ladyforsaken
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Cavey said:ladyforsaken said:Cavey said:I'm thinking about what a whining child I've become. I've always believed that people should stand up and fight for what they want, but lately I've just been wandering around thinking about the negative and wondering "Why me?". The simple fact is that we all have issues, but it's not the issues themselves that are the problem, it's our perception of them and how we choose to respond.
It's time for me to put the negative to the back of my mind and start working on myself again. It might not be easy, but then nothing that's worth having in this life ever is...
I have been having the same thoughts lately about myself too.
I'd say that your problems are slightly more worthy of the feeling though. My problems extend to a busted arm, rapidly running out of cash and being alone. My problems pale into insignificance next to yours. Your arrival back on the forum reminded me that their are others out there who'd give anything to have bad joints and a minor muscle paralysis.
I think that we all go through that "whiny" phase at some point in our lives. We're all just human anyway and allowed to whine sometimes. As long as you don't drown in it and drag it on making it permanent, like how you're aware of the negativity and trying to change that, that's good enough I think.
We each have our own **** to deal with, no more no less than the other cos you can't really compare your **** to other people's **** or it would just get depressing most of the time. Either for them or for yourself. We can only acknowledge each other's ****** situations and be supportive. I think that's the best thing to do.
Cavey said:LadyF said:I had those for the first time when I was in England before.... tasty little things, I'd say. It was Edward W who introduced them to me.
A pity we did not really converse back then. I'd have liked to have met the almost legendary LadyF. If you ever come back to England, I'll have to take you for a coffee or something
Oh come on, I'm not legendary lol. (That makes me sound so old.)
If I ever make my way to England again, you'll be on my list of people to hunt down.
She-ra said:^Ahem I wanna gatecrash, I always promise Ladyf tea .
And you will be on the list too.
Peaches said:navigating the dangerous waters of getting to know another person
I hope it goes well and good. :s
Oldyoung said:I don't like the emptiness I experience when getting off the computer. Especially when I've been chatting with people.
*hugs* I know what you mean. It's unfortunate. The same way I feel about having to go to sleep, leaving people I am having a nice time talking to.
MissGuided said:Yes, they were quite a treat. They had orange flavored as well, but I stuck with reliable raspberry.
I bought another couple of boxes to take to the peeps at work, too.
How nice of you! Now I wish I am one of those peeps at work too.