Questions for the Women

[DarkSelene]

Kamya, you have the awesome beard too.

 

[kamya]

Kamya, you have the awesome beard too.

Do beards count as hair? =p

 

[Volt]

Kamya, you have the awesome beard too.

Do beards count as hair? =p

You win here.

 

[kamya]

Wimminz

When you are on a dating site and you decide to actually message a guy first why do you always just say "Hey!" or "Hey there!" and nothing else?

I know a percentage that do this are bots but I've had a fair amount of actual women take this approach on dating sites/apps.

 

[DarkSelene]

we got no game (?)

 

[ShyNLonely]

Just short question: do women like guys like Jules Bianchi? Shy, quiet, talented, cute, not very talkative?

 

[Aisha]

Just short question: do women like guys like Jules Bianchi? Shy, quiet, talented, cute, not very talkative?

Not familiar with him except through what google has just told me. The short answer to the rest of your question would be yes, except the maybe the not talkative bit? It would be nice to not have awkward silences at any rate.

Also, Kamya, I've never messaged anyone on a dating site so I'm curious too. Maybe they're just lazy?

 

[DarkSelene]

The short answer to the rest of your question would be yes, except the maybe the not talkative bit? It would be nice to not have awkward silences at any rate.

Awn, silence is a nice way of showing you can be comfortable with each other without having to speak.

Just short question: do women like guys like Jules Bianchi? Shy, quiet, talented, cute, not very talkative?

I'm curious, why Jules Bianchi? Why did you come up with that example in particular?

 

[ShyNLonely]

Well, I can talk when I'm feeling comfortable around person - which takes some time, but I don't like to be very loud and funny guy, who needs to be liked by everyone.

@ DS:

One of my familly member is fan od Ferrari in Formula 1, and JB is part of Ferrari academy. And we have some simular lines. I knew to drive carting before I learned to tie a shoe. He also did. I'm very talented in my hobbies. He is talented in driving. He doesn't make a noise, and let's the drive/talent talk, so do I. He has amazing smile, and so do I. xD He is really fun person to hang out with, but not in let-s-party-all-night-way. We have some simular lines. I'm also liked by a lot of people around me. They all think that I'm amazing.

 

[DarkSelene]

^ that sounds very good, actually. It's not fun to be with the person who's trying to outshine everyone else.

 

[ShyNLonely]

I edited last post, in case you missed my edit.

Sry for that.

 

[Aisha]

The short answer to the rest of your question would be yes, except the maybe the not talkative bit? It would be nice to not have awkward silences at any rate.

Awn, silence is a nice way of showing you can be comfortable with each other without having to speak.

Yup, silence is great when it's comfortable. But awkward silences are not.

 

[zibafu]

Keep getting told a girl at work likes me, shes a christmas temp, and I seem to be the only person shes gravitated towards, so we've been quite friendly with eachother, been a small amount of flirting.
Added her on facebook and been chatting with her since like wednesday, mostly about our mutual hatred of work, but then its gotten into personal stuff, she left her boyfriend a couple of days, told me she likes someone else, so I asked who and she wouldnt say, I then jokingly asked if it was me, cause everyone at work thinks so, so she started laughing in messenger asking who said it, so I told her etc. Told her that I do like her. Also told her that hypothetically if it were me she was into , I'd definitely ask her out. Her response to that was "well that escalated quickly (two laughing emojis)

Since then shes been chatting to me on messenger still, got a birthday message this morning from her, but I dont see her again until friday at work.

I kinda think that shes interested because, well if someone tells you theyre attracted to you and you're not keen, do you carry on being talkative and joking with them afterwards.

However I am not really very experienced in this stuff.

So ladies, my question is, what do you think?

 

[Aisha]

Happy Birthday Zib!

Also, definitely sounds like she's interested. Try asking her out.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Did she tell you it wasn't you or did she just kind of side step?
I would say it likely could be you, if she didn't say it wasn't. As for the continued chatting, it is possible, but I would think she would tell you if it wasn't. Ask her out. The worst she can do is say no.

 

[ShyNLonely]

Anyway, since we are talkin' and I have zero feedback on my topic. I will ask here. XD Should I message girl who likes my post on spotted facebook page? I actually asked someone out like 4 years ago, and I haven't done that too much in my life so ... if we also take in consideration stuff like high risk of cancer, personality bla bla ... is it worth try?

 

[zibafu]

Happy Birthday Zib!

Also, definitely sounds like she's interested. Try asking her out.

I is scared haha :club:

Did she tell you it wasn't you or did she just kind of side step?
I would say it likely could be you, if she didn't say it wasn't.  As for the continued chatting, it is possible, but I would think she would tell you if it wasn't.  Ask her out.  The worst she can do is say no.

She asked me who had been saying stuff

Yeah,  I think I will, dont really wanna do it over messenger though, but I dont see her until friday or saturday

Cheers.

 

[wallflower79]

Anyway, since we are talkin' and I have zero feedback on my topic. I will ask here. XD Should I message girl who likes my post on spotted facebook page? I actually asked someone out like 4 years ago, and I haven't done that too much in my life so ... if we also take in consideration stuff like high risk of cancer, personality bla bla ... is it worth try?

You can if you want to, but the likelihood of getting a good response is slim.

 

[ShyNLonely]

I wanted to know that, tnx.

 

[zibafu]

Well, I asked her out to coffee, she said not yet. She just split with her boyfriend, and it never occured to me to wait, since she already knew I liked her anyhow. Apparently the exs mother came into work today demanding to know why she dumped him, started being kinda horrible to her, so she wasnt feeling fantastic anyhow.
I helped her out for 10 minutes or so, and she was still all friendly, chatty, laughing about stuff, which is a good sign I think - I was actually in to shop but there was a massive queue so was waiting for that to disappear.
Couple of the lads were giving me smirky glances friggin tossers.

So hopefully soon something awesome will come about for me