Treat them mean, keep them keen.

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Yes, African. It's more widely used by younger people, who can get by with their looks and don't have to rely on personality or common traits to keep a person.

When sex isn't something you can hold over a person anymore, you've probably matured to the point where you will look to not hurt the person you love, since you don't want them to hurt you.

 

[Locke]

This is the **** I hate. However, I think this is more used by younger people than older people. I'm honestly was more attracted to older women than girls my age. Older people don't have time for that ****, so they don't play games. People my age, we're so polluted with reality tv that we think it acceptable to lead someone on pretty much. We think that some people are just our play things and not consider someone else's feelings and think that not telling them will not hurt someones when it dose. If you just tell the person straight up, they will probably just go on with their lives instead of "what could I have done?" or "what did I do wrong" or anything that make them self-deprecating. To add to that, if were my case, "if I promised her weed, would she e more inclined to date me?" So you should e asking yourself, "why do people do this ****?" You could say it's the rap music and you could say it's the player's fault. All and all, it could be a number of things, so just know it's all ********.

Locke, it's your turn now. Roll that beautiful bean footage!

Holy crap African, you just made me realise that I'm old. I have no idea what 'Roll that beautiful bean footage' means. Damn you!

Younger people probably do tend to play mind games more. Maybe they don't know any better, or maybe it's partly the media's fault, like you said.

Or maybe you just get tired of the ******** at around age 25. Hey, you! GET OFF MY LAWN!!!!!

 

[African_weasel]

P.S: What the **** happened to courting someone? If I did every romantic thing for someone I would be a "nice guy". Do people like to be treated like crap these days? Do people have any self worth anymore and depend on others to fill that void? Lastly, does being yourself even exists? This is the African Weasel's ether on society. And **** the drug dealer who thought he ******* knew me. I've known that person since junior year, **** YOU! Till next time, I'm out.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

It's for this reason that I don't find women attractive until they're, say, 22 or 23.

Any younger than that, and they might look good, but their immaturity is just beyond ridiculous. I want a relationship with an adult, not a child.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Yes, African. It's more widely used by younger people, who can get by with their looks and don't have to rely on personality or common traits to keep a person.

When sex isn't something you can hold over a person anymore, you've probably matured to the point where you will look to not hurt the person you love, since you don't want them to hurt you.

Being older means you get ugly or something and have to rely on your personality to keep someone?
Being older means you can't hold sex over someone (if a person is the kind of ass that would do that to begin with)?

The things you listed above aren't traits of an older person - they're traits of an *******, just FYI. Older people can/will do the same kind of crap if they have no scruples. People don't stop being jerks just because they get older.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

This is an example of when I need to ******* proofread what I write before I post it. Thank you again, Eve, for pointing out the flawed logic.

Revised example (I wish you hadn't quoted that):

Yes, African. It's more widely used by younger people, who can use looks to primarily attract a person. Although some older people are more attractive as they get older, but that's beside the point.

When looks aren't the only thing you have going for you, you've probably matured to the point where you will look to not hurt the person you love, since you don't want them to hurt you. And you will care more about personality, rather than having to trick them into liking you. You've learned from your mistakes, and don't want to repeat them.

Or maybe I'm just jaded, because I'm experienced a lot of women who have used games as a way to attract me, and I've never been attracted to that. If you can't be honest, you can't build a relationship on honesty. Guys do it, too...how many pick up artists are out there? The internet is full of those manuals.

 

[EveWasFramed]

This is an example of when I need to ******* proofread what I write before I post it. Thank you again, Eve, for pointing out the flawed logic.

Revised example (I wish you hadn't quoted that):

Yes, African. It's more widely used by younger people, who can use looks to primarily attract a person. Although some older people are more attractive as they get older, but that's beside the point.

When looks aren't the only thing you have going for you, you've probably matured to the point where you will look to not hurt the person you love, since you don't want them to hurt you. And you will care more about personality, rather than having to trick them into liking you. You've learned from your mistakes, and don't want to repeat them.

Or maybe I'm just jaded, because I'm experienced a lot of women who have used games as a way to attract me, and I've never been attracted to that. If you can't be honest, you can't build a relationship on honesty. Guys do it, too...how many pick up artists are out there? The internet is full of those manuals.

lol, much better.

 

[African_weasel]

This is an example of when I need to ******* proofread what I write before I post it. Thank you again, Eve, for pointing out the flawed logic.

Revised example (I wish you hadn't quoted that):

Yes, African. It's more widely used by younger people, who can use looks to primarily attract a person. Although some older people are more attractive as they get older, but that's beside the point.

When looks aren't the only thing you have going for you, you've probably matured to the point where you will look to not hurt the person you love, since you don't want them to hurt you. And you will care more about personality, rather than having to trick them into liking you. You've learned from your mistakes, and don't want to repeat them.

Or maybe I'm just jaded, because I'm experienced a lot of women who have used games as a way to attract me, and I've never been attracted to that. If you can't be honest, you can't build a relationship on honesty. Guys do it, too...how many pick up artists are out there? The internet is full of those manuals.

Too damn many, that's how many. So many girls fall for it, it ridonkculous. I mean, I want a simply date and progress from there possibly.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Oh, I would never buy a pickup manual. I'd rather cut my penis off with a dull knife, while listening to Nickelback.

 

[Smokey]

Treat em mean, keep em keen....

Why didn't I think of that.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Oh, I would never buy a pickup manual. I'd rather cut my penis off with a dull knife, while listening to Nickelback.

:club: lol, no dissing Nickelback.

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[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Sorry, lol.

Who am I to talk? I like the woman that married the singer of Nickelback. I love Avril Lavigne's music (I believe someone on here called me out on that.)

Everyone likes what they like, music is completely subjective. The only thing that is constant about music is that we all hear ourselves in what we like.

 

[Sci-Fi]

Why does everyone rag on Nickleback, if they were really that bad they wouldn't have hit records.

 

[Smokey]

Why does everyone rag on Nickleback, if they were really that bad they wouldn't have hit records.

keeps em keen....apparently.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Why does everyone rag on Nickleback, if they were really that bad they wouldn't have hit records.

LOL... +1

 

[Felix]

Sorry, lol.

Who am I to talk? I like the woman that married the singer of Nickelback. I love Avril Lavigne's music (I believe someone on here called me out on that.)

Everyone likes what they like, music is completely subjective. The only thing that is constant about music is that we all hear ourselves in what we like.

Wait Nickelback and that qt 3.14??? That makes me rage for some reason...

Why does everyone rag on Nickleback, if they were really that bad they wouldn't have hit records.

It's just fun to bash'em.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I was joking by the way. Nickelback isn't that bad, I just don't like their style of music.

And Nicki Minaj is a lot worse. Or, if you really want bad, try Yoko Ono. It'll make you want to stick an icepick in your ears.

 

[EveWasFramed]

. Or, if you really want bad, try Yoko Ono. It'll make you want to stick an icepick in your ears.

Agreed.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Wait Nickelback and that qt 3.14??? That makes me rage for some reason...

I had to look up qt 3.14. Yes, I had a crush on Avril for as long as I could remember. She could do so much better than Chad Kroeger.

I'm going to have the rage of Eve on me for saying that, lol. Just my opinion.

I think we all need to take this to PM, because this has deviated into discussion of music instead of the OP. Sorry about that.

 

[Smokey]

In all fairness though....

I think people who treat em mean, are really just excusing their rabid insecurities.

If you got nothing nice to say then don't say anything!!!!

Ch'yeahhhhh ma Granny rawked!