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Lonely in BC
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O.K. then Irish-lady, maybe you'd be open to some ideas.
In your last response to me you indicated that you "have no agenda or criteria just random selection like lucky bag or dip"- when I read that it indicates to me that you really haven't thought about what you want in a potential boyfriend. Have you spent any serious time (beyond day-dreaming) of what you really want in a mate?
A friend of mine joined a dating service many years ago. Something he said about the process has always stuck in in my mind- as he was going through the questionnaire that was required to join the site he indicated to me that it truly made him think about what he really wanted in a relationship. He was in his late thirties at the time and he was completely shocked to discover that many of his previous relationships would have never met his hopes, dreams, and desires. Happily for him he found a wonderful girl, they have two adorable daughters, and he feels loved. I mention this because maybe you should consider something like this. I'm not saying you'll find the love of your life this way but it may help you to understand what you really want.
In your last response to me you indicated that you "have no agenda or criteria just random selection like lucky bag or dip"- when I read that it indicates to me that you really haven't thought about what you want in a potential boyfriend. Have you spent any serious time (beyond day-dreaming) of what you really want in a mate?
A friend of mine joined a dating service many years ago. Something he said about the process has always stuck in in my mind- as he was going through the questionnaire that was required to join the site he indicated to me that it truly made him think about what he really wanted in a relationship. He was in his late thirties at the time and he was completely shocked to discover that many of his previous relationships would have never met his hopes, dreams, and desires. Happily for him he found a wonderful girl, they have two adorable daughters, and he feels loved. I mention this because maybe you should consider something like this. I'm not saying you'll find the love of your life this way but it may help you to understand what you really want.