I have been friends with a lately for the past 2 yrs. And our younger daughters are on the same team. My older son also graduated with her daughter. Anyway, turns out, i am not as friendly with her as i believed. I value her but she doesn't value me in the same way. So, she had a graduation party and literally Everyone was invited except me and my family. It feels shameful to even talk about it. I honestly dont' know what makes me the person who is excluded. Guess i never will get it whatever it is. I am a professional person, i dress decently, i try to be polite. I really dont' know what it is that people are looking for anymore.