ardour
Well known loser
.DarkSelene said:I guess... still don't think it's nice to leave someone wondering when you know their feelings for you.
Yeah, especially as he was probably just starting to get over it.
.DarkSelene said:I guess... still don't think it's nice to leave someone wondering when you know their feelings for you.
DarkSelene said:I think you do need that sort of connection just to make sure that you can raise your kids in a good environment, where there's no crazy hate going around. I'm not saying that the kids have anything to do with it, just think it's better to have a good relationship once you're separated and have to stay in contact -- if you still appreciate and love that person, that's good, I know love is not enough to keep a relationship going.
When there's no need to be close or no intention on being friends afterwards (seems like wuku's situation) it is very weird for someone to show up trying to just catch up and be all "I love you". Maybe I'm just cynical, but I'd think they want something from me. Could be just having a good relationship and trying to be friendly, I guess... still don't think it's nice to leave someone wondering when you know their feelings for you.
ardour said:I didn't say all women, but for those who do this, it's the likely explanation. It's a fairly common experience: guy gets dumped without an explanation given (crushing him), then a few months later his exe hits him up claiming to want to be friends and making those "I still care about you" noises.
If she really cared it would have been better not to do that and let him move on.
TheRealCallie said:You can't know why others do what they do and it's pointless to wonder why. Take the good from it and just move on. Sometimes people just want to check on you and make sure you are well.
DarkSelene said:Sorry about that, Wuku. 49 is still very young, don't give up on your own happiness just yet.
DanMann said:Why you dont pick up guys?
And develop seduction skills like guys do?
Given that Wuku is a male I think that's unlikely.Xpendable said:I think the message was for wuku only, but somehow it translated to "women never pick up guys". Weird.
Xpendable said:I think the message was for wuku only, but somehow it translated to "women never pick up guys". Weird.
DanMann said:Why you dont pick up guys?
And develop seduction skills like guys do?
DarkSelene said:To be fair, it's common practice all over for males to be the ones who'll approach. Women show interest in a more subtle way, most of the time.
I'm pretty sure that it boils down to the biology of it, females choose the best male and they're the ones who have to peacock their way into bed, etc.
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