Questions for the Men

[ardour]

Ah... I will walk around with my tooth extractor! I expect better results with my handy tool.
Okay interesting, he feels more of a man intimidating women and running away from other men...? I just wanna understand. Is it more like a quick win, quickly won back some masculinity, by scaring or harming someone if the situation allows?

...yes. Men assert themselves in stupid or ridiculous ways all the time. Physical bullying in school for example, picking on the easy targets, often in groups. That said I've noticed women close to my age do not take rejection well either, probably because they've only been recently acquainted with it.

I can't stand Jordan Peterson but he has a point on what rejection can feel like for guys.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

...yes. Men assert themselves in stupid or ridiculous ways all the time. Physical bullying in school for example, picking on easy targets. That said I've noticed women close to my age do not take rejection well either, probably because they've only been recently acquainted with it.

I can't stand Jordan Peterson but has he has a point on what rejection can feel like for guys.

You know... you're right, people pick strange ways to assert themselves... slightly off topic, but my teachers used to do this, if the whole class was being disruptive they used to pick on the weakest student to leave the room to kinda make an example, you know?

Oooh I actually like him, he explains things well. I enjoyed his take, and I feel like honestly, I cant sit here and say oh yeah I love being rejected by a man lool it's simply not true, im just saying I wouldn't bloody attack him over it, or even get my brother to beat him up over it lol... Thats my only point. I'd think he's obviously blind... nothing more nothing less, and probably marry his dad... okay no but might imagine doing it anyway lol.

 

[Finished]

Hmm..seems like people think they're deeper than they are. Lots of that whole hot or not thing people do. I mean, if you feel a need to fish for praise, then keep at it, I guess. Not sure how that cements any real constructive growth, but, I may be missing the mark.

Hmmm. Interesting. I need to contemplate about that for a while. Ha! Ha!

 

[CenotaphGirl]

My next question for men is...

Fess up! You love "fake" make up drenched walking barbies... dont ya!?!

I mean seriously, if I hear another man complain about make up, but thinks a woman looks hot in it...I'll just... get my tooth extractor out.

Why do men pretend they hate makeup when they love it? Is it because they wished they didn't like it? They say they dont like it in one breath and then the next when I say rate her out of 10, they say well.. I gotta see her without make up... it's like huh? if you hate make up so much, shouldn't her make up take her down a notch or 2? Also... they say things like she looked so hot with make up then she took it off... so is the argument that make up is sexy but they dont want you to wear it because it has to come off? Men... are the most confusing species to walk the earth, I promise.

 

[Finished]

I like this, sad though, that one mistake could be like... what cuts the cord and there just seems to be no way back. Romance... love... the heart... is so fragile

Trust is everything to me. One girlfriend didn't cheat on me. But, she lied big time. I caught her in the lie. But, she said there was something wrong with my head because she wasn't lying. So, I showed her the proof. Then I told her we were done. If I couldn't turst her then I couldn't trust her. It's that simple.

 

[Finished]

But all that testosterone just... disappears around other men? I promise I dont think you men have weekly meetings on zoom or some weird group think lol I just want a mans (your) opinion, not for you to know what every other mans thinking darling

They know being a jack off is wrong. So, they won't do it in front of someone else.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Trust is everything to me. One girlfriend didn't cheat on me. But, she lied big time. I caught her in the lie. But, she said there was something wrong with my head because she wasn't lying. So, I showed her the proof. Then I told her we were done. If I couldn't turst her then I couldn't trust her. It's that simple.

I lied to my fella about my age... it's like he'll never get over it, drives me up the wall. I said sorry Every birthday he says... and you're still not 23... he's been saying that since I was 17 Makes me feel evil, you know?

 

[Finished]

My next question for men is...

Fess up! You love "fake" make up drenched walking barbies... dont ya!?!

I mean seriously, if I hear another man complain about make up, but thinks a woman looks hot in it...I'll just... get my tooth extractor out.

Why do men pretend they hate makeup when they love it? Is it because they wished they didn't like it? They say they dont like it in one breath and then the next when I say rate her out of 10, they say well.. I gotta see her without make up... it's like huh? if you hate make up so much, shouldn't her make up take her down a notch or 2? Also... they say things like she looked so hot with make up then she took it off... so is the argument that make up is sexy but they dont want you to wear it because it has to come off? Men... are the most confusing species to walk the earth, I promise.

I don't hate makeup at all. I love it. But, I don't use any myself. I've told many women that their makeup looks GREAT! I even had a conversation with a young woman cashier. Her makeup was very exacting. She used a very small brush and tiny brush strokes. It was like an art piece. I really apprecaited that she put that much effort into it. Then I asked if she sprayed the base on because it was so uniform. I'm not sure what she thought of me. I didn't really care. I truely appreciated the effort she made and it looked great.

Well, most women get all made up for work. Then they come home and want to relax, understandably. Part of that is removing most of their makeup. So, it's kind of like they look great for everybody else. But, they are at their worst at home.

 

[Finished]

I lied to my fella about my age... it's like he'll never get over it, drives me up the wall. I said sorry Every birthday he says... and you're still not 23... he's been saying that since I was 17 Makes me feel evil, you know?

You can tell me that you're 13 any time! Ha! ha! JUST KIDDING! Ooops! I'm mean just joking!

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

My next question for men is...

Fess up! You love "fake" make up drenched walking barbies... dont ya!?!

I mean seriously, if I hear another man complain about make up, but thinks a woman looks hot in it...I'll just... get my tooth extractor out.

Why do men pretend they hate makeup when they love it? Is it because they wished they didn't like it? They say they dont like it in one breath and then the next when I say rate her out of 10, they say well.. I gotta see her without make up... it's like huh? if you hate make up so much, shouldn't her make up take her down a notch or 2? Also... they say things like she looked so hot with make up then she took it off... so is the argument that make up is sexy but they dont want you to wear it because it has to come off? Men... are the most confusing species to walk the earth, I promise.

It's a sexual fantasy, I think. They just don't have the confidence or correlation of their mental faculties to say so.
I think it differs from man to man. Personally, it's a fantasy that I mostly prefer to keep as a fantasy.
Unless I'm actually with someone, like in a proper relationship, then yeah, might have her doll herself up for a night if she's up to it.
I think a lot of guys are just intimidated by it for some reason that I can't understand.

Makeup is not strictly sexualized, it's our instincts that sexualize it.
Actually it has tribal history in both war and spiritualism, same with tattoos.
I'm weird in that I do sexualize these things and find them attractive, but also they're pretty normal to me as well and not really taboo, probably just because that's normal in the alternative subculture though.

Makeup and tattoos in the goth/alt subculture being attractive is as normal as the grass being green and the sky being blue.
I very often forget that my subculture is even a subculture until it's either pointed out to me that I'm "dressed differently" or something about makeup, tattoos and piercings or metal and industrial music comes up.

I guess by nature of my own volition that it's just normal to me?

 

[Adamridge79]

When women have so much foundation I can hear their acne screaming for help...no. I'm a plump male, no one's prize. But if I can't look at you and converse, Why play that game?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I think a lot of guys are just intimidated by it for some reason that I can't understand.

This... has me thinking... you know I think you're on to something here, the most creepy guy asked me a zillion questions about my teeth, if I bleached them, if I wore braces, if they are real.. lol

I was like to my brother... what was that about, and my brother was like he just wanted you to say something was fake, or artificially improved so you didn't intimidate him... such a weird concept.

 

[Adamridge79]

Hmm...you could have found a platonic male

 

[CenotaphGirl]

When women have so much foundation I can hear their acne screaming for help...no. I'm a plump male, no one's prize. But if I can't look at you and converse, Why play that game?

I wish I could react with a gross emoji lol makes me shudder, however, I mean okay im with men on poorly applied or excessive make up, but when its done nice.. where's the issue?

 

[Adamridge79]

Well. It's a lie you broadcast to the world. Be you.

 

[Adamridge79]

Why would I not want that on my arm?

 

[Adamridge79]

I wouldn't care about others...I can appreciate you as is...that should win...

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Well. It's a lie you broadcast to the world. Be you.

But what if being in makeup is how she looks the majority of the time or if it's how she expresses herself? I think we've entered a new wave that some people can be their real selves in make up. Having acne must be awful for self-esteem, someone putting on makeup for that or to cover a scar should be more understandable in my opinion.

 

[Adamridge79]

I get the need for makeup..but it's not a thing I want to entice me

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I get the need for makeup..but it's not a thing I want to entice me

so it entices you, but you dont want it to?