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A church member gave me a great compliment on my dress I was wearing. Known her since I was 10 years old and good friends with her son to this day whom is also a part time MTF crossdresser. She has so many memories of me coming to hang around her son and we would dress as girls. She knew he was different from the normal boys around the age of 8
 
I find it a bit curious: put-down language.

Snowflake for example, if I am not incorrect, is used to define some one as, a bit delicate, perhaps easily offended. The preoccupation is one of distaste for the individual and their particulars as being too dainty: like the annoyance of a flower garden in the presence of a heavy construction project and the boots required for the work. It requires taking some offense at some one who is, in this particular case, easily offended. The two can rather have a lot in common, however: the issuer of the put-down and the receiver, if they are both oft to take offense. They are both often offended, one by the other, lol. One may take up great preoccupation and definition as to what and how they are offended, while the other, often continually deflects, parrys, or projects the offense they take. In either case, there seems to be a preoccupation with injury as it pertains to the self, in relation to other. Both in their injury, often seek to injure in return.

There's all kinds of putdown language, apart from general insults of appraisal like: jerk. Pussy, for example, is used to define some one who is weak, wimpy, cowardly (implying that the feminine is inherently weak (and women often use it, which is interesting)). Dick, is another example.

In my appraisal, and perhaps experience, a culture that is highly intolerant of the feminine aspect of the psyche, is one that is a bit mixed up and beside itself, and liable to cause a lot unnecessary trouble and pain for itself... Likewise, though in my opinion not so generally and culturally prevalent, when the masculine is not tolerated, you can have problems as well.

There's a time and place for roughness and coarseness. There's also a time and place for tenderness.

Frankness is not to be conflated with honesty, however. It's a character trait, not a virtue. And honesty is quite sufficient of itself, and need not require any brutality.

A Truth, stands on it's own quite sufficiently. It may be harsh and difficult to some. Other times, it may be tender, sublime, or wondrous beyond description. It may might be rare, esoteric, or common.
 
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Okay, I've seen you talking about how you respect everyone and I see you saying to Just Games that you need to know more about his situation to determine if he is a snowflake or not. Yet you have called people here snowflakes multiple times here and you know nothing about any of us. Snowflake is a derogatory term, so how exactly is that being respectful?
And that's not even including the other insults you've used here.
You are on a forum with people who are lonely and have low self esteem, among other issues. Don't you think that deserves a bit more investigation or actually getting to know some of these people before you go off half cocked and insult them?
Snowflake 😁
 
Yes, great rebuttal, after the fact. I'm glad that you decided to follow in someone else's footsteps and insult instead of actually having a civil conversation. That says a hell of a lot more about you than it does about me. Speaks volumes, actually.
 
I don't want to work. I wonder if I'll get extra hours this week. I need to check into that other job too, see if I actually want to bother with it. Wish I could look at the chat room for that project, but I guess I could check the reddit page and see what they say about it.
 
Yes, great rebuttal, after the fact. I'm glad that you decided to follow in someone else's footsteps and insult instead of actually having a civil conversation. That says a hell of a lot more about you than it does about me. Speaks volumes, actually.
Thank you for the great rebuttal I appreciate it, I'm happy to have a civil conversation, by the way I follow in nobodys footsteps, and your right it does speak volumes about me, not that you have a clue who I am, I don't do Woke or snowflakes, I believe in freedom of speech, you know first amendment, if you don't like it don't listen to it
 
I find it a bit curious: put-down language.

Snowflake for example, if I am not incorrect, is used to define some one as, a bit delicate, perhaps easily offended. The preoccupation is one of distaste for the individual and their particulars as being too dainty: like the annoyance of a flower garden in the presence of a heavy construction project and the boots required for the work. It requires taking some offense at some one who is, in this particular case, easily offended. The two can rather have a lot in common, however: the issuer of the put-down and the receiver, if they are both oft to take offense. They are both often offended, one by the other, lol. One may take up great preoccupation and definition as to what and how they are offended, while the other, often continually deflects, parrys, or projects the offense they take. In either case, there seems to be a preoccupation with injury as it pertains to the self, in relation to other. Both in their injury, often seek to injure in return.

There's all kinds of putdown language, apart from general insults of appraisal like: jerk. Pussy, for example, is used to define some one who is weak, wimpy, cowardly (implying that the feminine is inherently weak (and women often use it, which is interesting)). Dick, is another example.

In my appraisal, and perhaps experience, a culture that is highly intolerant of the feminine aspect of the psyche, is one that is a bit mixed up and beside itself, and liable to cause a lot unnecessary trouble and pain for itself... Likewise, though in my opinion not so generally and culturally prevalent, when the masculine is not tolerated, you can have problems as well.

There's a time and place for roughness and coarseness. There's also a time and place for tenderness.

Frankness is not to be conflated with honesty, however. It's a character trait, not a virtue. And honesty is quite sufficient of itself, and need not require any brutality.

A Truth, stands on it's own quite sufficiently. It may be harsh and difficult to some. Other times, it may be tender, sublime, or wondrous beyond description. It may might be rare, esoteric, or common.

A Truth, stands on it's own quite sufficiently. It may be harsh and difficult to some. Other times, it may be tender, sublime, or wondrous beyond description. It may might be rare, esoteric, or common.
I'm thinking that I really like how you define things.
 
Yes, great rebuttal, after the fact. I'm glad that you decided to follow in someone else's footsteps and insult instead of actually having a civil conversation. That says a hell of a lot more about you than it does about me. Speaks volumes, actually.
You're one to call the kettle black when you said you used to be like this. The thing is with you, you had an issue with yourself and fixed your behavior. I don't have any issues and not fixing mine. I'm exactly who I am, and quite aware of my behaviors and actions. If you can't stand me that much, stop letting myself get to you, move on with your life, and ignore me from here on out. You obviously are getting something out of it to keep coming back.
 
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The issue with you is, you had an issue with your behavior and corrected it
Yeah, you're right, I did have an issue with my behavior. I didn't want to continue being a tactless dick (that's how I was, how I saw myself in hindsight...and I'm sure how plenty others here saw me...you can define yourself however you want), because I'm better than that. Because people deserve better than that.

What I can't stand is the way you talk to other people here. I can handle it just fine. I mean, I would prefer a bit more original insults instead of the tired ones everyone is using today, but hey, it is what it is. Like I said before. I will continue to speak up when someone attacks people here for no reason. I will continue to be the voice for those who don't feel they have one yet. I will continue to advocate for anyone who I feel needs to be advocated for. If that makes me "woke," if that makes me a "snowflake," so be it. I actually have respect for people because I treat them like people, not my own little punching bag just because they disagreed with me.

But go ahead. Reply to me telling me how horrible I am, how much better you are, how much I can't handle you, how much I should ignore you. Get the last word. It's okay, you can have it. I won't respond to you again about this matter unless you attack someone else.
 
Yeah, you're right, I did have an issue with my behavior. I didn't want to continue being a tactless dick (that's how I was, how I saw myself in hindsight...and I'm sure how plenty others here saw me...you can define yourself however you want), because I'm better than that. Because people deserve better than that.

What I can't stand is the way you talk to other people here. I can handle it just fine. I mean, I would prefer a bit more original insults instead of the tired ones everyone is using today, but hey, it is what it is. Like I said before. I will continue to speak up when someone attacks people here for no reason. I will continue to be the voice for those who don't feel they have one yet. I will continue to advocate for anyone who I feel needs to be advocated for. If that makes me "woke," if that makes me a "snowflake," so be it. I actually have respect for people because I treat them like people, not my own little punching bag just because they disagreed with me.

But go ahead. Reply to me telling me how horrible I am, how much better you are, how much I can't handle you, how much I should ignore you. Get the last word. It's okay, you can have it. I won't respond to you again about this matter unless you attack someone else.
What a hero!
 

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