new place. We both own now so it won't be that easy, his house is wayyy better than mine lol so I wanna move in with him, and put my stamp on the place.

I think it would be wrong if he doesn't ask to be like "so..... should I start moving in?" I think it's cute to leave a few bits there to drop a little hint.. but when should I expect him to be ready, what's a fair amount of time?

Im a super planner, its a bad habit, I just cant help it, makes me feel in control.

 

[MrLonely86]

I would love to live like this. Everyone has it's own little separate "mini house". I'm really not move in together type of guy.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I wouldn't ask her. I'd wait for her to ask me, probably turn her down just to see if the relationship can go past a major difference of opinion. Then tell her yes.

Or not. It depends a lot on personnalities and the nature of the relationship.

You like to play mind games, thats dangerous lolz, makes sense though, I play mind games sometimes, just to really understand what im dealing with.

Any breach of trust. Selfishness. Bad manners. And poor time keeping.

What about, poor time keeping due to having a young child?

Whenever she's got a job and can pay her half of the bills, and whenever I have a full years worth of the rent saved already in case she decides to break lease and hang me with the difference.
America's messed up like that, you've kind of gotta watch your ***, everyone is looking to take advantage of everyone here, pretty much all of the time.

You expect her to pay bills! I nearly... nearly fainted.

I'm fan of - just date your whole life like teenagers without kids - type of relationship guy.

What is this no kids wave i'm seeing lately, dont you want your DNA to live on?

 

[MrLonely86]

I prefer carefree type of relationship , kids just complicate stuff there.
I don't like commitments in relationship or baggage.
But I like to be committed to one person.
If this makes sense.