Questions for the Men

[M_also_lonely]

I wanna ask... would you be jealous if she slept with a lot of guys? Or... idk?

No.

 

[M_also_lonely]

If she was dumb... could you work through it, be her teacher.

No. Its generally futile.
I am speaking of raw, natural intelligence. Not the skill in math or academics.

 

[MrLonely86]

If she was dumb... could you work through it, be her teacher... or would it just be too much?

I came to an conclusion that university educated girls are pain to deal with, and not as smart as they represent to be. If I had this brain and that time, I would date hair cutter stylist girl.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I came to an conclusion that university educated girls are pain to deal with, and not as smart as they represent to be. If I had this brain and that time, I would date hair cutter stylist girl.

Would you date... a doctor?

 

[MrLonely86]

Would you date... a doctor?

Hell no. XD My best childhood friend is doctor, he can't even take proper piss on toilette. No time to take toilette. -.-
But I refused to date a lawyer cause she was taking her work home all the time. -.-"

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Okay Okay I wonder what men have to say to this one... Just your personal perspectives, no need to try and answer for the whole species lol.

My research has led me to a bit of a grey area, since a young age, I have always stereotyped men to be attracted to "idiots" I can hear the girls pretending to be dumb in class to impress the guys as I type this. This leads me to my next question fellas! How do you feel about women with degrees? I have been looking deeper into this area of the dating world. Are women in education adding value in your opinion? Or truthfully do you have a preference for air heads?

I don't like "dumb women," because even if she's physically attractive that's going to make it really hard for me to have a basic conversation with her, and if I can't have a basic conversation I'm gonna get bored pretty easily and lose interest. That's not to say that I haven't tried it, I have tried it, it was fun, the nature of our relationship wasn't that serious and it was mutually agreed that we weren't a serious thing. But it ultimately ended because she decided drugs were more important, and now she's in prison. That has sadly happened to me a couple times. Beautiful girl, great potential to do something interesting with her life, flushes it down the toilet for hard street drugs. I think, because I'm from a family of addicts, that's why I can't be with someone who's an addict.

And women with degrees usually don't want men without degrees.
They just don't approach me. Or in the rare event that they do I kinda look at it suspiciously like "Yo, what's the catch here??"
Because girls Date Up , I know that. It's kind of hard NOT to notice.
So in the event that some girl of a higher status wants me, I'm almost always certain there's some kind of expectation or ulterior motive behind it, neither of which I'm going to live up to or be okay with.

That's 100% the main reason I'm single.
I'm smart enough to know how to survive minimally on the streets, but not smart enough to know how to apply my intelligence to generate revenue beyond that of whatever job I've got going.
That's the thing about being Creative and a Musician: My time on this planet was like 300+ Years Ago...So, EVERY job is JUST a job to me, degree or not.
Because the only thing you can do with a degree in Music is just be a music teacher, or be in music production, there's no money in music. There hasn't been money in music since Radio became a thing. Once Billboard came into fruition, there went all of the money in music that would have gone to the actual musicians.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I don't like "dumb women," because even if she's physically attractive that's going to make it really hard for me to have a basic conversation with her, and if I can't have a basic conversation I'm gonna get bored pretty easily and lose interest. That's not to say that I haven't tried it, I have tried it, it was fun, the nature of our relationship wasn't that serious and it was mutually agreed that we weren't a serious thing. But it ultimately ended because she decided drugs were more important, and now she's in prison. That has sadly happened to me a couple times. Beautiful girl, great potential to do something interesting with her life, flushes it down the toilet for hard street drugs. I think, because I'm from a family of addicts, that's why I can't be with someone who's an addict.

And women with degrees usually don't want men without degrees.
They just don't approach me. Or in the rare event that they do I kinda look at it suspiciously like "Yo, what's the catch here??"
Because girls Date Up , I know that. It's kind of hard NOT to notice.
So in the event that some girl of a higher status wants me, I'm almost always certain there's some kind of expectation or ulterior motive behind it, neither of which I'm going to live up to or be okay with.

That's 100% the main reason I'm single.
I'm smart enough to know how to survive minimally on the streets, but not smart enough to know how to apply my intelligence to generate revenue beyond that of whatever job I've got going.
That's the thing about being Creative and a Musician: My time on this planet was like 300+ Years Ago...So, EVERY job is JUST a job to me, degree or not.
Because the only thing you can do with a degree in Music is just be a music teacher, or be in music production, there's no money in music. There hasn't been money in music since Radio became a thing. Once Billboard came into fruition, there went all of the money in music that would have gone to the actual musicians.

I actually watch countless drug documentaries, im so scared of being a drug addict one day even though I have never used anything lol I just thinks ugh I dont wanna take drugs.... but what if I do...

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

I actually watch countless drug documentaries, im so scared of being a drug addict one day even though I have never used anything lol I just thinks ugh I dont wanna take drugs.... but what if I do...

Weed, acid and mushrooms are the extent of my drug experimentation.
And even then, it's in moderation and sparingly.
None of it is addictive, so it's easier for me to manage.
I'm a recovered alcoholic, drinking for the first time now in 75 days, and before that it was 9 months sober.
I don't really drink like I used to because I can't. I can't financially, and I can't recover from it physically like I used to either because I'm older now.
My mother and sister are both opiate addicts.
My sister was addicted for 13 years before she sobered up and is only just now coming off of the methadone treatment (which is also addictive, but that's the treatment for opiate abuse--you can't cold turkey cut off opiates, it'll kill you), roughly 4 years after her sobriety. She's 29 years old. So yes, for roughly half of her life, she was an addict.
I don't have it in me to be with addicts because of that.
My mother gets her stuff legally, but also she abuses it. So, admittedly, she's kind of a lost cause and there's nothing I can really do about it, so I've distanced myself over the last couple of years even though she's better than what she used to be. I only keep tabs on her (my ex) because she's in prison for stealing cars, and I've gotta make sure she doesn't break in and steal stuff while I'm at work. Addicts are like that, that'll happen.

 

[Finished]

I have an addictive personality. So, there's no way in hell I'm going to take drugs.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Okay, play nice, this is a hard question.

An ex calls you up and says she had your child 18 years ago... and they wanna meet ya, what would you do?

 

[Colster]

Okay, play nice, this is a hard question.

An ex calls you up and says she had your child 18 years ago... and they wanna meet ya, what would you do?

Ha, well she can sling her hook!

I've one kid, entirely planned.

However, I do have one young lady who thought I was her dad, simply on the basis that I may have known her mum 20 something years ago. She still calls me Dad, despite the undeniable fact that I am not.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Ha, well she can sling her hook!

I've one kid, entirely planned.

However, I do have one young lady who thought I was her dad, simply on the basis that I may have known her mum 20 something years ago. She still calls me Dad, despite the undeniable fact that I am not.

Oh wow, you wouldn't wanna meet your off spring though? I feel like its a sad situation for them.

 

[Colster]

My offspring, yes. But the simple fact is, I have one child. And even though I may have been a voracious flirt, I can still remember where I have been.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

My offspring, yes. But the simple fact is, I have one child. And even though I may have been a voracious flirt, I can still remember where I have been.

But just imagine... for argument sake... lol that you had a dip and a memory skip lol and now you have this second "child", would you be sad?

 

[Finished]

Okay, play nice, this is a hard question.

An ex calls you up and says she had your child 18 years ago... and they wanna meet ya, what would you do?

This could actually happen to me. But the child would have to be over 30 now. So, it's highly unlikely. But, it was in the back of my mind for years. I would meet with them and be as nice as I could be. After that it would all depend on what the person wanted / needed. I would help alleviate any questions or concerns she might have. I would stay in touch with the person if that's what they wanted. But if it was financially based then I would be cautious and want a DNA test before doing anything more.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

This could actually happen to me. But the child would have to be over 30 now. So, it's highly unlikely. But, it was in the back of my mind for years. I would meet with them and be as nice as I could be. After that it would all depend on what the person wanted / needed. I would help alleviate any questions or concerns she might have. I would stay in touch with the person if that's what they wanted. But if it was financially based then I would be cautious and want a DNA test before doing anything more.

Awh Finished you're a good man I'd be scareddd

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Okay, play nice, this is a hard question.

An ex calls you up and says she had your child 18 years ago... and they wanna meet ya, what would you do?

Wonder how the Hell that happened because I wrapped it up and intentionally don't **** that much specifically because I'm afraid of this situation?

I'd probably be like "Uuuhhh....are you sure it's my kid??" And then go get a paternity test for clarification.

Then I'd probably ask her rather outlandishly why she never told me because that's kind of a ****** up thing to do to a child. Not me, I mean I'd be fine without knowing, but that kid will suffer some hardcore emotional damaging from something like that. And I know that for a fact because that actually happened to my high school best friend. Regrettably, his bi-racial parents told him that he was adopted on his 18th birthday, and that his sister isn't biologically his sister. It, sadly, completely destroyed his life. Like he ended up falling into drugs and also went to prison (I know a lot of people who've fallen into drugs and have been in prison, despite the fact that I've got a clean record).

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Wonder how the Hell that happened because I wrapped it up and intentionally don't **** that much specifically because I'm afraid of this situation?

I'd probably be like "Uuuhhh....are you sure it's my kid??" And then go get a paternity test for clarification.

Then I'd probably ask her rather outlandishly why she never told me because that's kind of a messed up thing to do to a child. Not me, I mean I'd be fine without knowing, but that kid will suffer some hardcore emotional damaging from something like that. And I know that for a fact because that actually happened to my high school best friend. Regrettably, his bi-racial parents told him that he was adopted on his 18th birthday, and that his sister isn't biologically his sister. It, sadly, completely destroyed his life. Like he ended up falling into drugs and also went to prison (I know a lot of people who've fallen into drugs and have been in prison, despite the fact that I've got a clean record).

Omg... I cant imagine, my parents told me early on that im adopted but I still didn't understand, I used to wonder, why is everyone else so bloody white But as I got older I was like oh.... so thats what that means.

 

[Colster]

But just imagine... for argument sake... lol that you had a dip and a memory skip lol and now you have this second "child", would you be sad?

I wouldn't be sad. More likely, I would bloody angry. Denied access for 18 years, or how ever long the hypothesis is. But the hypothesis is too fairytale for me. I'm methodical in everything I do.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I wouldn't be sad. More likely, I would bloody angry. Denied access for 18 years, or how ever long the hypothesis is. But the hypothesis is too fairytale for me. I'm methodical in everything I do.

I like that about you, its a positive