Questions for the Men

[CenotaphGirl]

Whoops, another question, non controversial ( I think..?) and a very shallow question, do you prefer women with long hair or short hair or no preference?

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Whoops, another question, non controversial ( I think..?) and a very shallow question, do you prefer women with long hair or short hair or no preference?

I've dated both. I'm a guy with long hair, falls just under my shoulderblades in length, so I get it: Sometimes having long hair can be a pain in the ***, I understand.

As for controversial questions, I don't really see them that way. Nobody learns anything without asking, and direct communication is a lot more civil and efficient than beating around the bush (no pun intended, but I mean lulz anyway).

 

[MrLonely86]

Whoops, another question, non controversial ( I think..?) and a very shallow question, do you prefer women with long hair or short hair or no preference?

I have 0 preference in terms of hair and haircut. I've dated all sorts of girls with all sorts of haircuts.

 

[TheRealCallie]

What if she shaves her head? I'm not talking she has cancer and she's going to lose it, I'm talking just shaves it off for no particular reason other than she wants to.

 

[ewomack]

Whoops, another question, non controversial ( I think..?) and a very shallow question, do you prefer women with long hair or short hair or no preference?

I've dated women with mohawks, women with shaved heads, women with hair half way down their backs, women with bobs, women with perms, etc. All I can say is that a woman's hair has no reflection on how well she will treat you or how good of a partner she will be. The only thing I learned from women's hair is that women who seem to spend too much time on it tend to be obsessed with their looks and so often, but not always, neglect other aspects of their lives.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I've dated both. I'm a guy with long hair, falls just under my shoulderblades in length, so I get it: Sometimes having long hair can be a pain in the ***, I understand.

As for controversial questions, I don't really see them that way. Nobody learns anything without asking, and direct communication is a lot more civil and efficient than beating around the bush (no pun intended, but I mean lulz anyway).

So like you wouldn't prefer your girlfriend has super long hair? I wear sooo much extensions, if I said how much I pay for my hair, you'd all swear i'm a tax evader. Lol wait till you get to know me, you'll see my passion for "controversy" soon enough....

I have 0 preference in terms of hair and haircut. I've dated all sorts of girls with all sorts of haircuts.

I like this, not letting the little things stop the romanceeee

What if she shaves her head? I'm not talking she has cancer and she's going to lose it, I'm talking just shaves it off for no particular reason other than she wants to.

Omg... like a total Britney moment?

I've dated women with mohawks, women with shaved heads, women with hair half way down their backs, women with bobs, women with perms, etc. All I can say is that a woman's hair has no reflection on how well she will treat you or how good of a partner she will be. The only thing I learned from women's hair is that women who seem to spend too much time on it tend to be obsessed with their looks and so often, but not always, neglect other aspects of their lives.

I just mean in terms of basic attraction, not like deep into the romance sense of things, I mean is there any difference to the level of attraction?

 

[TheRealCallie]

Omg... like a total Britney moment?

I suppose that works too, but I was referring more to my sister in law. She got drunk one night and..well, let's just say she never makes good decisions while drunk.

 

[ewomack]

I just mean in terms of basic attraction, not like deep into the romance sense of things, I mean is there any difference to the level of attraction?

"Basic attraction" doesn't really matter to me. If I'm not going to date or have a relationship with a woman, I don't particularly care whether I find her attractive or not and it's irrelevant. Hair all by itself, abstracted away from a full human being, isn't attractive or unattractive all by itself. It seems like mainstream "beauty standards" tend to favor long hair, but I'm never going to date any of the women in that realm, so that has nothing to do with me. When I have found a woman attractive, and she was actually accessible to me, it wasn't because she had long or short hair, that's just a minor detail. Other things matter far more. So I guess that I don't really have an answer.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

"Basic attraction" doesn't really matter to me. If I'm not going to date or have a relationship with a woman, I don't particularly care whether I find her attractive or not and it's irrelevant. Hair all by itself, abstracted away from a full human being, isn't attractive or unattractive all by itself. It seems like mainstream "beauty standards" tend to favor long hair, but I'm never going to date any of the women in that realm, so that has nothing to do with me. When I have found a woman attractive, and she was actually accessible to me, it wasn't because she had long or short hair, that's just a minor detail. Other things matter far more. So I guess that I don't really have an answer.

hmm this is interesting, would you say the same if I asked.... blonde or brunette ?

 

[ewomack]

I suppose that works too, but I was referring more to my sister in law. She got drunk one night and..well, let's just say she never makes good decisions while drunk.

I did date a woman who called me one day and said "I shaved my head yesterday." We had been dating a few months and she didn't even hint that she wanted to do it. She didn't mention any drunken escapades, but I sensed that she was rebelling, since she also declared that she would no longer shave her legs or armpits. This was a while ago, when I was in college, and her employer contacted her and said she was fired because it didn't fit the company's image. They would NOT get away with that today. It was just a part-time college job, a few evenings and weekends, but still it was appalling. They probably would have reacted similarly back then had she had visible tattoos. I was younger back then too, obviously, and I told her that I honestly thought that she looked better with hair, even short hair, but I said that overall I wasn't bothered by it and we kept dating despite some awkward moments. I didn't care whether she shaved her legs or her armpits, so that never even came up. We dated for maybe another 7 or 8 months, her hair grew back and she didn't shave it again and we broke up for reasons that had nothing to do with any of her bodily hair.

 

[user 139760]

Whoops, another question, non controversial ( I think..?) and a very shallow question, do you prefer women with long hair or short hair or no preference?

I prefer them naked.
All the rest is negotiable.

 

[user 135671]

I'm not too fussed about hair length or colour, if she's got a pulse there's a good chance I'm interested.

 

[ewomack]

hmm this is interesting, would you say the same if I asked.... blonde or brunette ?

Yes, pretty much the same answer. Though often it's hard to tell a woman's natural hair color until you... you know...

 

[MrLonely86]

I like this, not letting the little things stop the romanceeee

Do girls like guys with this type of haircut?

 

[TheRealCallie]

hmm this is interesting, would you say the same if I asked.... blonde or brunette ?

Something wrong with redheads? Lol

 

[TheRealCallie]

I prefer them naked.
All the rest is negotiable.

What if she gets naked and you find that she is hairier than you?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I prefer them naked.
All the rest is negotiable.

Lol fair enough mate!!

I'm not too fussed about hair length or colour, if she's got a pulse there's a good chance I'm interested.

Whoop whoop!! this is blowing my men only like blondes theory out the water.

Yes, pretty much the same answer. Though often it's hard to tell a woman's natural hair color until you... you know...

Lol I took this... personally... very personally lmao.

Do girls like guys with this type of haircut?

I mean... I don't hate it? Lolz

Something wrong with redheads? Lol

Lool I was getting to them... at some point..

 

[TheRealCallie]

Lool I was getting to them... at some point..

 

[Wrong]

OK, so I'm not a man but, sometimes I would like to know what you guys think Soooo here is the thread to do it in.

Here is your first question. When a man asks you what you are doing this weekend, what does that mean? And why do they do that with no intentions of asking a girl out? lol!!! It's like:

Guy: What are you doing this weekend?
Girl: Oh nuttin.
Guy: Well, have fun.
Girl: **thinks to herself** what the hell was that? He asks me what I am doing and then doesn't ask me out**giggles**

Be more like "nothing, u?" and then if he says he has nothing going on be like "why? you wanna get a cup of coffee?" something like that.

Guys like myself can be pretty dumb and sometimes u gotta make it a tad clearer.

 

[MrLonely86]

OK, so I'm not a man but, sometimes I would like to know what you guys think Soooo here is the thread to do it in.

Here is your first question. When a man asks you what you are doing this weekend, what does that mean? And why do they do that with no intentions of asking a girl out? lol!!! It's like:

Guy: What are you doing this weekend?
Girl: Oh nuttin.
Guy: Well, have fun.
Girl: **thinks to herself** what the hell was that? He asks me what I am doing and then doesn't ask me out**giggles**

He likes you but he is afraid to say it out loud , so he makes cheap excuse just to see you.
If a guy is into some girl and he is afraid to say it out loud , he will just make dumb excuses to see you.
I use the same pattern, I meet girl, and I don't want to tell her after first meeting that I like her .... So I just think of some random stupid excuse in order to see her.
And after I see her few more times, I usually ask for "official date" or "define our relationship".
Guys are really fragile so ... His reaction is usual. But he is into you. But just afraid, so afraid.