Questions for the Men

[NoxApex(N/A)]

This... has me thinking... you know I think you're on to something here, the most creepy guy asked me a zillion questions about my teeth, if I bleached them, if I wore braces, if they are real.. lol

I was like to my brother... what was that about, and my brother was like he just wanted you to say something was fake, or artificially improved so you didn't intimidate him... such a weird concept.

A lot of dudes just don't know how to talk to a woman they're attracted to, and if she's confident in demeanor it can be intimidating to them.
I know, because I used to be like that. Now, it doesn't really phase me. I do this weird thing where I'm kind of like:
"Okay, you're beautiful, so that's a plus. But are you a ****** person or not? Or are we compatible or not?"
I actually think things through. Some women love that about me, some hate it because it makes them nervous.

 

[Adamridge79]

No...I hate I'm distracted by it..

 

[Adamridge79]

And let's be clear ..no panties are wet seeing me

 

[CenotaphGirl]

A lot of dudes just don't know how to talk to a woman they're attracted to, and if she's confident in demeanor it can be intimidating to them.
I know, because I used to be like that. Now, it doesn't really phase me. I do this weird thing where I'm kind of like:
"Okay, you're beautiful, so that's a plus. But are you a ****** person or not? Or are we compatible or not?"
I actually think things through. Some women love that about me, some hate it because it makes them nervous.

Well the guy did say he was crap at talking to girls, like maybe dont ask them if they wear fake teeth lol

Its like why would he dooo that its so creepy lol I just kept smiling which was more awkward because the convo is about my bloody teeth lmaoo

I think thats the part they dont do, to be honest, maybe it's less intimidating if they see you as a girl thats hot, than.. the hot girl that is in the league of all the girls that never gave them the time of day lol.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

No...I hate I'm distracted by it..

I like the honesty, its not that the make up is unattractive its that its distracting because its too sizzling lolz

 

[ardour]

I don't like it. It's like an unconvincing painted on mask. There's nothing wrong with a few "flaws". Society overstates the impact that has on attractiveness, largely to make women neurotic and sell cosmetics. But it really doesn't affect attractiveness all that much.

The hawtest women are those exercising or running IMO. Sweaty girls who can squat 100+ kg. Yea, I'm a pervert.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I don't like it. It's like an unconvincing painted on mask. There's nothing wrong with a few "flaws". Society overstates the impact that has on attractiveness, largely to make women neurotic and sell cosmetics. But it really doesn't affect attractiveness all that much.

The hawtest women are those exercising or running IMO. Sweaty girls who can squat 100+ kg. Yea, I'm a pervert.

I wish you'd stop calling yourself names, its not good, you are allowed to be attracted to women in unconvincing masks or women who work out or bloody both you greedy so and so lol im sure no ones judging you for that... nothing hotter than a strong man at the gym in my opinion lol

 

[MrLonely86]

Okay the girl with the questions is back!

My next question is not for the faint of heart... you have been warned.

From the perspective of a man, can you forgive your partner for cheating on you?

This question makes me think of so many mini questions...

Would you have more chance of forgiving if she confessed?
What if it was with your brother, and he made countless advances? (this one is personal to me lol)
Would you deep down wish she didn't confess?
People say to be honest about it, but is there any incentive when the outcomes the same?

I was cheated on, twice, once by each GF. -.-"

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I was cheated on, twice, once by each GF. -.-"

Sometimes it's tempting.. but no one should do it

 

[Colster]

Make up, nah, never!

 

[Colster]

It's a personal thing. But who hasn't seem someone with an orange face, and white neck and legs. Likewise, the while facial sculpting, with so many layers plastered on, that it's impossible to see the real person beneath.

I can appreciate defined features, flashes of colour. If it works well with the outfit, even better. But where it appears on my list of priorities when admiring a woman, I couldn't say.

However, lashes, huge great fake things that could host a helicopter landing, no frigging thanks!

 

[CenotaphGirl]

It's a personal thing. But who hasn't seem someone with an orange face, and white neck and legs. Likewise, the while facial sculpting, with so many layers plastered on, that it's impossible to see the real person beneath.

I can appreciate defined features, flashes of colour. If it works well with the outfit, even better. But where it appears on my list of priorities when admiring a woman, I couldn't say.

However, lashes, huge great game things that could host a helicopter landing, no frigging thanks!

To be fair lol im with men on poorly applied make up that can do more damage than good thats for sure, but really... the truth is they love make up, the majority anyway, I cant understand men that go on about hating it but they are attracted to it. Thats what makes me scratch my hair extensions and dont get me started on how many men say they hate hair extensions lol

 

[Colster]

To be fair lol im with men on poorly applied make up that can do more damage than good thats for sure, but really... the truth is they love make up, the majority anyway, I cant understand men that go on about hating it but they are attracted to it. Thats what makes me scratch my hair extensions and dont get me started on how many men say they hate hair extensions lol

truth is, many women do it so well, guys are oblivious to it. And, if it makes a woman feel more confident, then why not. You don't live life to please others. Although, I do know what I personally dislike. But yeah, I appreciate effort, and I do like little touches.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

truth is, many women do it so well, guys are oblivious to it. And, if it makes a woman feel more confident, then why not. You don't live life to please others. Although, I do know what I personally dislike. But yeah, I appreciate effort, and I do like little touches.

Once I took all my extensions out and threw them on a guys dash in his car while he was driving, I was just hoping for a reaction of some sort god knows what, and he was like... "I like that, I like... that you're bold enough to do that" Not.... what I was hoping for lol but eh that will do

 

[sparkyn98]

Trust is everything to me. One girlfriend didn't cheat on me. But, she lied big time. I caught her in the lie. But, she said there was something wrong with my head because she wasn't lying. So, I showed her the proof. Then I told her we were done. If I couldn't turst her then I couldn't trust her. It's that simple.

Dang... that's borderline gaslighting right there. Sounds like you dodged a bullet...


I can't speak to the whole make-up convo. It truly is an art form. But, I've never worn much at all. I still walk out of the house most days forgetting that I haven't applied eyeliner to look more awake. Lolol

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Dang... that's borderline gaslighting right there. Sounds like you dodged a bullet...


I can't speak to the whole make-up convo. It truly is an art form. But, I've never worn much at all. I still walk out of the house most days forgetting that I haven't applied eyeliner to look more awake. LololView attachment 4277

I look like **** when my fella is on punishment, I really embrace the break... I even wear face masks to bed

 

[sparkyn98]

I look like **** when my fella is on punishment, I really embrace the break... I even wear face masks to bed

I did the whole Harley-Quinn thing for Halloween and had to have my oldest son's chicka help me with buying the makeup. LOLOL

 

[sparkyn98]

Okay, I'll throw down a question. I've been in and out of the dating pool since losing my husband in '07. Seems that I've always found guys that enjoy going to the gym or working out with me.
Question is: Is this because I enjoy working out and I seek like minded or do men genuinely enjoy having a female workout partner?
Disclaimer: my ex thought it was "weird" to go to the gym together. Turned out we didn't have a whole lot in common... LOLOL

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I did the whole Harley-Quinn thing for Halloween and had to have my oldest son's chicka help me with buying the makeup. LOLOL

I was a school girl by day... police officer by night... and somehow that concept made perfect sense in my head

 

[Finished]

Okay, I'll throw down a question. I've been in and out of the dating pool since losing my husband in '07. Seems that I've always found guys that enjoy going to the gym or working out with me.
Question is: Is this because I enjoy working out and I seek like minded or do men genuinely enjoy having a female workout partner?
Disclaimer: my ex thought it was "weird" to go to the gym together. Turned out we didn't have a whole lot in common... LOLOL

Well, for me, if I'm REALLY working out hard with free weights I do not want women around. But, it's been a while since I did hard lifting. My joints and prior injuries do not like that any more.

If I'm mostly just exercising then sure. It's a good way to make sure that both people are really exercising. I mostly exercised and did things on my own because I'm on the extreme side and nobody else wants to hang. Usually when I go for a bicycle ride it's for atleast three hours of pushing myself hard without stopping. A couple weeks ago I rode about 30 miles.

I kind of would like to get into aerobics to keep all my different muscles and joints moving. But, it's not something I would do on my own. If I had a lady free that did that then I would join her if I could.