Questions for the Women

[J360]

Wow, I didn’t know that’s how it is here thanks for the advice. I didn’t know it was a girl club that excluded men.

 

[J360]

Seems like another place for hostels women. How disappointing I thought it would be nice to be able to interact with women that didn’t have a problem with men I don’t get what happened to women. Men aren’t your enemy, if you have issues with men maybe it’s because of attitudes like this. Remember ladies attitudes are contagious is your worth catching. GTFO really and to those of you that don’t have this attitude I very much enjoyed the interaction I had with you.

 

[kaetic]

Seems like another place for hostels women. How disappointing I thought it would be nice to be able to interact with women that didn’t have a problem with men I don’t get what happened to women. Men aren’t your enemy, if you have issues with men maybe it’s because of attitudes like this. Remember ladies attitudes are contagious is your worth catching. GTFO really and to those of you that don’t have this attitude I very much enjoyed the interaction I had with you.

Pretty sure she was joking. They tease each other often on here.

Plus it's just a forum, post on whatever you want.

 

[J360]

Thank goodness I’ve seen to much of the other behavior and I’ve missed normal women. Sorry if I didn’t get it

 

[J360]

I do want to say I really like to hear the female perspective on things. I guess I have twitter shock from all the hostility there so again sorry ladies.

 

[user 139760]

Seems like another place for hostels women. How disappointing I thought it would be nice to be able to interact with women that didn’t have a problem with men I don’t get what happened to women. Men aren’t your enemy, if you have issues with men maybe it’s because of attitudes like this. Remember ladies attitudes are contagious is your worth catching. GTFO really and to those of you that don’t have this attitude I very much enjoyed the interaction I had with you.

Get off your high horse. She's a friend. You don't need to get offended by everything on the interweb.

 

[kaetic]

I do want to say I really like to hear the female perspective on things. I guess I have twitter shock from all the hostility there so again sorry ladies.

Twitter is toxic AF. I was on it for about a week to get something for free, but that was about all I could stand.

 

[kaetic]

Get off your high horse. She's a friend. You don't need to get offended by everything on the interweb.

Hush Canadian, I thought you people were supposed to be polite. Eh?

 

[user 139760]

Hush Canadian, I thought you people were supposed to be polite. Eh?

I'm the exception that confirms the rule
It's your fault. You're a bad influence on me

 

[TheRealCallie]

Seems like another place for hostels women. How disappointing I thought it would be nice to be able to interact with women that didn’t have a problem with men I don’t get what happened to women. Men aren’t your enemy, if you have issues with men maybe it’s because of attitudes like this. Remember ladies attitudes are contagious is your worth catching. GTFO really and to those of you that don’t have this attitude I very much enjoyed the interaction I had with you.

Actually, it's often been the opposite here. It's typically the MEN who think women are evil, souiless creatures who only lie. Didn't really take much for you to jump to that conclusion.
First, yes, I'm friends with him.
Second, there's an emoji....if I was serious, I wouldn't put emojis after.
And third, I'm my own person so I don't care if my attitude is worth catching and judging from what some of the people on this forum think of me and spread about me, I very much doubt anyone wants to be like me.

 

[charlotte craig]

Girls, I'll start

Interesting thread and thank you for adding it. I am happily married now but when I dated I would hate it when a man wanted to update, or thought that you having nothing much in common did not matter because any young woman with big breasts would do. Then you have the very childish ones who think that you only need to like the same favourite colour or music and all the important things get forgotten. Or the guys who are useless at chat and just say watcha, yeah, hows's you today and such ape like chat. As for guys who are successful, many of them lie about that and claim to be when they are not. Their idea of successful is living with their parents and being able to buy a bag of chips or crisps if they go out, they cannot even afford their own place or to take you out to a good restaurant regularly, which proves it. And of course the worst guys are the married ones who pretend to be single.

 

[charlotte craig]

Hmm i can possibly help answer a bit of that one as i've had my share of bad boys

But i've always left them once i've woken up
But i still hold a torch for many of them

We fall for them because certain ones of us are attracted to the magnatism and spontinaity, but mainly because we want to be the ones to tame them. to some women that is the ultimate ego boost, to know that many others women have been here but 'He's mine now' and 'I'll be able to keep him/ tame him'
How absoultely ridiculous....but very true
You'll often find that the bad boys are narcissistic/ psychopathic etc (trust me i know) and this makes them incredibly charming and clever, and manipulative and controlling but you don't find out the 2nd bit until you are trapped

I'm ranting
lol

The big no-no's for me now from men are
-lack self confidence (i'm not here to fix you)
-no drive (i'm not here to support you)
-sit and moan about life without trying to do anything
-not interested in getting to know me,
-just want arm candy/ ego boost

it's like therapy this place lmao x

agree with this list- the worst are maybe the guys who are just after sex - they can go to the local brothel and pay for it there.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

If

Actually, it's often been the opposite here. It's typically the MEN who think women are evil, souiless creatures who only lie. Didn't really take much for you to jump to that conclusion.
First, yes, I'm friends with him.
Second, there's an emoji....if I was serious, I wouldn't put emojis after.
And third, I'm my own person so I don't care if my attitude is worth catching and judging from what some of the people on this forum think of me and spread about me, I very much doubt anyone wants to be like me.

ugh Cali… wheres your frying pan? That would solve everything

 

[sparkyn98]

Sorry your marriage was so awful that being alone seems joyful. I herd something that I try apply in my life. Attitudes are contagious is your worth catching.

Bro... my marriage ended because my husband DIED from cancer. He was 41 and I was 36. I had 3 boys, all under 16 years old.

My friends actually tend to gravitate towards me for laughter and love because my attitude towards life is pretty great!!

Choosing to not get married again doesn't make me LESS of a person.

I apologize that my input made you feel a certain way. I will refrain from contributing to your posts from here on out.
Blessings, sir.

 

[sparkyn98]

Ladies! Lets get shallow…

What colour lipstick do you wear?

I'm a bare lips, chapstick kinda girl, too, @TheRealCallie! Every time I DO wear lipstick, I feel like an imposter. Like, someone is going to point and say, "Look at her trying to act like a grown up!" lolol

 

[user 139760]

Bro... my marriage ended because my husband DIED from cancer. He was 41 and I was 36. I had 3 boys, all under 16 years old.

My friends actually tend to gravitate towards me for laughter and love because my attitude towards life is pretty great!!

Choosing to not get married again doesn't make me LESS of a person.

I apologize that my input made you feel a certain way. I will refrain from contributing to your posts from here on out.
Blessings, sir.

Big hugs, Nerd Mom Boss

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I'm a bare lips, chapstick kinda girl, too, @TheRealCallie! Every time I DO wear lipstick, I feel like an imposter. Like, someone is going to point and say, "Look at her trying to act like a grown up!" lolol

Thats it ladies! Im calling the lipstick police

Honestly I think a pale pink would suit you, stunning

 

[TheRealCallie]

Thats it ladies! Im calling the lipstick police

Honestly I think a pale pink would suit you, stunning

Sorry honey, you're outnumbered on this one. lol

 

[TheRealCallie]

Bro... my marriage ended because my husband DIED from cancer. He was 41 and I was 36. I had 3 boys, all under 16 years old.

My friends actually tend to gravitate towards me for laughter and love because my attitude towards life is pretty great!!

Choosing to not get married again doesn't make me LESS of a person.

I apologize that my input made you feel a certain way. I will refrain from contributing to your posts from here on out.
Blessings, sir.

That's the second time he's made that particular assumption. I'm beginning to think he sees what he wants, not what's actually there....and THAT may be a big cause of his marital problems. I'm sorry, but it doesn't seem to be all on her to me.

 

[Unsigned]

I have a question for the ladies.
How important are presents to women?
I am not a present person. Never was, even as a kid. Didn't want them given to me and not a fan of giving them either.
I think being good to someone on a regular basis is the best possible present.
But over the years I get the impression that presents seem very important to women -- more so than men.
Even though I have never had a girlfriend, I have had "sugar babies" and they've on occasion given me presents that I really did not want.
Sweaters, jackets, etc.. I had no interest in wearing.
Faked being happy about these presents. I still have them in my closet. Have to donate them to goodwill or something.
I even once got a LV wallet -- I think it was a fake, but still, it was bulky and I HATE bulky wallets, but I still had to use it to not hurt the girl's feelings. I went back top my nice skinny wallet after I stopped seeing her.
Can any of the ladies shed light on why presents seem so important to females?
Or am I off base and is this just an individual thing?