What are you feeling, hoping, thinking, or remembering right now?

[0mgofhappiness]

You need to work on yourself. Take care.

Take good care x

 

[kaetic]

Yeah you are right. I think it's the feeling of being loved I miss. Not the man. Yes. 'then what' a perfect perspective. I have been divorced for ten years nearly so I don't actually know. I think that's why encounters post divorce have not turned out well. He told me I was not unlike a blow up doll but a blow up doll would have been better. Not something I experienced in my marriage, my husband loved to be intimate with me. That's what I miss

Whoever told you that sounds like a piece of ****. You're better off without him.

I have no experience with divorce, but I can understand it can be a nightmare. I'm sorry you're going through this

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Take good care x

Ty

 

[okidoke]

The usual gripes that put men off. Cellulite, saggy ****s, bingo wings.

As I’ve said, there are men who love such things.

My last partner didn't like taking me to bed anymore.

Something has obviously changed.

I think being leaner is the least of my problems although it might help.

I guess you need to look at those problems and start tackling them, while you can. Wallowing in self pity hasn’t helped anyone.

 

[0mgofhappiness]

As I’ve said, there are men who love such things.


Something has obviously changed.


I guess you need to look at those problems and start tackling them, while you can. Wallowing in self pity hasn’t helped anyone.

I don't think any men like cellulite or anything saggy or bingo wings. If they say they do when they have a twenty year old on their arm. They are lying.

Not self pity it's anger at being insulted. Or is that the same as self pity. Yeah I suppose it is.

Thanks for your input. Enjoy your romp

 

[okidoke]

I don't think any men like cellulite or anything saggy or bingo wings. If they say they do when they have a twenty year old on their arm. They are lying.

You haven't delved enough into it. You can easily google for websites and certain forums for such things. I didn't mention the men being with anyone else so I'm not sure why you mentioned that extra bit when I was just referring to men who like bigger gals.

Thanks for your input. Enjoy your romp

You're welcome and I'm happy to help in any way I can. I'm not sure though what you mean by my "romp".

 

[0mgofhappiness]

You haven't delved enough into it. You can easily google for websites and certain forums for such things. I didn't mention the men being with anyone else so I'm not sure why you mentioned that extra bit when I was just referring to men who like bigger gals.


You're welcome and I'm happy to help in any way I can. I'm not sure though what you mean by my "romp".

My autocorrect is faulty sometimes. I think I was still stuck in reading another post while replying, there was a discussion regarding men paying for petite hot young girls. Apparently it's across the board now,.so when I as a middle aged woman gets wind of what men like. My chances are not slim, they are NIL. The ratio doesn't help, when there are 18-24 year old women going for the same man as a 50 Ur old woman. He is going to opt for the young petite hot ones. As some honest posters have written on here. So the romp wasn't aimed at you, it was the two guys talking about paying for the best women on the block. I think they were purposefully trying to make middle aged women feel worse than how they do already. But at the same time, it is the truth, men do prefer younger women especially if they feel they are helping a woman out with her 'career' as it were. It's refreshing in a way that some men are honest about these things, where some men cover it up.

Thanks for your reply

 

[okidoke]

My autocorrect is faulty sometimes. I think I was still stuck in reading another post while replying, there was a discussion regarding men paying for petite hot young girls. Apparently it's across the board now,.so when I as a middle aged woman gets wind of what men like. My chances are not slim, they are NIL. The ratio doesn't help, when there are 18-24 year old women going for the same man as a 50 Ur old woman. He is going to opt for the young petite hot ones. As some honest posters have written on here. So the romp wasn't aimed at you, it was the two guys talking about paying for the best women on the block. I think they were purposefully trying to make middle aged women feel worse than how they do already. But at the same time, it is the truth, men do prefer younger women especially if they feel they are helping a woman out with her 'career' as it were. It's refreshing in a way that some men are honest about these things, where some men cover it up.

Thanks for your reply

You're not listening to me. Without being facetious, let me capitilise the lettering so you see it better. THERE ARE MEN THAT LIKE LARGER AND OLDER WOMEN. Everyone is different, so don't judge everyone guy the same, please. It's like you're deliberately not willing to even try.

People have spoken about seeing beyond looks, seeing people for who they are beyond the exterior, so one needs to work on oneself, as has been suggested to you in the phrase "love yourself" by @HellsLittleAngel but if you remain in this viscious cycle of self pity without any attempt at bettering yourself or your situation, then nothing will improve for you. Take the bull by the horns and just start. Small steps. Small goals and feel proud of yourself as you achieve each one. Don't rush an end result. Take your time, learn to discover yourself, become independent and resilient, and you will feel better about yourself, which has the effect of other people feeling better about you. Stay humble.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

You're not listening to me. Without being facetious, let me capitilise the lettering so you see it better. THERE ARE MEN THAT LIKE LARGER AND OLDER WOMEN. Everyone is different, so don't judge everyone guy the same, please. It's like you're deliberately not willing to even try.

People have spoken about seeing beyond looks, seeing people for who they are beyond the exterior, so one needs to work on oneself, as has been suggested to you in the phrase "love yourself" by @HellsLittleAngel but if you remain in this viscious cycle of self pity without any attempt at bettering yourself or your situation, then nothing will improve for you. Take the bull by the horns and just start. Small steps. Small goals and feel proud of yourself as you achieve each one. Don't rush an end result. Take your time, learn to discover yourself, become independent and resilient, and you will feel better about yourself, which has the effect of other people feeling better about you. Stay humble.

This woman is too much, even for me. Very draining. She likes to be in the victim mode and you can tell. I know you think I might be being heartless, but I know this behavior all so well, so I know what I'm talking about, when I speak on this. She doesn't want to help herself. She's just stuck in her own self-pity and views on how men see women, and has no desire to focus on her own self, which is what she really needs. It's like talking to a wall with this one.

 

[0mgofhappiness]

You're not listening to me. Without being facetious, let me capitilise the lettering so you see it better. THERE ARE MEN THAT LIKE LARGER AND OLDER WOMEN. Everyone is different, so don't judge everyone guy the same, please. It's like you're deliberately not willing to even try.

People have spoken about seeing beyond looks, seeing people for who they are beyond the exterior, so one needs to work on oneself, as has been suggested to you in the phrase "love yourself" by @HellsLittleAngel but if you remain in this viscious cycle of self pity without any attempt at bettering yourself or your situation, then nothing will improve for you. Take the bull by the horns and just start. Small steps. Small goals and feel proud of yourself as you achieve each one. Don't rush an end result. Take your time, learn to discover yourself, become independent and resilient, and you will feel better about yourself, which has the effect of other people feeling better about you. Stay humble.

I read a poll and a study that mens knee jerk reaction to older women is negative. Show them images of younger hot women as the two posters were quite proud to point out they can afford to hire them. Thanks for the words of positivity in any case, I can see you mean well and don't want to be rude. It says on the debate section you can't directly insult another member. Bit they do it indirectly anyway. And they know it. Why are they doing that on a forum designed for lonely sad people,.can't they go on another site and do it to others like them? Boast about paying for escorts somewhere else than make the lonely people feel even worse.

 

[okidoke]

This woman is too much, even for me. Very draining. She likes to be in the victim mode and you can tell. I know you think I might be being heartless, but I know this behavior all so well, so I know what I'm talking about, when I speak on this. She doesn't want to help herself. She's just stuck in her own self-pity and views on how men see women, and has no desire to focus on her own self, which is what she really needs. It's like talking to a wall with this one.

This sort of response is what alienates people against you. It's what I mentioned to you in the early days of your arrival to which you took umbrage. Not everyone can be treated the same way. You have to take a different approach to gain different people's trust. Our objective here is to help and empower people, not put them down and scare them away.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

I read a poll and a study that mens knee jerk reaction to older women is negative. Show them images of younger hot women as the two posters were quite proud to point out they can afford to hire them. Thanks for the words of positivity in any case, I can see you mean well and don't want to be rude. It says on the debate section you can't directly insult another member. Bit they do it indirectly anyway. And they know it. Why are they doing that on a forum designed for lonely sad people,.can't they go on another site and do it to others like them? Boast about paying for escorts somewhere else than make the lonely people feel even worse.

May I suggest a desperately seeking man forum for you?!

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

This sort of response is what alienates people against you. It's what I mentioned to you in the early days of your arrival to which you took umbrage. Not everyone can be treated the same way. You have to take a different approach to gain different people's trust. Our objective here is to help and empower people, not put them down and scare them away.

You can't help those who don't want it. She likes playing the victim. You feel bad. I don't. Why? Because they don't want to help themselves. They just want you to agree with them and want your attention to feel how they do. No thank you.

 

[0mgofhappiness]

This sort of response is what alienates people against you. It's what I mentioned to you in the early days of your arrival to which you took umbrage. Not everyone can be treated the same way. You have to take a different approach to gain different people's trust. Our objective here is to help and empower people, not put them down and scare them away.

I have had the lure and deter approach used on me. In pure malicious intent. When I have pulled away they kept pulling me in. The person hated me. What do these people.gaon from luring someone in they completely detest?! Are you able to answer that?

 

[okidoke]

I read a poll and a study that mens knee jerk reaction to older women is negative. Show them images of younger hot women as the two posters were quite proud to point out they can afford to hire them. Thanks for the words of positivity in any case, I can see you mean well and don't want to be rude. It says on the debate section you can't directly insult another member. Bit they do it indirectly anyway. And they know it. Why are they doing that on a forum designed for lonely sad people,.can't they go on another site and do it to others like them? Boast about paying for escorts somewhere else than make the lonely people feel even worse.

To be fair, you don't know the people well enough to judge them like that. I know for a fact that wasn't their intention with the comment about escorts. But as I said, don't worry about what's not important here. And again I'll say that you have to change yourself and find the people that are attracted to you. If you want some help from the forum, you have to be willing to take some advice and not debate irrelevant things or people will just ignore you and treat you like some troll. You don't want that.

 

[okidoke]

What do these people.gaon from luring someone in they completely detest?! Are you able to answer that?

Who cares? Why waste your time studying on it? You have yourself to improve, don't worry about them.

 

[0mgofhappiness]

To be fair, you don't know the people well enough to judge them like that. I know for a fact that wasn't their intention with the comment about escorts. But as I said, don't worry about what's not important here. And again I'll say that you have to change yourself and find the people that are attracted to you. If you want some help from the forum, you have to be willing to take some advice and not debate irrelevant things or people will just ignore you and treat you like some troll. You don't want that.

Who cares? Why waste your time studying on it? You have yourself to improve, don't worry about them.

Because they keep turning up in my life and making me feel bad when I don't talk to them! Who cares? Are you ok?

 

[okidoke]

Because they keep turning up in my life and making me feel bad when I don't talk to them!

If people are harassing you, that's a police issue.

Are you ok?

Why do you ask?

 

[abbynormal]

worried that world war III is within sight. also worried that Handmaid's Tale is becoming real.

 

[TheRealCallie]

I want an older guy but they want and know they can have younger women

There a lot of men who want a woman with a perfect body and perfect face. There are men who only want a "trophy" wife. But certainly not all. I have several friends who are with older men. Those friends do not have the perfect body. One of them is very overweight. If it were true that men only wanted women in shape there wouldn't be dating sites specifically for bigger people. People like different things, everyone has their own preferences regardless what society or the media says.