What are you thinking right now?

[TheSkaFish]

If that's how you interpret it then go ahead. Whatever helps.

I don't really feel like discussing this any further today - in fact, I can't afford to. But heaven forbid that the same situation happens to you someday. I don't mean just a dream but the whole thing. Think about how that would make you feel as both a male and as a person, about what that would do to your self-worth. Then think about how you'd feel when someone makes what appears to be snarky comments about it.

Really think about it. That's all.

 

[TheRealCallie]

If that's how you interpret it then go ahead. Whatever helps.

I don't really feel like discussing this any further today - in fact, I can't afford to. But heaven forbid that the same situation happens to you someday. I don't mean just a dream but the whole thing. Think about how that would make you feel as both a male and as a person, about what that would do to your self-worth. Then think about how you'd feel when someone makes what appears to be snarky comments about it.

Really think about it. That's all.

That a girl (or a guy) chose someone else? Um, it happens every day...

 

[TheSkaFish]

That a girl (or a guy) chose someone else? Um, it happens every day...

No. I mean, getting to know someone and talking for hours with them all night, them acting all close with you, sharing their deep thoughts and feelings and acting like they understand yours. Having them tell you they care about you and your dreams, want to share in the things you find special, saying sweet things and acting like they really love you. Only to watch them succumb to the lure of the "cool" kids' table, and choose the dumbest, ugliest, biggest scumbag piece of **** they could find. You already know this.

If it isn't abundantly clear by now, I don't want to talk to you. Good day.

 

[user 115627]

This could've been the first state-funded institution with the purpose of getting unemployed people back into business with tangible success...but no. Concept: B. Execution: E-

That's not a detour, it's a dead end. The only way to win this is by going along as far as necessary, ransacking all the funding for travelling to interviews while still playing your own game and ignoring their outdated and pointless advices. No wonder people are getting frustrated and only kill time there. Two days...just two days to even exceed my already low expections.

 

[lonelyfairy]

I don't want to wake up. Real life is a bad dream. I just want to sleep... But that's basically all I've been doing in these past few months.

 

[TheRealCallie]

That a girl (or a guy) chose someone else? Um, it happens every day...

No. I mean, getting to know someone and talking for hours with them all night, them acting all close with you, sharing their deep thoughts and feelings and acting like they understand yours. Having them tell you they care about you and your dreams, want to share in the things you find special, acting like they really love you. Only to watch them succumb to the lure of the "cool" kids' table, and choose the dumbest, ugliest, biggest scumbag piece of **** they could find. You already know this.

If it isn't abundantly clear by now, I don't want to talk to you. Good day.

It's called being a friend....Not everyone who gets "close" to a person has romantic interest in them. Get over it and stop with the "cool, badass" people ****.

Also, if you don't want to talk to me, why did you? lol

 

[TheSkaFish]

It's called being a friend....Not everyone who gets "close" to a person has romantic interest in them. Get over it and stop with the "cool, badass" people ****.

Also, if you don't want to talk to me, why did you? lol

Do you have nothing better to do than piss people off? Do you get some kind of twisted enjoyment from pushing people's sore points until they lash out at you, and then you can play all innocent?

How about I start making snarky comments about YOUR life next time something bothers you? Would you like that? I can think of quite a few.

 

[ladyforsaken]

I think the forum has enough negative tension, we don't need any more. I think everyone's entitled to rant and moan about whatever they want and everyone can have their opinions on people's rants and moans but is it possible to do these things without going down each other's throats? I understand the frustrations when you see someone waste their life away being stuck to a particular person or thought or being ignorant about things or just being stupid (not claiming anyone here to be so, just an example), but different people end up dealing with things differently, some people can move on well after some time, some people can't and they stay stuck forever. But you guys know what? It's their choice.

I'm not speaking for Ska here, neither am I speaking for anyone involved in the above thing, but I stand to the fact that what's happening above ^ might cause people to think that they can't even vent or rant at a forum like this. We know how long Ska has been dealing with that particular issue in his life but we don't know the depth of his pain and hurt because we are not him. Maybe he's gonna take forever to move on, but that's his life... as long as he doesn't offend people with his venting, I don't see what's the problem. He was merely venting about his dream.... like we all do here sometimes.

I'm not taking sides, neither am I pointing out that anyone is wrong, but can we just cut out the negativity and the tension among each other? It's the main thing that drives people off this forum from my humble knowledge. I hate seeing that. This place should feel safe for people to talk openly about their issues. Yes, sometimes tough love or reality check is required but come on, Ska's been around for some time now, I personally think he does try and although he can be stubborn, I don't see why he can't vent about a dream. If he makes some rude comments and people get on to him for that, this post of mine would not exist.

So can we all just chill out here?

P.S. If you don't like someone on here or their posts, put them on ignore.. unless they are rude and offensive and are wrong about something in particular, then I'm all for standing up for what's right.

 

[Rainbows]

If you perceive every friendship with a female as them having a romantic interest in you... well.. okay.

 

[Oldyoung]

If you perceive every friendship with a female as them having a romantic interest in you... well.. okay.

Well, the thing is that...

oh. I'm supposed to share my thoughts in this thread. Not discuss

I'm thinking about the future.

 

[TheSkaFish]

If you perceive every friendship with a female as them having a romantic interest in you... well.. okay.

No, I don't perceive EVERY friendship with a female as romantic interests. There are women about when I go out sometimes, and we just exchange pleasantries and talk briefly about surface topics. I usually don't talk to them again until I see them again. Not, you know. Going out of my way to talk to them every chance I get. Not talking about getting touchy-feely with them or anything even remotely sexual.

No, the only ones I think might have romantic interests are the ones that ******* talk and act like it.

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I'm not speaking for Ska here, neither am I speaking for anyone involved in the above thing, but I stand to the fact that what's happening above ^ might cause people to think that they can't even vent or rant at a forum like this. We know how long Ska has been dealing with that particular issue in his life but we don't know the depth of his pain and hurt because we are not him. Maybe he's gonna take forever to move on, but that's his life... as long as he doesn't offend people with his venting, I don't see what's the problem. He was merely venting about his dream.... like we all do here sometimes.

I'm not taking sides, neither am I pointing out that anyone is wrong, but can we just cut out the negativity and the tension among each other? It's the main thing that drives people off this forum from my humble knowledge. I hate seeing that. This place should feel safe for people to talk openly about their issues.

Thank you Lady and I am honestly sorry to have caused you stress because I know that's not what you need. Basically what happened is just like you read - I had a bad dream last morning. I guess I had been thinking about contacting her lately because I was thinking about some stuff and missing her, but when I saw that even thinking about it still dredged up powerful feelings of sadness, humiliation, and rage, I knew I was not ready and I did not go through with it. I have not been able to even bring myself to log into the email account I used for talking to her, for months now.

But I guess that was enough for her to manifest in my subconscious, which is too bad because I was doing so well (for me, at least) until I had that stupid dream. And that's what I thought too. That this forum and especially general threads like this were a safe place to vent about things. I thought it would be better to get this dream off my chest than to let it sit in my head.

And I make it a point to only ever be rude in self-defense. All my life I've never been one who starts fights. Though sometimes I am rude when I have just had enough and can't tolerate further barbs or indignity.

P.S. If you don't like someone on here or their posts, put them on ignore.. unless they are rude and offensive and are wrong about something in particular, then I'm all for standing up for what's right.

I tried that once before, for a while. But even seeing the list of names on the ignore list reminded me of why they were on it, and brought the anger back. I do best when my lists like that are empty and I have a kind of clean slate.

 

[TheRealCallie]

How about I start making snarky comments about YOUR life next time something bothers you? Would you like that? I can think of quite a few.

Please, by all means, knock yourself out. Lol

 

[Oldyoung]

Please, by all means, knock yourself out. Lol

You, should knock it off.

The sad thing is you seem to put some of your pride into this.

"I don't care if I'm a bitch" - TheRealCallie.

 

[user 115627]

Yeah, could we lay off the manic button pushing here? By now it's obvious this is only getting worse with each new reply. I don't recall it was International Triggerhappy Day.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Please, by all means, knock yourself out. Lol

You, should knock it off.

The sad thing is you seem to put some of your pride into this.

"I don't care if I'm a bitch" - TheRealCallie.

People online can't hurt me, he can say whatever the hell he wants to but he has NO power over me regardless of what he says. If he thinks he has any remote chance of putting me in my place, let him try, I don't give a ****.

As for if I'm a bitch, yes, I most certainly can be. But when you take things someone said and just assume you know exactly what they mean, sorry, but that's wrong, because NO ONE knows what another person actually means. Doesn't matter what they've said before, don't make assumptions and be "rude" just because you think you know what a person says better than that person does.

And you know what, if someone claims not to want to talk to me, here's a thought, that person shouldn't reply to me to begin with. Don't put me on ignore if you don't want to, but if you don't want to talk to me, DON'T. It's as simple as that.

Also, I'm sick to damn death of this "badboy" ****. It's an EXCUSE to make people think they are better than others. NO ONE is better than the next person.

 

[Oldyoung]

Yeah, could we lay off the manic button pushing here? By now it's obvious this is only getting worse with each new reply. I don't recall it was International Triggerhappy Day.

Agreed. Let's get this thread back on topic.

I'm pondering on why I'm sitting in an unlit room.

 

[ladyforsaken]

I am feeling awfully good for having the dosage increased. It did knock me out yesterday but today, my body seems to cope well. Maybe cos they're trying to stabilise everything else inside of me as much as possible. But things always have a way of being too good to be true.... so I'll wait.

 

[Nely Lo]

I like you (really a lot) but I hate me.
Now I'll stop about that because I annoy even myself.

 

[Rainbows]

My boyfriend is planning a surprise for our 6 month anniversary. I'm anxious to find out what it is! I still need to make a surprise too but I don't know what to do..

 

[zibafu]

Seems really hard to find trousers that fit me the way I like atm