Twin11 said:Here's a thought process to get the wheels turning...
What compelled you to add salt to that negativity? What will a legitimate open-minded person become if people are far too cynical of them? Closed-minded or join the "herd" just to be accepted. Another light extinguished because people refuse to think it exists out of their own experiences and feel self-righteous angry with it. Which then makes them another cynical, entitled/selfish person without explaining to someone as to why, won't add more to the cycle? *think out the box people*
It works both ways folks! Congratulations, the very thing that you deemed unrealistic is the very cause of why the cynicism of it it exists in the FIRST PLACE! Lead by EXAMPLE!
And if you take my words wrongly. Please. Breathe in, relax, and think it with an OPEN. MIND. <3
And if you want your heart to be seen, you have to show it all the same. Stay vigilant that someone will eventually love it the same. You get what you give, even if the feel the odds are against you. Stand up and remain yourself. Don't let the world and shitty people bring you down with a hypocritical view of 'REALISM'.
And for the tough love people out there ; Put a mirror infront of yourself and ask yourself if you are angry or wise with your advice. Are you saying it with calmness or your own anger of your PAST? More times than not, it is fueled by anger or hurt. Not wisdom. It's just tough words or a need to vent, NOT love, if fueled by that. You're just making YOURSELF feel better and MORE IMPORTANT.
Want to debate this REALISM and LOGIC? Please, PM me.
I don't want to debate. I agree with what you're saying. Just wanted to answer the the first question. What made me add salt to the negativity?... I think a lot of it is context of the discussion... When people start getting insulting (intentional or not) I lose interest in hearing their side, and if I believe I'm right in the moment I'll argue... And think about if I was really right or wrong later.
Not a great habit, admittedly, but I'm human... All I can do is try to do better.