What are you thinking right now?

[TheRealCallie]

I'm not easily offended either. Yes, I do call people snowflakes, those who deserve the title. Your question is on something much more serious, and I'd need to know more about it to tell you how I feel.

Okay, I've seen you talking about how you respect everyone and I see you saying to Just Games that you need to know more about his situation to determine if he is a snowflake or not. Yet you have called people here snowflakes multiple times here and you know nothing about any of us. Snowflake is a derogatory term, so how exactly is that being respectful?
And that's not even including the other insults you've used here.
You are on a forum with people who are lonely and have low self esteem, among other issues. Don't you think that deserves a bit more investigation or actually getting to know some of these people before you go off half cocked and insult them?

 

[MrLonely86]

True.

 

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Okay, I've seen you talking about how you respect everyone and I see you saying to Just Games that you need to know more about his situation to determine if he is a snowflake or not. Yet you have called people here snowflakes multiple times here and you know nothing about any of us. Snowflake is a derogatory term, so how exactly is that being respectful?
And that's not even including the other insults you've used here.
You are on a forum with people who are lonely and have low self esteem, among other issues. Don't you think that deserves a bit more investigation or actually getting to know some of these people before you go off half cocked and insult them?

Yup, and I would add that it's not exclusive to a forum for lonely people.
It's just not classy, respectful or well-mannered behaviour in any circumstance, period.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Yup, and I would add that it's not exclusive to a forum for lonely people.
It's just not classy, respectful or well-mannered behaviour in any circumstance, period.

Of course. This place is just the people who have admitted it. The people not here still have issues, they may have just not admitted to the world yet.

I'm blunt and always give my honest opinion here (even if some would prefer I didn't. lol), but I never insult people because that is neither deserved nor respectful. I have my opinions about people, I just keep them to myself if they are offensive/insulting.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

But I don't know what a snowflake is if I'm not one. .Please define it.Why come onto a forum with a ton of vunerable people and start calling people snowflakes ,what value is there to it.

I never called you one. I said I call people snowflakes, meaning in life. I never called anyone a snowflake here as you and many other have already assumed, as usual with people here. You asked what I was thinking, I told you. Then, you asked me another more serious question, which I also answered. I wasn't disrespectful whatsoever. I answered your questions, regardless. You just don't like my answers.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

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True.

Exactly.

 

[reynard_muldrake]

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True.

False.

 

[TheRealCallie]

I never called anyone a snowflake here as you and many other have already assumed, as usual with people here.

There's way too many sensitive snowflakes on this forum.

I call BS...sorry.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

 

[TheRealCallie]

Don't care. Shouldn't ask a question if you can't handle my answers.

There is a big difference between can't and won't. To me it seems more like you can't handle people disagreeing with you because most of the people here can debate a difference of opinion without resorting to name calling.

 

[reynard_muldrake]

I remember when "snowflake" meant someone made a concentrated effort to "unique" or stand out.

How are we defining snowflakes? More often than not, I've seen it used to describe people who speak out against bigotry or just ask for more empathy. Either one is not bad...

 

[Just Games]

I never called you one. I said I call people snowflakes, meaning in life. I never called anyone a snowflake here as you and many other have already assumed, as usual with people here. You asked what I was thinking, I told you. Then, you asked me another more serious question, which I also answered. I wasn't disrespectful whatsoever. I answered your questions, regardless. You just don't like my answers.

See boring news , but how do you think people feel when they are called snowflakes?
Hey its ok I'll go with we're all beautiful and unique on the forum sounds good to me.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

There is a big difference between can't and won't. To me it seems more like you can't handle people disagreeing with you because most of the people here can debate a difference of opinion without resorting to name calling.

I'm a very honest person who doesn't sugarcoat anything. That's my opinion. You don't have to agree with me. If you don't like me, that's fine. Don't respond to me.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

See boring news , but how do you think people feel when they are called snowflakes?

Doesn't bother me. If someone is easily offended over ridiculous and factual things, then you deserve it.

See boring news , but how do you think people feel when they are called snowflakes?
Hey its ok I'll go with we're all beautiful and unique on the forum sounds good to me.

Doesn't bother me. I have my reasons why I do the things that I do in my life. I'm allowed to feel however I want, regardless if it makes someone else feel different. These are my feelings, not others.

 

[TheRealCallie]

I'm a very honest person who doesn't sugarcoat anything. That's my opinion. You don't have to agree with me. If you don't like me, that's fine. Don't respond to me.

I've been brutally honest here since my first account, which I was much like you insulting people that didn't agree with me. Since I returned with my current account, I have still been brutally honest, but I see no point in insulting people because it's just not classy and it's pointless and extremely hurtful. You say you are 90% healed from trauma, yet you have no regard for anyone else's trauma here. You don't know them, you don't know what they've been through, yet you seem to have all the answers of their lives. Sorry, but to me, that behavior is very far from 90%.

Just my opinion and this is a public forum, so I can give it whether you like it or not, as I am personally not breaking any rules....which can't exactly be said for you. So take your own advice and don't respond if you don't like it. I will continue to advocate for everyone here who who has low self esteem and feels like they can't say anything to someone who is being offensive.

 

[Lacrecia]

I'd be banned if I told you my thoughts because people will become very easily offended by them.

We all know what you think and not "saying it" does not mean we don't know what you are talking about. As someone who considers herself respectful and understanding, you're full of discrimination and convoluted self-agrandissement. Next time you truly want to be respectful, kindly shut the F up.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Nobody's opinions matter to me. This is my opinion. Again, people shouldn't ask something without expecting a brutally honest answer.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

We all know what you think and not "saying it" does not mean we don't know what you are talking about. As someone who considers herself respectful and understanding, you're full of discrimination and convoluted self-agrandissement. Next time you truly want to be respectful, kindly shut the F up.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Again, people shouldn't ask something without expecting a brutally honest answer.

Then be prepared to get a brutally honest answer back. Can YOU handle it?

 

[Lacrecia]

Then be prepared to get a brutally honest answer back. Can YOU handle it?

Does not seem so from the way she answers.