I would be interested in a females perspective on this.
My relationship ended 22 months ago and it was ended by my girlfriend. About 4 months ago she contacted me, which surprised me as we hadn’t been in contact at all until then, and I was surprised she had kept my number, and that she had now given me her new number. We have been in contact 4 times over the 4 months, but apart from the first time, it’s me who initiates. Our messages are friendly and open and go on for a couple of days.
This woman is the love of my life, and I still love her, so I told her so. She said she knows she will always love me, that she misses what we had and could of had, and that when you love someone properly it never goes away. She then also said she needs to move forward with her life. I then went a bit deeper into my feelings for her, and she didn’t reply, so I haven’t contacted her since.
My question is, why did she reach out in the first place? And having said the things she has, does it mean she still has some feelings for me? I realise it doesn’t look like she wants to get back together, I just wonder what her motivation was, and why she seems happy to text, but doesn’t initiate?