Evangeline000
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jjam said:^start bracing yourself
It is going to be difficult but when those feelings are not being reciprocated, take it as a warning. You need to reduce the intensity level of your feelings for this guy during this period. I'm far from an expert but I THINK that's when you make your schedule busier and especially start pursuing other people for companionship, including guys. This isn't to say cheat (goodness no) but give someone else a chance to show interest in spending time with you and having you on their mind as if it is something of importance. Through this series of actions, I believe you'll develop the strength to let this guy know that if he doesn't come around, someone else will. By that time, you'll have the strength to endure his failure to comply (if that's what he chooses).
Well, I have been keeping myself busy lately. However, I don't think it's enough to keep my mind off of him. He gets jealous pretty quickly I think. He's a really sweet guy. He takes care to try and keep me happy. I'm just a little awkward and he's been really patient with me. Thanks for your advice though. I think when I become busier, he'll come around.