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Men, can I ask, do you really have no eye colour preference ? Blue eyes are magical to me, if someone with blue eyes even looks at me... I think... how, why, dont you want children with your magical eyes... Idk... I just think, literally fear. Probably due to how I was raised but idk, is no one else like that? So men ever experience that?
 
Men, can I ask, do you really have no eye colour preference ? Blue eyes are magical to me, if someone with blue eyes even looks at me... I think... how, why, dont you want children with your magical eyes... Idk... I just think, literally fear. Probably due to how I was raised but idk, is no one else like that? So men ever experience that?
Not really with eye colour, but I have a fairly strong racial preference, which is a no-no these days. ("Fetishizing", "exotifying" etc.)

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Not really with eye colour, but I have a fairly strong racial preference, which is a no-no these days. ("Fetishizing", "exotifying" etc.)

The last thing I'd want is for my children to look like me. I honestly don't know how I'd react if I had a son who resembled me, or worse, my father (might explain the preference for another group since there's less likelihood of a resemblance).
Seriously, like a different race? That's so interesting. I cant believe a man wouldn't want his son to look like him!!!?!? I've never heard of this, let me just ask, blue eyes or no?
 
Men, can I ask, do you really have no eye colour preference ? Blue eyes are magical to me, if someone with blue eyes even looks at me... I think... how, why, dont you want children with your magical eyes... Idk... I just think, literally fear. Probably due to how I was raised but idk, is no one else like that? So men ever experience that?

Same as hair, no preference.
 
Same as hair, no preference.
You guys are way better than me lol I think I have a preference for every little detail, because when I love someone I want our baby to look just like himmmmm, otherwise I wouldn't care as much, im sure 😅
 
Seriously, like a different race? That's so interesting. I cant believe a man wouldn't want his son to look like him!!!?!? I've never heard of this, let me just ask, blue eyes or no?
I have blue-green eyes and no I don't care what colour my children's eyes were.
 
I have blue-green eyes and no I don't care what colour my children's eyes were.
I couldn't have a baby or even date a guy with blue eyes, as much as I like them lol I'll leave them to the blue eye'd women... in peace.
 
Okay okay so no hair colour, eye colour or hair length preference, so what is the preference?
Most people think of physical attraction when they think about what makes a woman attractive. But there are other elements to the attraction as well. Often looks alone are not enough to capture a man's attention and keep it.

Physical attraction isn't that important for me, obviously there should be some physical attraction for successful interaction and the beginnings of a relationship. But the amount of physical attraction you require may also be based on the type of relationship you are looking for.

That spark of chemistry that we have with someone is a psychological attraction. The psychological attraction has more to do with personality and style than physical appearance. To determine psychological attraction, you have to have some meaningful conversations to get to know one another. Then there's Behavioural attraction, this is what people refer to when they say that confidence can be a sexy trait. How someone behaves can be as much a turn-on for men as physical appearance. It has a a lot to do with one's self-confidence, overall attitude, or outlook on life.

So for me it's a sense of humour, adventurous, Kindness & friendliness, being comfortable with expressing yourself, decisiveness, intelligence and probably loads more I've forgotten.

Now can I go back to being a vain shallow clown please, my manager always told me to give the people what they want ;)
 
Most people think of physical attraction when they think about what makes a woman attractive. But there are other elements to the attraction as well. Often looks alone are not enough to capture a man's attention and keep it.

Physical attraction isn't that important for me, obviously there should be some physical attraction for successful interaction and the beginnings of a relationship. But the amount of physical attraction you require may also be based on the type of relationship you are looking for.

That spark of chemistry that we have with someone is a psychological attraction. The psychological attraction has more to do with personality and style than physical appearance. To determine psychological attraction, you have to have some meaningful conversations to get to know one another. Then there's Behavioural attraction, this is what people refer to when they say that confidence can be a sexy trait. How someone behaves can be as much a turn-on for men as physical appearance. It has a a lot to do with one's self-confidence, overall attitude, or outlook on life.

So for me it's a sense of humour, adventurous, Kindness & friendliness, being comfortable with expressing yourself, decisiveness, intelligence and probably loads more I've forgotten.

Now can I go back to being a vain shallow clown please, my manager always told me to give the people what they want ;)
im still confused lol im not asking if looks alone are enough to keep and hold a mans attention, im asking, what the preference for the initial looks are, as only 2-3 men have answered some sort of preference lol the rest said there is not preferences so is it, any woman that looks any way will do? thats very interesting.
 
im still confused lol im not asking if looks alone are enough to keep and hold a mans attention, im asking, what the preference for the initial looks are, as only 2-3 men have answered some sort of preference lol the rest said there is not preferences so is it, any woman that looks any way will do? thats very interesting.
It's like asking a man which footie team he supports or which car he prefers you're going to get 100's of different answers and the vast majority will be no preference.
 
You guys are way better than me lol I think I have a preference for every little detail, because when I love someone I want our baby to look just like himmmmm, otherwise I wouldn't care as much, im sure 😅

Only preference I have is like height , I would like to date tall girl. But again, it isn't dealbreaker. :D
 
Okay okay so no hair colour, eye colour or hair length preference, so what is the preference?
East Asian (usually). Black hair generally. Pretty strong preference there. Cue accusations of fetishizing said group (being I'm a deplorable white male). Sporty/athletic/lifts weights is kind of cool as well.
 
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It's like asking a man which footie team he supports or which car he prefers you're going to get 100's of different answers and the vast majority will be no preference.
Yeah I want different answers lol but I'm shocked to see how many "no preferences" there are. It's like interesting, from a female perspective, this is 100% not my reality, I wish it was though, sounds like paradise.

Only preference I have is like height , I would like to date tall girl. But again, it isn't dealbreaker. :D
Height! Yikes, dont say that lol you'll be a troll! I do have a strong height preference to be honest, and it is a massive deal breaker as anyone who is not of the desired height just... idk. is not for me.

East Asian (usually). Black hair generally. Pretty strong preference there. Cue accusations of fetishizing said group (being I'm a deplorable white male). Sporty/athletic/lifts weights is kind of cool as well.
Interesting, I like that im getting some preferences, never thought anyone was into black hair though, it's sooo boring. Honestly I have no idea what a race fetish is, seems like anyone white men like is always called some sort of fetish, or strange if it's not a white woman, but the same is never said about white women so it's a bizarre dynamic in my opinion. However, my dad (who is a white man) did tell me, a white man would never love me romantically and it would be some weird fetish, so to leave them well alone. 😅
 

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