Makes no sense to me lol but knowing what you like / want is important.I prefer carefree type of relationship , kids just complicate stuff there.
I don't like commitments in relationship or baggage.
But I like to be committed to one person.
If this makes sense.
Now I have the Hankuna matata song in my head... It means no worries... lolzI like hakuna matata type of relationship , where everything is easy and chill and carefree.
Kids just give you bunch of worries and a lot of commitment. -.-" You can't have free time with kids, your hobbies, your usual life etc etc.
When you get kid, your intimacy in kissing / *** usually also massively drops, you become bored , and so on.
I like to feel completely free in relationship, not put in cave or box or chain. I'm not that type of guy.
I would never ask. Not directly. Rejection hurts to much. Instead, I would just continually high light all the ways her life would improve when she did move in. I just hope she wouldn't mind creepy Tatoo hanging around taking pictures and movies for me to enjoy after she realizes it's not the pleasure palace I made it out to be and leaves.
If it's really stuck in there you'll have to bite the bullet and call the fire brigade
If it's really stuck in there you'll have to bite the bullet and call the fire brigade
You expect her to pay bills!
A relationship is not a "get out of adult responsibilities for free" card.
This time I did faint lol only joking, fair enough everyone likes what they like I guess.
It's more like mutually beneficial help. The main reason people move in together in America is because it's cheaper than living separate, but also it can really **** your credit and money up here if you get taken advantage of. It's just good common practice for everyone that lives here to have such protocol and standards regardless of their gender and dynamic.
Stupid women, trying to get in ya head lol
I can relate. My first marriage included the double standard that she could ask all of the questions of me that she wanted, but if I dared ask her a question the wrath of the universe would descend upon me. I often sit and think about numerous things, or sometimes I meditate (not in the Buddhist sense) and when I did that my ex would often ask me what I'm thinking about. I would tell her and she would invariably add "OK, what were you really thinking about?" She kept fishing if she didn't receive adequate answers, as if I was lying to her, and she always seemed to suspect that I was thinking of ways to plot against her. From what evidence, I don't know. At a distance, I see now that it all arose from her insecurities, possibly even ones that she wasn't aware of. I found out later that she was completely capable of cheating on me, so she likely projected that characteristic onto me and, as she was slinking around, she likely suspected that I was, too. And once again, she rationalized her cheating, but if I dared do the same then I was beneath the dignity of existence. I know now that she was someone who wanted it both ways: she wanted to have affairs and sleep with who she wanted, but she also wanted a traditional, devoted husband at home who was so mesmerized by her beauty that he would fall at her feet begging to do her bidding. In short, it was awful.
Lol this made me think of my dad, I'd bug him with so many questions, if I asked too many he'd talk to me about football to get me to go away
Nothing.... get's me to shut up quicker than that... I'd rather be called fat than talk about football lol Thats a big... rather.... lolForest are spanking Leicester City 4 - 1in the cup, City have just got one back though
