Batman55 said:
Triple Bogey said:
By the time I got to 29 I realized that it wasn't going to happen the normal way.
For whatever reason women didn't find me attractive.
And I wanted to experience it. Why should I miss out ?
^ More or less what I'm getting at.
Because you are taking a very real and very unnecessary risk at becoming fatally sick. You CAN get sex and love the regular way, you just might have to work harder for it than most.
Because you are giving money, ultimately, to pimps who more than likely have their hands in hard drug dealing, gunrunning, human trafficking, and all sorts of terrible crimes. They profit by hurting people. They are firmly on the side of what is wrong with the world.
Sorry but you have no idea what you are taking about. No pimps, no drugs, no human trafficking. Massage parlours, clean, tidy places run by decent people. For guys who don't get the chance.
Batman55 said:
SkaFish: Believe me, I do think self-improvement is ideal.
But.. so many things that give me second thoughts about that path. In my case it is the relentless shyness and social awkwardness......
Nonetheless if you do have some suggestion for "fixing" or "disguising" a bad posture/facial expression, I'd be open to hearing it.
Yeah, but at least trying is a hell of a lot better than getting a terminal illness, especially one that was entirely in your power to avoid. Someone on this thread earlier said, "you only live once". But see, I don't think that's a justification for reckless behavior. I think that says, play it smart and make the life you want because you only get one shot at life and if you screw up big time, there are no do-overs.
Again - if you, or the OP, or whoever is already willing to spend money, then why not hire a dating expert or a men's coach? I'm sure they even do 1 on 1 sessions, so you don't have to worry about being shy in front of other clients. These people are experts in fixing shyness and social awkwardness. It's their job. That is my suggestion.
I don't mean to condescend to you guys. I am in the same boat as you. The difference is I am not willing to go to this extreme because I know there must be another way out, and I know it because people have been where we've been and got better.
I don't mean to be rude, but I must leave it at this. I have battles of my own to fight. All I can say is, before you do anything you might come to regret, please consider the consequences and the alternatives. There IS another way, but you must be willing to work for it.