What are you thinking right now?

[TheRealCallie]

There are approximately 73 million people in my country and I'm one of a couple of long time regulars from the UK on this forum.What the fcuck is wrong with me.

It's not about the nature of the forum, it's about whether or not this is somewhere you feel comfortable talking about yourself and your issues and somewhere you feel you belong. Who cares what the title of the forum is. It's much more important than you found somewhere you feel welcomed.
In the grand scheme of things that's pretty damn special, if you ask me.

 

[kaetic]

Thanks.I really just don't know how to reply but thanks.Depression is a bummer for me when I can't drink to get through it. The worthless numb feeling sucks.

It's okay. Depression has been hitting hard for me too lately. You're not alone. DM me if you wanna talk.

 

[TheSkaFish]

It's okay. Depression has been hitting hard for me too lately. You're not alone. DM me if you wanna talk.

Likewise @kaetic and @Just Games

Last week the depression was hitting me hard too, for several reasons.
I was just kind of spazzing out, engaging in unhealthy habits (doomscrolling).
Like a moth to a flame, the stuff just has a pull on me sometimes.
It was bad. The weekend going by my Mom's and snapping out of it, has definitely helped a little.

 

[ringwood]

I feel like I’m sitting under a troll bridge.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

Relaxing after working all weekend and cleaning my place.

 

[TheSkaFish]

I feel like I’m sitting under a troll bridge.

I see you trollin', you hatin'

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

I see you trollin', you hatin'

The original song was actually in my head earlier and then I see this.

 

[kaetic]

I think attendance would go up if they stop playing doctor Phil in the break room...

 

[TheSkaFish]

I got in another online fight this morning, that started off my day on the wrong foot and set the tone for the whole day. It's getting fewer and further apart that I get into those things, but when it happens it still gets me mad.

I knew how it was going to go too. These things are predictable now.

It was totally stupid, I knew what kind of person I was dealing with and I knew that I shouldn't be spending time on this because it's pointless, it always goes the same way.
I think their views are smug, sh*tty, and toxic, but it always brings me down to their level.
I call them out on their offensiveness.
Of course they always want to get the last word in.
And I want to tell them to f*ck off.
And around and around it goes.
An hour goes by.

I guess once I get the sense someone is like that, just avoid the topic, hit Block/Ignore/whatever it is, and be done with it.

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

I got in another online fight this morning, that started off my day on the wrong foot and set the tone for the whole day. It's getting fewer and further apart that I get into those things, but when it happens it still gets me mad.

I knew how it was going to go too. These things are predictable now.

It was totally stupid, I knew what kind of person I was dealing with and I knew that I shouldn't be spending time on this because it's pointless, it always goes the same way.
I think their views are smug, sh*tty, and toxic, but it always brings me down to their level.
I call them out on their offensiveness.
Of course they always want to get the last word in.
And I want to tell them to f*ck off.
And around and around it goes.
An hour goes by.

I guess once I get the sense someone is like that, just avoid the topic, hit Block/Ignore/whatever it is, and be done with it.

This is very similar to my response about how you handled that guy that come kept around. Don't engage in useless things that waste your time & energy. You may be doing it because you're bored, but it's a waste of time.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Have to run to one town to sign my kid up at a gym.
Have to run to another town to get the groceries my grandmother needs.
Have to look some stuff up for my uncle.
Have to work.

And hopefully I do NOT have to take my other kid to work tonight.

Of course they always want to get the last word in.

If it lasted an hour, one might say that you also wanted to get the last word in.......
Not everyone has to have the same views, Ska. You are entitled to yours, the same as they are entitled to theirs. Who cares if you don't agree. Does it really matter that much?

 

[reynard_muldrake]

I'm thinking I may start my own film discussion group. The ones I've tried this year did nothing for me.

 

[TheSkaFish]

This is very similar to my response about how you handled that guy that come kept around. Don't engage in useless things that waste your time & energy. You may be doing it because you're bored, but it's a waste of time.

If it lasted an hour, one might say that you also wanted to get the last word in.......
Not everyone has to have the same views, Ska. You are entitled to yours, the same as they are entitled to theirs. Who cares if you don't agree. Does it really matter that much?

It's a little bit boredom but also a little bit wanting to stand up to that kind of person and their attitudes/beliefs.
It's not like, I like pizza, you like cake. A harmless difference of opinion.
It's their attitude of superiority that ticks me off. "Know your place, loser". That.

I just start wanting to beat them, that kind of person.
Scratch back a win. Humiliate them right back and worse.
I hate their smug, gloating personality. I want to land some hits on them and take them down.
It's easy for me to get carried away.

But yeah. They don't give up, because it's part of the way they are in the first place that caused it.

Anyway, it's a "one-and-done". I blocked them, that's the end of it.
The whole process was faster, hopefully it will be a reminder not to bother to have a "next time".

 

[147]

Fun fact about me: I always have to sneeze a few minutes after handling black pepper.

 

[MrLonely86]

Love of your life is just one wrong lobby away. xD This makes me happy. <3

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

That I seriously need to walk up the street to refill my laundry card and really don't want to. It's too cold outside!

 

[Abstamyous]

What a stalker

 

[HellsLittleAngel]

What a stalker

Who?

 

[Lacrecia]

whoever is stalking

 

[wolfblood]

I don't have enough pages left to write all these...