What men vs what women want

[LonelyLola]

Every scientist has not proven that. Many scientists works in other fields that have night to do with behaviour and reproduction.

That being said, human behaviour is not as cut and dry as needing to procreate because biologically we evolved that way. The are all kinds of reasons we turn our as differently as we do.


Has anyone seen the episode of Seinfeld where George and his girlfriend can't have sex for 2 months or something, and just knowing sex was off the table allowed him to use his whole brain. Loved it.

If sex is so ******* important than go pay for it. But I bet it want be fulfilling and will just leave you as bitter as you come across now.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Same old, same old.

If I don't complain, everything is wonderful. If I complain, suddenly I'm bitter.

 

[LonelyLola]

Complaining only helps if you want to make a change. Right now you want sex and you aren't getting it, you want that to change. Well, if you can't pick up a girl, then pay for an escort. Otherwise, change your attitude and stop letting it torture you.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I just re-read my posts, and I realized that I did misunderstand him, become argumentative, and was bitter.

I'm sorry about that. I'll try to keep calm and debate without getting personal.

 

[Badjedidude]

Well THAT escalated quickly.

lol

 

[ardour]

okay... so because guys have posted similar topics in the past that gives you the all-clear to condemn any man that does so as an idiot.

It's not about TOPIC - it's about attitude towards the opposite sex. And, I will go ahead and point out that YOU are one of those who make such comments. Also, I never called anyone an idiot.

yeah an "attitude" deduced from the OP's non-offensive opinions in the opening post.

All you see is another man complaining (nothing worse, right?) So he gets the ritual condemnation.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

The truth is that men OR women who are lonely have a right to vent.

If you don't want to hear about it on here, advertise this forum differently, because I assumed that this was a place for you to vent about your issues, and for people to give you advice. I'm sorry, but advice such as "just forget about girls" isn't helpful. If I could forget about girls, I would, but they are 50% of the general population, and I notice attractive women...even if they don't notice me.

 

[VanillaCreme]

And what girl would take home a guy who was severely anxious?

A kind of girl who cares about a guy. Not talking about the whole bar scene, but about actually knowing someone. Not every dismisses people who seem or are anxious.

Are you arguing science?

Isn't that how science is done? Someone claims something, someone else tests and explores, and then claims that the previous claim is not completely accurate. Even if science were all true and real, there's always someone claiming otherwise... Some things are just theories.

 

[Edward W]

okay... so because guys have posted similar topics in the past that gives you the all-clear to condemn any man that does so as an idiot.

It's not about TOPIC - it's about attitude towards the opposite sex. And, I will go ahead and point out that YOU are one of those who make such comments. Also, I never called anyone an idiot.

I do know several people who have left the forum due to there being a frequent presence of misogynistic sentiments. It's unfortunate; they were good members.

******* read this.

I can't believe this ******* thread is still going, if this is how this site is going to go then I'm ******* leaving. Yes I'm swearing, if you knew me and the fact that that I don't normally swear you'd know how royally pissed off this entire thread has made me.

I'm embarrassed to be a man reading some of this crap, we're sounding like a bunch of women hating dicks.

If you want to swap stories of how all women are trying to screw you, **** off and go make your own forum. I actually like it here and don't want half the members to want to leave, then who would be left? Oh joy.

Today I don't give a flying **** if you're lonely, your problems or issues, if this is the attitude you present to the world then perhaps that's the ******* reason.

Because lets face it, it's not your fault, half the population of the ******* planet all conspired to screw you over, make you the daddy of their children or just ignore you because their life is so much easier and they can be picky and you can't. Makes more sense, right?

I'm sorry if that makes me sound like an insensitive prick, we all have problems, I don't know yours and I'm truly sorry for anything bad and unjust thats happened to you, but only you can decide to make a change, and bitching and whining won't change ****. Changing your way of thinking might.

So thanks for this thread, I think we all feel a little happier and more educated now. Job well ******* done.

 

[ladyforsaken]

(God, I hate this month. First my nephew gets hospitalized, then I fall and hurt myself, and then my mom gets into a car accident! If it wasn't for bad luck, I'd have none at all...)

Sorry to hear about all that happening this month, Muse. Hope your nephew and mom are okay! :\

okay... so because guys have posted similar topics in the past that gives you the all-clear to condemn any man that does so as an idiot.

It's not about TOPIC - it's about attitude towards the opposite sex. And, I will go ahead and point out that YOU are one of those who make such comments. Also, I never called anyone an idiot.

I do know several people who have left the forum due to there being a frequent presence of misogynistic sentiments. It's unfortunate; they were good members.

******* read this.

I can't believe this ******* thread is still going, if this is how this site is going to go then I'm ******* leaving. Yes I'm swearing, if you knew me and the fact that that I don't normally swear you'd know how royally pissed off this entire thread has made me.

I'm embarrassed to be a man reading some of this crap, we're sounding like a bunch of women hating dicks.

If you want to swap stories of how all women are trying to screw you, **** off and go make your own forum. I actually like it here and don't want half the members to want to leave, then who would be left? Oh joy.

Today I don't give a flying **** if you're lonely, your problems or issues, if this is the attitude you present to the world then perhaps that's the ******* reason.

Because lets face it, it's not your fault, half the population of the ******* planet all conspired to screw you over, make you the daddy of their children or just ignore you because their life is so much easier and they can be picky and you can't. Makes more sense, right?

I'm sorry if that makes me sound like an insensitive prick, we all have problems, I don't know yours and I'm truly sorry for anything bad and unjust thats happened to you, but only you can decide to make a change, and bitching and whining won't change ****. Changing your way of thinking might.

So thanks for this thread, I think we all feel a little happier and more educated now. Job well ******* done.

Oh no.. Edward...
*bigbigbigbighug*

 

[LonelyInAtl]

Honestly, not everyone will end up with a mate. Some people will end up alone. It sucks.

And I thought I was the only one who didn't subscribe to the "Someone for everyone" philosophy!

 

[Poguesy]

A good ol' primitive discussion on sexual frustration.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Whatever. I am done with this.

In fact, I am done being an adult. I want to go back before relationships ever existed. If you want me, you can find me in my fort, coloring.

 

[EveWasFramed]

okay... so because guys have posted similar topics in the past that gives you the all-clear to condemn any man that does so as an idiot.

It's not about TOPIC - it's about attitude towards the opposite sex. And, I will go ahead and point out that YOU are one of those who make such comments. Also, I never called anyone an idiot.

yeah an "attitude" deduced from the OP's non-offensive opinions in the opening post.

All you see is another man complaining (nothing worse, right?) So he gets the ritual condemnation.

Again, no. It wasn't the original post I took issue with, but some of the later posts. You are just plain wrong.

 

[Edward W]

And I realize I am probably not the one you are addressing this to, because there were pages before I jumped in with my comments. But I can understand why guys are complaining, because it is hard being a single guy in the dating game. Some guys just give up.

And thats fine, I've been there, I KNOW it's hard, but I didn't start ranting that all women are evil or something

I know I'm being dramatic here, but how would we feel if someone started a 'All men are complete *********' thread?

I feel this thread should die. Perhaps a new one can be created thats a bit more positive and involving, rather than accusing in nature. I don't know.

 

[EveWasFramed]

And I realize I am probably not the one you are addressing this to, because there were pages before I jumped in with my comments. But I can understand why guys are complaining, because it is hard being a single guy in the dating game. Some guys just give up.

And thats fine, I've been there, I KNOW it's hard, but I didn't start ranting that all women are evil or something

I know I'm being dramatic here, but how would we feel if someone started a 'All men are complete *********' thread?

I feel this thread should die. Perhaps a new one can be created thats a bit more positive and involving, rather than accusing in nature. I don't know.

A very good suggestion - one I will make happen immediately.