What are you thinking right now?

[isthatso]

can manage on my own sure. Financially though it's precarious. Selling the house and splitting the balance after paying off the bank will leave me in an awful situation. I buy a lottery ticket on the off chance. You're lucky you have daily chats with people.

I think the dread of the future is exacerbating your depression. The worry about how you will cope, money wise.
Without going into further detail,vi think my need for sex is lower than yours. I certainly wouldn't dismiss a woman, if the sex was missing.. and it's not just my age. I was like that before. A good listener is the key to me. Feeling listened to . Empathy women I love.

 

[4No1]

Most people first check how many they should put stamps and only then send a card, not via versa.

 

[user 190873]

I love Spotify. Almost a perfect distraction

 

[okidoke]

ALL needs a new server? $5242? Most people aren’t even supporters of the site, so what’s the chances that amount will be raised and what happens if it doesn’t? And what happens if it does get replaced? What will be lost if anything?

 

[TheSkaFish]

ALL needs a new server? $5242? Most people aren’t even supporters of the site, so what’s the chances that amount will be raised and what happens if it doesn’t? And what happens if it does get replaced? What will be lost if anything?

That's what I was talking about earlier in this thread.
It would be nice to have a timetable for knowing how long we have, to back up our messages and other information, get the contact info of others we wish to get, and things like that, before this place goes under.

I don't see anyone coming up with $5K, any time soon.

The other thing that frustrates me about all this, is that ALL has been around since like 2007 or something - I myself have been here since 2014 - and this was never an issue before. So I'm wondering why it's suddenly become an issue now.

 

[okidoke]

That's what I was talking about earlier in this thread.
It would be nice to have a timetable for knowing how long we have, to back up our messages and other information, get the contact info of others we wish to get, and things like that, before this place goes under.

I don't see anyone coming up with $5K, any time soon.

The other thing that frustrates me about all this, is that ALL has been around since like 2007 or something - I myself have been here since 2014 - and this was never an issue before. So I'm wondering why it's suddenly become an issue now.

I only saw the donation thing come up today. How do you even backup your messages anyway? Not that I need to.

 

[Claudia1794]

Im going to just do it so I can’t get it out of my head out of my system.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

2468 777 909321

 

[okidoke]

…..trivial payment…….

Wow, I wish my bank account was so trivial Ceno.

 

[user 135671]

I'll be sad to see ALL go, if it comes to that. When I do log in I tend not to hang around, it's a dark and depressing place nowadays and I have enough of that in my life thanks. ALL's a dinosaur and much like T-Rex it's been dead for ages.

If you want to fly, let go of everything that weighs you down.

 

[isthatso]

These ads I have to negotiate while posting on here, are paying someone. Not the admin. Team?

 

[isthatso]

I'll be sad to see ALL go, if it comes to that. When I do log in I tend not to hang around, it's a dark and depressing place nowadays and I have enough of that in my life thanks. ALL's a dinosaur and much like T-Rex it's been dead for ages.

If you want to fly, let go of everything that weighs you down.

ALL = A Lonely Life...ok thanks..the forum then...the short time Ive been here, I see potential but it's only for the hardcore forum junkies. Like me for instance.
We need a rush of new members. But guess that's not going to happen. I prefer these forums to Facebook and other social media. Anonymous is better, even the behaviour gets out of hand at times.
Back to Facebook then.
By the way there is a UK mental health forum which is anonymous. They can be too strict sometimes, in my opinion. I can give you the link if you want. I outstayed my welcome there.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Wow, I wish my bank account was so trivial Ceno.

Start a OF account, you’ll make that in an afternoon

 

[ardour]

Donations to this recipient aren't supported in this country.

^Sorry, that's what happened when I tried to donate.

 

[Punisher]

fresia it

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Is it lying if I post videos on holiday from 2 years ago because people assume I took it today? Or is it people jumping to conclusions ?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Serious cowards, who like to try to gang up on me…
If you arent a coward say what you need to say with proof…
But you cant… totally cowardly

 

[TheSkaFish]

Serious cowards, who like to try to gang up on me…
If you arent a coward say what you need to say with proof…
But you cant… totally cowardly

Are you OK?

I just got back home, saw I missed a lot of stuff the last few days.

As someone who has definitely gotten heated up on here before...sometimes a breather can do you some good, to break the cycle of thoughts of whatever has got you in a bad mood. Like hitting the "reset" button.
Or sometimes, when I've been in a foul mood about things online or off, rather than blow up and say things that will make things worse / and or that I'll regret, I just go for walk, or go to bed and sleep it off. I'm usually fine after that.

Just a thought.

 

[TheSkaFish]

I only saw the donation thing come up today. How do you even backup your messages anyway? Not that I need to.

There's no real way to do it anymore using any features built into the site, as far as I know.

There was, with the old format. But I forgot to do it before the change, and a lot of messages between me and people with old accounts that were deactivated, were lost.

You'd have to just copy the messages and paste them into a notepad doc, or some word processor, manually.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Are you OK?

I just got back home, saw I missed a lot of stuff the last few days.

As someone who has definitely gotten heated up on here before...sometimes a breather can do you some good, to break the cycle of thoughts of whatever has got you in a bad mood. Like hitting the "reset" button.
Or sometimes, when I've been in a foul mood about things online or off, rather than blow up and say things that will make things worse / and or that I'll regret, I just go for walk, or go to bed and sleep it off. I'm usually fine after that.

Just a thought.

I’m tired of the constant lies about me, purposeful misinterpretations of everything I say andd always being the bad guy… from now on its quotes or it’s cowardly lies…