Most people think of physical attraction when they think about what makes a woman attractive. But there are other elements to the attraction as well. Often looks alone are not enough to capture a man's attention and keep it.
Physical attraction isn't that important for me, obviously there should be some physical attraction for successful interaction and the beginnings of a relationship. But the amount of physical attraction you require may also be based on the type of relationship you are looking for.
That spark of chemistry that we have with someone is a psychological attraction. The psychological attraction has more to do with personality and style than physical appearance. To determine psychological attraction, you have to have some meaningful conversations to get to know one another. Then there's Behavioural attraction, this is what people refer to when they say that confidence can be a sexy trait. How someone behaves can be as much a turn-on for men as physical appearance. It has a a lot to do with one's self-confidence, overall attitude, or outlook on life.
So for me it's a sense of humour, adventurous, Kindness & friendliness, being comfortable with expressing yourself, decisiveness, intelligence and probably loads more I've forgotten.
Now can I go back to being a vain shallow clown please, my manager always told me to give the people what they want