ShyNLonely
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Just to give update. I send message 3 days ago, still no answer. Fine with me. XD I really suck at dating, so I'm glad I didn't get reply.
M_also_lonely said:Is believing that women are capable of doing their stuff on their own, inhumane?
Naleena said:Naleena said:I think it might be cool to have a thread where you can ask women thier opinions on dating or relationship issues Soooo...ask away!
Girls, I'll start this.
1.What are some of the behaviors that you find attractive in a man on a date?
2. What are some behaviors you don't like on a date?
1. For me, I like it when they rush to hold the door open and when they offer thier jacket to you when it's cold. You know they are cold but, would rather see you warm : ) I guess, I like the feeling of being cared for.
2. NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING turns me off anymore than going on a date and seeing a man be rude to a waitress or someone helping us. There was one man I went out on a date with who was a very intelligent and sucessful man. We double dated with a friend of mine and he was angry that the waiter hadn't made it round. He ordered drinks and then said, "Hurry it up" to the waiter. His tone was rude and my friend and I looked at each other. He didn't get another date. Nothing he could have said or done that evening would have made up for what he did. You can tell a lot by a person by looking at how they treat others-especially others that that person can't gain anything from. I don't care how much money a man has, or how good he looks or how sucessful he is; if he treats someone badly, especially someone in a service field, I wouldn't give him the time of day. It's not what a man has, it's how he acts that impresses me.
Brennabean said:Kindness to waiting staff and pretty much everyone who isn't a ****.
MisterLonely said:What's your take/thoughts on men's rights advocacy ?
MisterLonely said:What's your take/thoughts on men's rights advocacy ?
If the man is not allowed to live with his child, why should he pay for it?Brennabean said:The right to leave his wife without having to lose half of his salary. I dig it, but child support should definitely stay mandatory.
M_also_lonely said:If the man is not allowed to live with his child, why should he pay for it?Brennabean said:The right to leave his wife without having to lose half of his salary. I dig it, but child support should definitely stay mandatory.
VanillaCreme said:Because it's his child. Parents are supposed to pay for their children. If they don't want to, they usually sign away their rights.
M_also_lonely said:VanillaCreme said:Because it's his child. Parents are supposed to pay for their children. If they don't want to, they usually sign away their rights.
If its his child, why doesn't he almost never gets custody? Hmm interesting. How it becomes "parents" tag is only named mostly on father when its about responsibility, and named mostly mother when getting the custody of child.
Like who is more capable to fulfill the resources needed to raise the child? Doesn't seem to be the case, otherwise there would be no child support, or only in rare/special cases. But contrary to this, it is mandatory. So yeah, it doesn't seem to depend on what is best for the situation.VanillaCreme said:Custody usually depends on what is best for the situation.
DarkSelene said:Mother who files for full custody, should get full responsibility.
Richard_39 said:If the burden is systematically placed on men, because they are men, it's not better than what the human race has done to women for the last 2000+ years.
DarkSelene said:Richard_39 said:If the burden is systematically placed on men, because they are men, it's not better than what the human race has done to women for the last 2000+ years.
What has the human race done to women for the last 2000+ years? Were those things specifically targeting females or did they affect the population as a whole?
Richard_39 said:Come on. Women only had the right to work starting in the 40's. Beating your wife senseless wasn't exactly a big thing in the 20's. Women used to be treated like second class citizens. That's not the case anymore. But slowly inversing evrything isn't going to fix anything, is what I mean. We're gunning for equal rights, but in certain cases, such as MANY child seperation cases, father's rights are less important than mothers rights. That's not better either.
I'm part of a fathers group for the last month and I can't begin to tell you the amount of sad stories where fathers tried to implicate themselves in their children lives but lost and ultimately quit because the courts and the systems automatically favored the mother. It's not right.
I don't mean this as a debate on feminism, I think it has it's place, I believe a middle line in all things is always better. IN seperation cases, that's often not the case.
The system needs to be changed and re-thought by people more intelligent than I am.
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