LonelyLola
Well-known member
1- women can fall hard and fast. How much personal experience do you have being a woman and falling hard and fast? None. How much do I have? 34 years experience. So you can trust me.
2- I have never used a person, any person, for emotional verification other than when I cry to my mom or my best friend about feeling worthless. I have used guys for sex, but have never led them on. They knew they were getting no strings attached sex and so did I.
Here is what I get from your questions. You either did like or do like a girl. She has "friend zoned" you, and instead of just being friends, you feel she is using you for emotional verification.
Now I have been discussing stereotypes in another thread, and so I hate to generalize, but all of my online experience with guys who complain about being used by women is about 90% being upset they are in a situation where the girl just actually wants to be friends, 10% actually being used by a girl to make herself feel good. Here is the thing: girls don't owe you just because you like them. If they want to be friends with you, great! Either appreciate her friendship or move on. Mst girls don't need fake guy friends who are pining away for them. It is a ****** premise for a romantic movie/story and a stressful position to be in.
2- I have never used a person, any person, for emotional verification other than when I cry to my mom or my best friend about feeling worthless. I have used guys for sex, but have never led them on. They knew they were getting no strings attached sex and so did I.
Here is what I get from your questions. You either did like or do like a girl. She has "friend zoned" you, and instead of just being friends, you feel she is using you for emotional verification.
Now I have been discussing stereotypes in another thread, and so I hate to generalize, but all of my online experience with guys who complain about being used by women is about 90% being upset they are in a situation where the girl just actually wants to be friends, 10% actually being used by a girl to make herself feel good. Here is the thing: girls don't owe you just because you like them. If they want to be friends with you, great! Either appreciate her friendship or move on. Mst girls don't need fake guy friends who are pining away for them. It is a ****** premise for a romantic movie/story and a stressful position to be in.